What I see with Ramona's body is this: she is sway-backed and pigeon-toed. ( I am sway-backed, myself). But add to it that she has an odd core. I know that she is fit, but she doesn't seem to have a six pack, but rather a belly that tends to arch forward. If that makes sense.
It becomes even more evident to me when she's had too much to drink. When she is walking around wasted with Lu, you can really tell that she doesn't have it in check. Butt back, stomach out, and toes in. As for her monster boobs, they wouldn't look so bad if she would dress them properly. But since she has zero self-awareness, she dresses them so inappropriately for her age. IMHO.
In regards to Bethany's tequila tour, I really don't think that we saw the whole experience. I believe she was meeting with people that didn't want to be on camera. I know there are a lot of Bethany haters here, and this isn't taking up for her, but I think we only saw the part that was for production purposes. I am sure what concerned her regarding Ramona was that she was going to say something inappropriate that would end up on camera that could hurt her image. Just like she did at the Kodak event with Jill. Weren't sponsorships lost over that? IIRC.