I agree. It's weird -- if they see that someone wants to be on TV, they move the camera off them, but when someone asks not to be filmed, they blow him off.
I don't like the patronizing attitude some of the cops have. Calling people "bro" and "brother". They're not fooling anyone. Also the Come to Jesus/Fatherly talks about getting their life straight -- these people have been hearing that for years. If they didn't listen to mom, dad, grandma, grandpa, teachers, preachers, siblings, employers, friends -- they're not going to listen to you either.