S11. E06: Love Me or Leave Me

[TwirlyGirly]

Sarper lives out his Baywatch dream. Mahdi reveals that he'd stay in the US if he and Stevi broke up. Alliya confronts Shawn about being monogamous. The throuple establishes new rules for their relationship. Joan meets Greg's friends.

 

➡️Air date: 3/23/2025

 

Your 90 Day Fiancé Season 11 Cheat Sheet.

(Can't put the names to the faces? Head over to the topic for S11.E01: I Love You...and You for photos of each couple.)

Out || Back With the Old and In With the New!

First, the old:

Shekinah (Los Angeles, CA) and Sarper (Istanbul, Turkey)

Shawn (Los Angeles, CA) and Alliya (Rio De Janeiro, Brazil)

Jessica (Torrington, WY) and Juan (Cali, Colombia)

And now, the new:

Stevi (Hattiesburg, MS) and Mahdi (Tehran, Iran)

Mark (West Ossipee, NH) and Mina (Paris, France)

Throuple: Matt and Amani (San Diego, CA) and Any (Tijuana, Mexico)

Gregory (Islip Terrace, NY) and Joan (Kampala, Uganda)

[AR Traveler]

Before tonight's fun begins, it's occurred to me that both this and the delicious Fun with Felons involve people making bad decisions and getting involved in problematic relationships.  Great snark but not great for real life!  By contrast, many of us have a lot of stress going on with family or other things, and if our snarking makes us laugh and virtually give one another high-5's and hugs, then I don't call that a bad idea at all!  Thanks to you all.

[Tango64]

You’re too dirty to lie on the new bed but you’re okay with putting your filthy international luggage right on the bed? Okay…

[renatae]

I am having great trouble with this iteration. Simply can't find anyone to tolerate, much less root for.

Shekinah. I think we all agree we've had a surfeit of the duo.

Throuple. Disgusting, and they didn't even think this through before deciding. Typical for this show.

Shawn. Pretentious, among other things.

Mark and Mina. Daughter thinks she can dictate his life. Mina is pretty insufferable on her own. Mark thinks Mina should suck up to his daughter's behavior because, well, she's his daughter.

Gregory. Mama's boy who thinks his wife should be content living with his mother while he is too lazy to take a job with great benefits because he doesn't think it will fulfill his dreams - which are exactly what?

They've made me really crabby tonight, and now my power's just gone out.  😬

Heading over to read y'all's snark to make myself feel better! Luckily, the power was only out a little while!

Edited March 24 by renatae

[Boxer Woman]

On 3/23/2025 at 6:20 PM, AR Traveler said:

Fun with Felons

Is there a show by this name?  I love train wreck "reality" shows, pretty much the only TV I watch and usually find out about them through this site, find out when they're on through next-episode.net then download through Scene Release but neither of those sites are showing me anything by this name.  I know about Love/Life After Lockup but unfortunately cannot watch it as it is one of the few shows for which I cannot find a reliable download option (YouTube works occasionally but is too frustrating to use as most of the time they are loops not full episodes and/or have terrible audio/video quality, not worth it to me to search extensively for entire episodes with acceptable (BTW to this day I cannot see or even think about the word "acceptable" without thinking of Muhammad/Danielle LOL) quality there) (I don't have a TV).

[1011101010001]

9 hours ago, Boxer Woman said:

Is there a show by this name?  I love train wreck "reality" shows, pretty much the only TV I watch and usually find out about them through this site, find out when they're on through next-episode.net then download through Scene Release but neither of those sites are showing me anything by this name.  I know about Love/Life After Lockup but unfortunately cannot watch it as it is one of the few shows for which I cannot find a reliable download option (YouTube works occasionally but is too frustrating to use as most of the time they are loops not full episodes and/or have terrible audio/video quality, not worth it to me to search extensively for entire episodes with acceptable (BTW to this day I cannot see or even think about the word "acceptable" without thinking of Muhammad/Danielle LOL) quality there) (I don't have a TV).

You might like Inmate to Roommate which is on a different channel than those shows.

[Red Bridey]

Nah, we hardy gang of snarkers just have fun with the felons on Love After/During Lockup. It's our Friday date. Unless you get a pass from the warden, then you're excused. 

[Boxer Woman]

23 hours ago, 1011101010001 said:

You might like Inmate to Roommate which is on a different channel than those shows.

Thanks, I have watched every episode of this show and plan to continue.

[Boxer Woman]

11 hours ago, Red Bridey said:

Nah, we hardy gang of snarkers just have fun with the felons on Love After/During Lockup. It's our Friday date. Unless you get a pass from the warden, then you're excused. 

LOL cool, thanks for the explanation, am glad I'm not missing yet another mess of a show about people dating convicts.  I haven't tried to find Love/Life After/During Lockup episodes in several months due to previous inaccessibility issues but may try again soon and see if maybe it's become more available, don't understand why it's so hard to find as popular as it is, when far less popular shows are widely available.  Another issue is those shows are referred to by different season and episode numbers in various sources which makes it difficult to even know what numbers to search for.

Years ago I made a horrible dating mistake with a really terrible person, was not aware of his previous criminal record which included many years in prison (I used to not check for criminal records of people I date but ever since him I thoroughly research this before dating anyone).  After I broke up with him he attempted to get me arrested by lying to cops with a bunch of BS resulting in a SWAT raid on my house, told them I had held him hostage, was a major drug dealer and a bunch of other stuff that was completely untrue, was terrifying, was barely able to secure my dogs in crates so they wouldn't get shot, I had a gun put to my head and now have PTSD from that ordeal, but after ransacking my place and interrogating me for hours they finally realized he was full of shit and I've never been arrested.

Anyway, I keep track of his whereabouts at all times for obvious reasons, he's been arrested a few more times since then and is currently in prison for at least the next few years.  I am sure he's trying to meet women in an effort to have a place to go when released, I'm going to find out where he's advertising so I can pretend to be someone else and totally fuck with him, should be fun.  What happened with him makes me extra interested in reality shows involving felons.

[magemaud]

Watching tonight’s “First Look” and first I was horrified to see little Maria strapped into that shoddy stroller seat instead of a real car seat but nothing prepared me for the scene at Jessica’s. Her two little hellions run into the door- less bedroom and jump on Juan and Jessica tangled up in a pile of blankets and sheets, then almost as an afterthought, Jessica lifts little David out of the pile of bedding! 

Edited 23 hours ago by magemaud

[1011101010001]

The LAL shows are aired on an obscure cable channel called WeTV.  They are also available on demand on a streaming app called AllBlk. There are so many seasons of the original and the spinoffs it might be worth subscribing to the app for a month or two to binge them all.  Looks like there is a free 7-day trial and it’s $6.99 per month which isn’t crazy expensive.

Edited Yest. at 05:39 PM by 1011101010001

[magemaud]

This article sheds some light on Greg’s background but to refer to him as a “plumber” is a stretch! 
https://greaterlongisland.com/islip-terrace-plumber-stars-on-90-day-fiance-in-search-for-love/