While I can't speak for others, I know that I personally judged Andi a bit more harshly because it's the second time we see her go off on someone for telling her things she herself tells the guys. She tells Eric he doesn't open up to her enough, and when he turns it back on her, she becomes livid. She tells Juan Pablo he's dismissive of other women, but won't hear anything he has to say about her.
There's also the fact that I never liked Emily, so her Kalon reaction was just funny to me, while I am actually enjoying and liking Andi as the Bachelorette, so these "episodes" disappoint me more.