Apparently there are two groups here watching two different shows. One group sees a show with Jen as an argumentative, cackling, self-absorbed, cold woman who either feeds her children too much food, not enough food, food that is too healthy or food that is primarily junk. She repeats what Bill says, demands to help the pediatrician assess her child and lets her poor husband wait on her hand and foot while she seemingly enjoys milking her cancer diagnosis. A role that literally begs the viewer to "snark" and criticize, all based on snippets of life that are presented to the viewers in a short span of time. The second group sees Jen as a loving mother who is doing her best to meet the needs of her growing family while trying to deal with having cancer and adjust to being the new mom of 2 toddlers from other countries. The second group has been described as putting Jen on a pedestal and drinking the "Jen kool-ade." To tell you the truth, if I hadn't started watching the show before coming to this website, I would think Jen was either a Kardashian, a Momzilla or one of the "Real Housewives From Wherever." Maybe we need to have 2 separate threads, one for critics of Jen and one for supporters because frankly, reading all this negative input is offsetting and frustrating (speaking just for myself, of course).