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read this and it suddenly became crystal clear to me as to why the paired up siblings are separated at a certain age, for example Joy and whoever the boy talking-head partner was. hmm....

well said, Mypeoplearenordic, well said!

first time posting here but looong time reader. don't know how to copy another post in a box like you guys do so this is my best effort, for now: 'To me, Josh and his pontificating have always come across as false bravado. I think he was painfully aware of his lack of education, and tried to make up for it with his fancy speeches, and using big words (often in the improper context).' i do think this is acccurate. in fact, there is much on this forum that i believe is right on the money. as for josh, i think his guilt and embarrassment may have led to his unhealthy lifestyle (eating) as well as what happened when he was a teen. i do not release him from responsibility but i do see where the only examples he had were two very sexually active parents both in the bedroom and blatantly in his face in their daily life. as for the girls involved in this, i am so desperetly sad for them. i pray that they will realize their innocence in this mess and move forward with positive life changes. i think about them every day and wonder how they are. i know, from experience, that it takes years and years to recover from molestation to the point that it does not cross your mind every single day.

hi all. i was on TWoP but posted so infrequently that i cant even remember what name i used!!! gonna give this a shot and see if i can do better.