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Why does Brittany look like a completely different person with glasses & no makeup??? 🤨

Sick of Chelsea constantly asking Jim the same questions over & over & over again. 🙄

WHY DOES JESS LIKE JIMMY?!!! I'm dying to know!!! She said he's going to choke when he sees her, she's gunna die when she sees his fugly self!! 🤣🤣 Too bad she didn't like Trevor, they're both the better looking ones out of that foursome.

Kenneth ain't giving masculine to me. 🤷‍♀️ These guys are not goodlooking & have bad hair.

WTF was Matt talking about America & the viewers. What was he trying to do??? Leave early & meet them instead of propose??? Geez. He seems worse than eye drops guy.

Clay's another weirdo. How dare he basically require her to describe her looks. WRONG SHOW!!! He shouldn't have been allowed on the show! That middle part in her hair ain't it.

What a weirdo!!!! How's he gunna present a list of questions then run when they're asked back?!!! That's a conversation!!! He really didn't seem like he actually wanted to give anything a chance & ran to avoid being rejected. 🤷‍♀️ I'm shocked he finally stopped running & talked to AD. Don't appreciate his other Amber dates not being shown.

So. My takeaways: people looking for reasons to quit will find them, people who don't ask questions because they're too scared of the answers will have to face reality eventually, someone working their own agenda only lasts for so long & they'll end up solo, people should worry about how they come off to their partner, not the viewers, don't "protect" feelings by withholding the truth & don't use negative language, use the positive opposite, the person is responsible for getting what they want, they can't just expect to get it without asking & if they ask for it & their partner refuses, let it go or end it. If someone believes their partner is against them, end it.

The women were over the "making me look bad" & "protecting them" BS! WHAT "constructive & respectful" words did Brennan say??? He refused to answer questions!!! It's really easy to avoid negatively language, say the antonym! DUHHH!!! Then there's Becca who used negative words & Austin's stuck on how they made him look bad. So one spouse said nothing & one spouse said the wrong thing & both lost, neither spouse was happy! 🤷‍♀️ What was Clare calling Cam a liar for???? Why is she trying to be relevant?!!! He invited Brennan to hang out & double date when it's over & told her not to tell Emily? Uh. And??? Oh. Plays into the "silencing" complaint the women have. Cam lost it on that. Clare really had no place in the conversation since they were long over. 🙄

What the helllllll?!!!! WHY was Austin lying about meeting up with producer?!!! SHADY!!!! Then when Becca asked why he's not being honest he deflected asking when he's ever said anything "defamatory, bad, or insulting"? WHAT?!! ANSWER THE EFFING QUESTION LIAR!!! Their D Day was reminiscent of Alexis & Justin & similarly crashed & burned shortly after. 😬 I feel like women unleash when they're done because they're not supposed to if they want to stay together, they're supposed to keep everything in check. It's refreshing to see the realness even though it signifies the end to the illusion. It was a strange end that neither of them would say it, but alluded to it. Like a bad game of ping pong. She still wasn't strong enough to outright say it's over. Just that he'll find someone. So awkward they hashed that out in front of everyone, with the other women chiming in while their relationship blew up. Bet Michael & Chloe wished they weren't there. 😅 Orion was probably relieved he wasn't in any drama.

Brennan's "reflection" was HILARIOUS!!! Before, he would run & not give it his all or give it a full chance, but now sees the value in that?!!! HA! HOW DID HE DO THAT?!!! Is anyone gunna bother to ask him that?!!! We're rapidly running out of time!!! My best guess is had it been "real life," he would've ghosted or ended it. He stayed because he was convinced to & obligated to, not to give it a chance. Emily's assertion is correct! & WHAT is the value in "not running"? What other bs can he say??? I disagree with that assessment. It's a failed experiment because the outcome is the same. I've experimented with continuing on when I would normally leave just to confirm the probable outcome & I have, no more experiments necessary. 🤣 It's a matter of mindset & if you really want to & can work with the person. He was always out & that was never gunna change. She's right about possibly changing things he didn't like & really mattered, he never even gave her the chance to by not telling her. These fools think "bad" habits are part of who the person is & they don't want to change them. That's WRONG! Some things can be changed/improved & it might not be changing who a person is & so what if it does if it's for the better? Don't you want someone to be better? They think their stranger spouse is just gunna be & do everything they like?!! GET REAL!!!!!!

My thoughts exactly!!! Like, when have we ever seen things magically get better once the cameras are gone??? I just don't understand that approach. It makes no sense! What was the point of the first 8 weeks? To act like everything's fine & that's it? 🤨 If he was trying to look good on camera, he failed. She was right to question it.

Is this really the night before D Day??? YIKES!!! It's the worst one yet! They're all split! Austin moving out can't seriously be viewed otherwise.🤨

Brennan wasted no time smashing Emily's delusions to bits during that dinner, huh? He basically said her accident got her confused, expecting him to be a husband. 🤣 Glad he said how she was negative cuz she just dismissed him, saying she wasn't. What'd she say she hated? Was it serious? The vows statement was tacky. She also joked about them potentially crashing & burning after the honeymoon like they did. She was jaded, it was understandable. If he hadn't moved into the apartment for her, she wouldn't have been in the accident? Um. Okay. And? Is he blaming her for accident? Oh. She said if he hadn't stayed & stepped up after the accident, they wouldn't be friends. She said she convinced him to continue so she wasn't robbed of the experience. 🙄 She's not a mind-reader, yet didn't bother to ask if he just wanted to be friends? Or he refused to give a straight answer, which is the answer. She asked the "red flags," but I want to know how he tried if he was out??? By just being there??? SO WHAT?!! He's such a liar!!! He was out & that was never gunna change & he needs to own that! She really thought they'd continue on after that dinner?!! On what planet?!! That seemed like an official end to me. Then she confronted him on a video call about dating other women?!! For what? Where's the proof? What'd he wanna talk about after he moved out? She shouldn't have hugged him goodbye. She shouldn't have been there at all. 🙄

So sick of the lack of follow-up!!!! WHY does Austin like Becca "in that way"? HOW does he show it??? But no, she just sits there & feels it ain't adding up & that's where they stay. Going nowhere!!! It's like they don't want to understand or resolve it, just state their points. So stupid. Waste of time! 🙄🤷‍♀️

That jacket moment was very telling. That should've been the most clarifying moment for Becca. He cared more about his jacket. She said she was cold & was getting his jacket because his was fleece-lined. Sarcasm to express a dislike is so bad. There were so many better ways to express that! & clay on his jacket??? 🤨 BIG EFFIN DEAL!!! Then saying him asking for explanations is how he's not being a pushover??? HUHHH??? Be careful what you wish for, I guess. 🤪 More like, she should've explained what that meant & he should've asked!!! 🙄 Him not asking for explanations is him not thinking for himself?!! WHAAAA?!! Combative is a very strong word with a negative association, like violent. She should've given examples & addressed it AT THAT TIME!!! It's weird they're complaining about stuff later. I disagree with the negative words. I find them unnecessary. Just say what you want. That being said, telling your truth shouldn't be taken as making someone look bad. So, that should be yet another moment of clarity for Becca. He seems more concerned about her negative words, making him look bad, than the behavior that caused her to use those words. He asked her the solution, where's his solution?!! He's in control of himself! It seems like he's stuck believing she made him look bad. That's his choice of thinking so he can own it. He moved out because his friend told him not to change who he is to make it work?!! Oh. It's over! Becca wasn't strong enough to leave knowing she wanted better & wasn't feeling good. 🤷‍♀️

I SCREAMED when they showed that blurred apartment footage!!!! DAMNNNN!!! They exposed them like THAT?!?!! TOO MUCH!!! We should've gotten a warning!!! Geez!!! 🙈 What's next is bow chica wow wow & Chloe doesn't know what that is, but she just said that?!!! Huhhh? Okay. Sure. Sex shop assignment?!!! SERIOUSLY?!!! Did no one get an intimacy basket? Becca & Austin did the obstacle course, that was their intimacy basket? 🤔 So why are Chloe & Michael ready for a sex shop but not an intimacy basket? 🤨🙄 Michael said he's a 6.5 on that scale. That's surprising. He's a good sport. I get Chloe laughing. It must be so uncomfortable ON CAMERA WITH OTHER PEOPLE. She wasn't laughing in that blurred video. 🤷‍♀️

Cam makes no sense saying he'd say yes if Clare does. They really should've probed him about that. What is he saying yes to? Divorcing later??? Surely, he didn't mean to stay married & live like they're living. FOR WHAT?!! He can't seriously believe anything is different between them & they'll change. He's seeming delusional like Emily, while Clare seems past it like Brennan.

OMG Becca complained about their 1st night of the retreat AGAIN?!! He mumbled because she said they didn't need a different bag???? SERIOUSLY?!!! Oh, he feels micromanaged by her...over a damn bag?!! REALLY?!! I don't believe that's really it. Like it's her ignoring & overriding his requests, maybe? 🤔 What was their plan? Tackle tough topics when they know each other better? Yeah. Right. 🤣 How'd that work out for them? Seems like he avoids talking about his dislikes & she talks about her dislikes the wrong way. Classic examples of letting it build until it spills out in a bad way. 🤷‍♀️

I'm mad at Michael letting Chloe wear that bandana badly when he knows how to wear it right. I hope he tried to fix it & that was cut, but I doubt it. I want a partner who would make sure I look right & that would be a strike! I think she misinterprets his "de-escalating" as avoiding conflict. I think keeping things from escalating to an inappropriate level is FANTASTIC!!! We have no idea of what it looks like for them, so her judgment on what her idea is of that is stupid.

Becca's swimsuit was sooooooo much better than that bikini. It was a good style!

They didn't make Clare move out of their apartment?!!! Is she just there for filming? This is the 2nd time since they split she's been filmed in there! GET OUT!!!!

Michael's faces when Chloe said she wanted to go to her apartment for a few days were like, "WTF?!!" Again, I wonder if fear she was quitting crept in. It came off as self-centered & one-sided. She didn't consult with him & just decided. Good thing he's so kind & supportive. I wish he would've said what he was thinking about her deciding that. No hug or kiss goodbye, that was shown, YIKES! 😬 Feels like pulling away. Seems like this experiment is designed for some people to fail because it's so fast & certain types of people can't do that & I guess don't know that til they try it. 🤷‍♀️

How do they show compassion in their marriage? The singles aren't married, so why is Lauren answering? Because she planned it the activity? Uhhh. No. The chat part was so strange. Doing too much.

Lauren's use of the buzzword, "triggered," regarding Chloe being turned off by Michael's clothes was so ridiculous!!! Like. REALLY?!! 🤨🤨 Then Chloe went along with it. HUHHH??? 🙄