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We don't know. All assumptions. Ppl say Matt will kill someone due to his anger mngt issues. Ppl say he is a White Supremist due to his tattoos. Ppl say he will never work an honest job due to lack of having one in the past. It's all speculation here. And the show isn't a documentary.

Yeah, Michael's mother was defintely saying, "that's all I can say." Like she was teasing her. But I think right before she left she actually also said, "that's all I know." And that's prbly all she does know beyond what Meghan knows bc Meghan was there when he got arrested. But why was she being so mysterious and guarded? It felt like she should have arrived at the hotel wearing a trench coat, low brimmed hat, gloves and dark sunglasses. Like wtf was the point? Maybe something was edited out that the audience can't know? I seriously cannot see a woman who claims to be stressed out and sleep deprived driving out to see Meghan only to inform her he will be in for four months. Someone couldn't have texted her or left a message with the hotel or hit her on FB or something? Meghan would have been literally number 856 on the list of ppl I needed to see if I was out of town w/ my teenager and my other child got arrested. Did she just want to see what Meghan looked like in person so she could describe her to Sarah to beat her ass? LOL Like I am trying to think of a reason why that meet up was necessary. Sarah has a white car (kinda sporty) and Michael has a black one (kind of a live a Chrysler 300 deal)? But when and how did he get it? He seemed to have it the moment he and Sarah arrived in NY and it already had NY tags on it. Didn't he ride back from Michigan with Sarah in her white car? When and where did they get Michael's 300? Did a relative follow him and Sarah and drive it to NY for him?

Bc "racial sentencing disparity" is a huge problem in this country. And the scene where Michael was getting arrested made the person think of that problem.

Why was Michael's mother being so weird and stand-offish? And why was she even in NY? Don't they live in Detroit? She and her daughter flew out to NY at the same time Meghan was flying out? And no one thought that would be a bad idea? Why did she drive all the way to Meghan's hotel room? Just to say, "Michael has been arrested. And I know nothing else!" Wasn't that obvious to Meghan when she saw him get handcuffed and taken away? Did Michael tell her to visit Meghan and tell her that? Even though she already knew? Why not just call her? Why was his mother all frantic and saying she hadn't gotten any sleep, etc.? Michael's has been in and out of custody for the last 13 yrs. Why would she even be phased by this? And if she was so anti-Meghan why didn't she say something to her to sabotage the relationship? Why did she just run off like a crazy person? So confused. Does anyone really buy that much stuff in one place? Do ppl actually shop like that? Right, I totally felt that slap! I think Jazzmyne even said she had saved up specifically to buy the stuff. And her mother is out one week and essentially shits on her efforts and replaces everything. Still tricking. Imagine the shame and disgust a little girl must feel knowing her mother is a prostitute? Ugh A really poor choice of wording to use when one particular group of people in this country WERE property. Disgraceful. She did complain in her TH the cops rifled "thru her intimate things." And silly me, I thought she meant her underwear!

Omg Scott's new teeth 8-O And how did Michael fall out of love w Megan so fast?

Right and if he had shown up to the interview in raggedy, worn clothes then he would have gotten dragged for being unprofessional! lol

I'm 46 and I actually say "dead ass" a lot. It's a common NY phrase. I was a little confused by this. Marcelino was very much fixated on Amanda being in their "bed." And at no point did Brittany say, "she was no where near our bed!" So is it possible that Brittany and Amanda frollicked around in the bed after the pool but that was edited out? Or was done when cameras weren't there? If production didn't want us to know that Brittany and Amanda had fooled around in the bed, why weren't Marcelino's "bed" comments edited out, too? Bc Amanda visiting Brittany and going for a dip in the pool is an ENTIRELY different thing that Amanda and Brittany fooling around in the hotel bed she shares w/ Marcelino. One is mostly innocent, the other is a real dumb asshole move by Brittany. Why was left so unclear, I wonder. If she has a car, why do they take Uber everywhere? Didn't she even take an Uber or car service to pick Matt up from prison? (And cars need to be under 7 yrs old and meet other criteria to qualify so hers might not. Maybe Grub Hub's standards aren't as rigorous.) Matt seems like the type who wouldn't want her to work bc he thinks male coworkers would be all over her. Lizzie's strike me as implants (covered in a nice little layer of fat). They seem very firm, erect and round for a woman of her age who has also had a kid. That white dress was little more than a long Kleenex and the girls were like two big round, high melons holding up the straps. There was something very distasteful about what Megan said in the first episode. Do you recall she told us in her TH that she would raise Michael's little girl as her own and that she (Megan) did not expect any contact with or interference from the girl's mother? Unless the girl's mother (Sarah) lost her full parental rights in court due to severe abuse or ongoing drug addiction, there is no way Megan would be able to eclipse Sarah from their lives. And suggesting that she would, in fact, do that is entirely delusional or downright evil. That painted her as a total bitch right from jump.

Not a literal check. I mean, she is claiming she waited until these so-called wedding were fully paid for before suddenly deciding to cancel them and end the relationships. Just doesn't ring true to me. I think she was just embarrassed that she had babies w/ two losers who cheated on her but tried to clean it up and make herself look respectable (they wanted to marry me) and sensible (but I said no bc my self respect does not come with a price tag).

Good point! Ugghhh that miscarriage scene was so inappropriate and painful for me to watch! Molly and Luis' story was very sad and uncomfortable for me to watch bc of Molly's two daughters (whose fathers seemed to not be terribly involved). Especially the situations w/ little Kinsley, who has a disability, and was so clearly disliked by Luis.

Yes and yes. I'm screaming! Natalie doesn't need to defend herself; her prediction came true. She is fully vindicated. (And she's been interviewed on YT and spilled tea everywhere anyway.) Personally, I don't believe she ever paid for two and cancelled two pricey weddings to the baby daddies. Nor do I believe she paid $20k and cancelled a wedding to Jay. She may have been thinking about/planning one or two of these weddings, but I doubt any kind of serious money ever changed hands. The stories just don't makes sense. She got pregnant by a supposedly violently abusive, unfaithful man who wanted to marry her and with whom she remained throughout years of cheating and beating until the very moment she wrote a $60K check and then suddenly walked away? And then did the exact same thing a second time, right afterward? Nah. And then a third time spent $20K and K1 visa fees for another guy but suddenly cancelled bc an exbf anonymously posted racial slurs on a bridal discussion group?? GTFOOH, Ashley.

She could have false teeth or retainers? Lol. I'm hoping that's not the girl's real name, just something Sarah came up with for the show (like Azan/Hassan, etc). And he can't remember it or might say her real name accidentally? Exactly what i said in another group. He's not really "such a nice guy" if he throws his own son under the bus for that ho. Omg yes! I did a double take the first episode & LoL'd!

I'm very worried for Brittany's safety (& confused by her recklessness).

I'm not saying it's off limits. Just that it's boring and not something anyone would need to defend. Married ppl get pregnant and have babies all the time, even when they can't really afford them...FILs never think the SIL is good enough. zzzzz I want to hear about the arrests, cheating, leaked dick pics, (Larissa's) secret children, underage cradle robbing...I want the smut.

She's a married woman (w/ wealthy parents). It's no one's business to grill her about contraception or any of that. She married Forrest Gump and that's just how they get down now. Bring on the drama, plz, Shaun! Jay and Luis and Pedro and Abby and Devar (and someone else) were all island ppl. And Karine and someone else (Kirlyam?) were from small remote villages. None of them spazzed out bc of noise or complicated relationships. They all have tvs, watch movies, access YT and everything Americans do. Immigrating to the US is major culture shock but by the time of the Tell All, they'd all been here for close to 6 months. That just doesn't explain it imo. Definitely not true of all ppl w/ AS/high functioning autism. But I agree, very unlikely he has it.

No, Jazmyne is saying she wants Scott out of the picture. She does not want her mother to move in w/ him. So what alternative is Jazmyne proposing? Lizzie has to live somewhere and be financially supported by someone until she can get a job, right? What do ppl do who don;t have a Scott.

Well, yes, that's what I'm saying. I don't think liking 19 y/o's is real. And he's nice enough looking. DERP

It can involve however many are missing and then two or more anchors. *** I was taken aback by how similar Britany's bunkie and her ex-lover look! *** Does Jazmyne (Lizzie's daughter) have her own place and a great job? Where is she thinking her mother will live, if not w/ Scott, while she gets on her feet? And (seriously) do ppl who were incarcerated for as long as Lizzie, ever reintegrate into society and gain steady employment, not recidivate, etc.?

ITA. Jon is really cute and has that frat boy kind of charisma. He could have his pick of the litter (almost) in Blubberton or whatever that city is. And to keep it 100% real, he strikes me as the type who prefers White American women, the White sorority kind, as that's what his closest friends are. I really cannot see him going thru a year and a half k1 process for a Mexican build-a-bear type who only looks good from 5 feet away and under a couple pounds of make up. And I think he would be INSTANTLY grossed out by her tantrums and jealousy and histrionics. The ~only~ Aspergers vibes I get from Asuelu are 1) the unusual sing song voice and the 2) sensory overload meltdown when the other guests were raising their voices. But nahhhh, I wouldn't arm-chair-diagnose him AS/high functioning autism. I don't think he's smart enough to have AS. Wow never heard of someone "pleading the breast" to avoid self incrimination! LOL But gosh, what could anyone really confront her about? Yes, she and Asuelu are dumb but since when is that against the law or anyone else's business? What's Shaun Robinson going to say? "Explain to us now, Mrs. Asuelu, why you are pregnant!"? LOL

I thought for sure they said they had met in person at a nightclub when he was visiting Mexico. Was that a lie?

It's still a commonly used term. And ppl w/ aspergers often use that name. But no matter what you call it (aspergers or high functioning autism) I just love that Colt is showing so many traits...juxtaposed against Larissa. Comedy!

Do we know it was really Colt? Can you see his face? It's small and ugly? Wow, I'm shocked. LOL Larissa, you lied to us.

Come on now! No one w/ Aspergers uses that defense!

Dead tooth?? I'm going back to look LOL Did he actually file a petition w/ the court for relief? Or did he just verbally declare, "I'm bankrupt!"? Like "tell her to stop asking me for shit!" LOL Does anyone think Fernanda, a k1 bride who doesn't even have a permanent green card, would be awarded anything in a divorce? Not trying to be snarky! i'm genuinely curious how filing would help him. Could she be awarded alimony or would they just stop the permanent green card? And was it ever directly said that he BOUGHT the house they moved into when she got here? Or did he just rent a bigger place?

What specific culture was this? That's not a culture. That's like saying , "I knew some deadbeat dads who lived in Brooklyn...." I am asking were these ppl Bantu, Ibo, Masaai, Latuka, etc. What was the ethnic group?

What specific culture was this? I know there are deadbeats everywhere. And more than typical in impoverished areas. But no expectation at all?