Stripper Glitter

Sometimes you just don't know what you're signing up for...

Oooooo!! Ouch. But I see your point.

Or human.

He could end it, but she could also not be an abusive hag. She wants a relationship, a marriage, but she's in no position to get it. She will never be anything but someone's one night stand at this rate. She has no redeeming qualities. She doesn't try to make herself attractive - and I don't necessarily mean losing weight - make up, hair, the way she dresses. Skinny doesn't equal beautiful just like fat doesn't equal ugly. Her attitude, whining, clinginess, neediness, immaturity, LAZINESS....there's nothing anyone wants long-term there. She will be a throw-away lay (sorry for the crassness but I calls it like I sees it) until and unless she does a lot of self-work and improvement.

MamaDrama - at least I'm not the only one!! ;-) I totally get what the capitalizations mean ;-)

Do you hate us, your fellow PreviouslyTV'ers?? Ugh, pick a style and stick with it, Evelyn. I cringe.

Did he invite her or did she invite herself? Once upon a time when I was but a young SG, I fell for a guy who happened to be the manager of the place where I worked. He came in from CA (I lived in WA then), freshly divorced and lonely. I fell hard. It was semi-mutual but much more on my part. After a few months he transferred back to CA. I was miserable. I sent him letter after letter (like I said, this was awhile ago lol), and in one I announced that I was coming for a visit. Called him about a week before I left, asked if he got my letter. Said he did. I bought a train ticket and choo-choo'd my happity ass (ha had to use it) down to Riverside CA. He wasn't at the train station to meet me....just me and some other guy at the train station, we shared a cab to a hotel, got our (separate, thank you) rooms. (Thinking back on all that now OMG. That guy could've been anyone and done anything to a 21 yr old traveling by herself). The next morning I showed up at the mall where the company store was located and surprised him. Apparently he hadn't been reading my letters. I stayed for a week, trying my damndest to get him to establish a "relationship". Yeah, that didn't work. 6-7 days later I spent the last of my money to take a cab to the train station to go home. It's a full day & night from So Cal to where I got off in WA. I had no food, had my period, and when I called my Dad collect from a stop he yelled at me for not having paid the car insurance. I cried most of the way home. I was devastated at the time but looking back now I just shake my head at my dumb ass - and thank God nothing "worked out" with the guy, or I wouldn't have been in the place to meet my husband <3 Anywho....all that to say....I thought it was a mutual thing, I thought he knew and accepted that I was coming to visit, but really I invited myself and was not welcome. He tolerated me but he didn't really want anything to do with me. It may well be the same with Nicole & Azan.

If Azan had behaved at Nicole the way she did at him, people would be screaming DV. While I abhor phrases like "fat ass" (and yes I am overweight and have been referred to in that manner) the fact does remain Nicole IS quite a bit larger than Azan, and I do believe she could hurt him as much if not more than he could hurt her. She has size on her side, he has testosterone and fitness. I think they might balance out.

I 100% guarantee Nicole is like this with any man she's involved with. We are seeing her true colors, and they aren't pretty. She was abusive to Azan and it's not the first time she's treated someone that way.

Married for 23 years. Didnt have a bachelorette party and if I'd had one, I would not have wanted strippers. Ew.

I just listened to her on one of her IG posts. It is patently awful. Just awful. Much worse than anything she has on YouTube.

I have been waiting, based on what she has said, but really I have seen just "a guy" who knows his own mind. He does not come across to me as violent, controlling, or even hot-headed. I think he blusters a bit, and I'm not certain how I would feel if my husband was like him, but I have zero alarms in my head about him. And like I said up-thread, I think when he smiles he looks really nice and it seems very genuine.

Word. A couple of years ago I was regularly (read: Nearly every Saturday night) going to our local casino's sports bar/night club to hang out with friends, listen to the band, and dance my ass off. My husband was totally fine with it and even dropped me off/picked me up. He trusts me, knew the friends I was with, and that I am friends with people who work there so was safe from creepers or whatever. I still go but not as much as I'd like to. All my rowdy friends have settled down (TM Hank Williams Jr.). I looooove to dance and he doesn't. I like live music, it gets too loud for him out there. We would have dinner, my friends would eventually join us, and he'd go home. Now admittedly we live in a smaller area than Tampa, and the "club" isn't really much of a club, however it's what we got LOL

Yep. And let me tell you, I am SHOCKED that such a thing would happen with such a level-headed gal like Nicole.

I bought a pair of the LLR "tall & curvy" leggings. If Nicole is squeezing her zaftig butt into those, start praying now because those seams are at critical mass. I couldn't even get them past my knees! Of course she is inverted triangle shape and I am apple so maybe that's a possible difference in fitting. But even so I just don't think she could wear the leggings. Maybe a dress or top, the sizing varies a lot between items marked the same size. Some 3x tops are enormous, others are not, for instance.

As a fat girl (but losing, yaaay low carb!) the beached whale remark stings. Kinda takes me back to being teased in school. JS. I know the OP doesn't know me and wasn't referring to *me*. Anyway, also as a fat girl - there is much Nicole could do to make herself more attractive. The size disparity in partners is kind of daunting from my perspective. But, things usually work out. I just think Nicole could try a little harder with the superficial stuff, like hair, makeup, clothing, whatever. But let's be honest. Most of the issue is with her personality vs her appearance. She needs to familiarize herself with his culture etc just as has been said here many times. All of that would go far to making her more attractive to him, even if she's "big a little bit". Nah. I'm not attracted to either one, they're not gay LOL

The more I watch of Nicole & Azan the more they remind me of my post-high school roommate and her now-ex husband. Gay ex-husband. Back during their engagement he pushed her to lose weight, which she did via Weight Watchers. She wasn't even that overweight, maybe 15-20 lbs. But he really bitched about it. They were married like 20 years or so, he had at least one affair with a man before they finally split. Could be Nicole and Azan's future? He acts and even looks a LOT like my friend's ex. It's freaky. Also, Nicole and Molly are built the same - inverted triangles. I like Andrei. When he smiles it looks really genuine. I don't understand Pink Lips' need to make him out to be this hot-headed potentially abusive asshole.

I'm still early in the episode but I agree. I like him at this point.

I don't know if it's only lesbians because I totally picked up that vibe and I'm not a lesbian so.... Lol

I liked Paul initially. Now I'm pulling for Kevin or Christmas. That said, I loathe it when 1 HG or a pair/team control the house so completely. It's boring and it makes me angry. How can they all be so stupid?!?!

His face/hair and voice reminded me of one of my former stepmothers. It freaked me out, man. You know what I hated the most? The way he said: "Awesome". Something about the inflection.

And she looked totally stoned when she said it, too. Ugh. IDK if it was just her facial expression or if she was on meds, but it was really weird.

Dr. Now, to someone who gained weight after being sent to lose 20 30 50 lbs in a couple of weeks/month - might have been Christina - "It's not water", in response to the person's claim that water retention was responsible for the gain.

Zsalyn about donuts - "I just want to make love to them with my mouth" Multiple people - "There aren't a lot of healthy options when you're traveling, so we HAVE to eat fast food". Christina's mother, as they leave her in the hospital: "I've never left her by herself before. Y'all just don't know!" <sobs>