I have to agree with Mery Ann in one respect ... unless you come from a wealthy background, planning a destination wedding and expecting your guests to shell out for travel expenses to join you is kind of selfish, and I think that was her viewpoint. But Matt has already been married 3 times before. His family and friends are probably sick of going to his weddings, so why can't Matt and Alla just go off to Florida by themselves and get hitched, then come back to Kentucky and have a reception that everyone can attend? My husband is from Ireland and his father was the only one who was able to come here for our wedding; but we traveled there a few weeks later and had a big party for his friends and relatives, and everyone was happy. Matt needs to think outside the box a little bit.