Stillhoping

Hi. I liked the first 3 eps a lot but this 4th ep left me with 2 many questions...it didn't sustain the realism of the others Not gagging "Aunt" Elizabeth seemed very contrived. The timing was also off to me.. Dr appt but return at NIGHT....squeeze in a failed Ceremony then at 9 meet the Commander in his study? I am not a big series watcher cause my logical or nit picky mind gets in the way. I start wondering....who stocks the grocery shelves... who keeps city services running....hospitals? Schools? Where are the children....teenagers? Who designs and makes the clothes? It seems most of the men are military..police...toting guns....but how will they support a home for wife handmaid...kitchen worker and chauffeur? Do they even have wives? Enquiring minds want to know.

Just watched on demand and I admit it was pretty GOOD! I thought the "love at first sight" whiner and the mean transwoman with awful weave had planned their "Drama" knowing in past seasons they would have lasted a few episodes haha I liked the young girl who talked about her Mom was 15 blah blah (stop please). . I thought her photo was stunning Least favorite....the Twins. Tyra had twins on many mnay seasons ago and I disliked them too. Just a weird twist and IMO unfair.

I remember last years horrible ski Whistler show....i never understood how all these people get pay and room and board to provide such mediocre experiences. The Chef makes burgers and sweet potato fries...? No snacks for you

Hi just watched on demand and pretty good episode. While not fond of twists and bringing back retreads I do like Brooke. Shirley was ok as I recall...perhaps a bit too much Family recipesII Not thrilled about the location and hope it wont be all southern low country challenges I really like the Italian gal...her pasta looked great. I liked the blond guy Jim? Liked his personality Hate to say I was glad Gerold lost because reality cliche sob stories bore me. I think we were spared mawky Skype session scenes of him and his kids. Yay

They were moving to a new shared home. Lilly was packing up and gave away the clothes and shoes. Tom as the bus in storage where they can take it out on weekends or work on it but not in a rec home park. I thought Tom and Lilly's family interaction was great.very natural and they seem to have fun.

I still think Lola is wearing that damn wedding ring on her dog collar.

I also think Rachael and the Pastor turned out to be good additions. I think the experts...like them or not...did interact with the couples more and provided some help apparently. I agree Sonia at ? 35 is pretty ready to settle. I have also considered her job...as a social worker she probably doesnt have lots of opportunities? I hate the lurve shown to skeevy Derek...why hide the truth? I still maintain they only let Heather quit cause he was way out of line. And yes it is illegal here...we dont have even medical yet. Still i dont think it would be busted haha...but showing it would stop the Heather hate. Now that show over...social media Lilly and tom say bus has air condition but the crew could not film w it running . So they drove an hour and half to Key Largo with no air. I wish both couples well. Lilly and Tom are my faves. This season ended up better than the last two at least

Watched online...nice ending...sure better than season 2 and 3 So glad for Tom and Lilly...my all time fav couple of this show Stubble? Nice...remember old Miami Vice haha. I hate big beards tho..especially here in the heat...Neals original rug beard would make me gag. I think Tom and Lilly are great...he is changing for her and she is having fun...I think her workaholic ways kept her from fun but she is now experiencing new stuff. Heather...i feel sorry for her...bad rap...I wish she called out the experts. I still feel Derek did stuff that allowed hercto break the contract unlike Ashley who had to stick it out Hate tea and sympathy shown to Derek. Why no mention of where he works and what he does? Nick and Sonia...good for them if they are happy. But..bed scene...nick in shorts ...outside covers...a kiss yay..BUT look who is between them...DAX! I think the golf story is BS...Lola is wearing that ring on her dog collar! Funniest thing was the joy of the experts...Rev was rubbing his hands in glee with Tilly and I thought we might see Dr Pepper have an orgasm lol

Yay...glad to see more Tom and Lilly fans! I think much of the drama we see has been producer driven.When pushed by producers Tom may have said things that people found "judgy" but drunken Nick went into that unforgetable rant.

Yay...thanks gonecrackers. I am so happy for Tom and Lilly They seem like really nice people. I have said various times they seemed more real and their families and friends seemed more real when they had get togethers Yayyyyy

http://www.inquisitr.com/3654447/married-at-first-sight-season-4-reunion-special-spoilers-nick-sonia-not-together-video/ well the vid of Tom and Lilly looks really really happy...and very pretty! I remember the "ring" in the season previews...and Tom says he has a surprise for her... I am "stillhoping" this love story lasts - I know many dislike him but I think they are the real deal. I still do not understand why some think Tom is broke. Yacht biz is pretty specialized and can be lucrative. I posted before...he stated on instagram he is a licenced yacht - Marine broker also and told someone there call him he can sell any vessel on the multilust. There are tons of people here w real estate license but u have to know boats to sell them.

Pepper said in beginning both Nick And Tom were doing well financially...she did NOT say that about Derek. Google FtLauderdale boat show...Miami boat show... Nick is doing ok too...his houses are in a good area. Derek sleeps on a mattress on the floor rental apt...and i bet he is atelemarketer or some sort of salesman. I have a theory that Nick really became even colder to Sonia when he learned of her student loans etc debt and her salary. My other theory is that Sonia might have problems meeting guys ...noble helping profession yes but not one were u meet a lot of eligible guys.

Hey at least Nick finally asked Sonia something about herself...her wants...her needs... "Which dog would you rather have in the bed...Dax or Lola?"

I feel vindicated...all 3 guys are Ft Lauderdale....why say Miami all the time? Nick and friends were at Yolo on Las Olas ft lauderdale....nice area. I think the experts pushed Sonia a lot They gloss over the rotten stuff he said. Tom and Lilly are great...congrats to them and much luck....i really hope they make it. I think they do... Maybe they both thought Sonia and Nick were odd...I think they are.Sonia is a nice weirdo and Nick is a sullen weirdo with a nasty side.

Actually I think that is a comment made in argument that most could forgive. Nick's nasty rant is so much much worse and hard to forgive...can never forget. Maybe maybe if u had 10 years history and kids ...still could make ya file for divorce. Tom and Lilly may have differences but they are pretty respectful Plus Tom even said he knew Lilly would not lve in the bus and he accepted that...he said he just still wants it in his life...trips...weekends etc. Plus he was walking cute little Zuess haha

Reality check...Key Largo is about an hou away from Miami....the bus cant handle yhe crew filming it seems not Lilly. I live in S Florida and the way the guys dress is fine and normal. Dereks wife beaters and cap mught not be welcome some places but Tom and nice are fine All 3 guys are Broward co Ft lauderdale residents and it is very laid.back here...even Miami is more city ...workaholic. here it is casual Friday all week If we see someone in dark suit..wt shirt...tie we think...wedding...funeral...or they are in Court. Both Nick and Tom work in our biggest "Industries" ....touism and marine-boats-Yachts.. dr pepper even said both make a good living. FYI..jobs in yachting marine etc are pretty sweet. We know a yacht engine repair guy who doesnt work 9 to 5...he has had owners w stuck vessels fly him to bahamas....france....rhode Island. He has a boat but had use of a clients yacht and was able to invite friends for winterfest boat parade...yes i attenended wow I still want to know what derek does for a living. Account Executive here is often a telemarketer haha.

The previews show Tom upset when Lily brushes off his alternative health ideas BUT i think this is more made up drama cause we heard Tom was great help after her shoulder operation. We havent seen the operation recovery during the 6 weeks That means they did stay together at 6 weeks....and I am guessing hoping they are together at reunion All the shade on Tom ...when Derrek has a rental and a mattress on the floor haha. I still wanna know what account executive job he has?

Stalking facebook... Lilly has cute picture of note tom put on coffee maker that he set up for her ....they both seem like they are together. Tom twitter....was asked about yachts...he said he has his brokers licence too and can sell the marine mls. I do live in South Florida and marine-yachts-boats are huge here...many vessels made here and even more customised..boat shows ft lauderdale and Miami. I truly think the producers manipulate a lot of this slacker drama. Maybe they make a team ..Lilly can sell luxury condo and Tom can sell or customize a yacht for them

Well i am a Tilly fan...I like them both. Even when they have differences they are civil..unlike Nick. I dont see how Sonia can forget his horrible rant One thing I notice about Tom and Lilly their interactions and family time seem so much more real. The birthday party lasted hours...they ate..the famiky and friends interacted. The moms had a big nice meal...food at picnic. All the others have odd stilted stage set ...producer driven ..events. sad "Cinco de Maya" ....Derek and his scripted bar night with pool and Heather letter...even Sonias nice dad had nothing to eat or drink...seemed like they just were there for cameras. I think much of the Tilly drama is manipulated for audience enjoyment

I like Sonia but I am really getting an ambitious vibe from her. I think she sees how Jamie...Monet...Vanessa..David all got shows..attention...money and 3Rd rate cable network reality tv fame....visions of pushing detox teas and teeth whiteners on Instagram? Spin off show? Heather...like ashley...is over it. I feel Sonia is going along to get ahead. JMO

Tom said "This no longer an experiment" whuch is a far cry from other "grooms" on this show. Tres gave gifts [Producer driven?]Last season but kept saying this experiment for example. I dont get how peeps feel for derek...the account executive of what? I recall in the prelim show that Pepper said both nick and tom have above ave incomes. Never said that about Derek. Working on yachts is a very lucrative business in south florida. All this concern when ryan lived in his moms basement...Doug was living at home...he is a no talent comedian that seems to live off MAFS and Jamie. I still wanna know what account exec Derek does...my guess us telemarketer haha.

google PB&J Project (ft Lauderdale). They pass out sandwiches charity got attention when our mayor cracked down on soup kitchens,

Sonia def does not have a Miami/Cuban or Puerto Rican accent at all. I think she has a combo vocal fry plus her own insecure "hesitant and unsure" twist. Actually...very few peeps from Costa Rico here....just like very few people from Grand Cayman immagrate here...their economy is better than ours haha. Costa Rico is beautiful eco paradise I hear..and realtively well off...most stable govt south of the border...no dictators...coup d'etat etc. In fact..google it...it is called the Switzerland of the Hispanic countries. Sonia did look like she was playing dress up with the hoop earrings and really she couldnt salsa. I doubt that she really fits in Hialeah. The restaurant they went to was Costa Rican....never saw any others here haha.

I am still very hopeful for Tom and Lilly. Compared to various other "grooms" in the 4 seasons of this show he is a prince. At least he wanted to be with Lilly...he wanted to celebrate the 1 month.. Even when these 2 argue a bit they are not crossing a "line" ie like Nick's rant.

I still have high hopes for Tom and Lilly. I have been a fan from the start. I realizesome think they are boring or yoo much PDA but I find them much more real than most all the couples from all seasons. The way they act with their families...the way they joke around..Lilly gave Tom a great birthay...he cooked dinner for her. Much nicer than fake couples sniping. I do think they just got lucky...hit it off physically immediately....and yeah that is vital I think. Then they are having fun and seem pretty compatable. Seems in the end these are really extended blind dates...and while maybe most blind dates dont work there ARE couples who proudly say they were fixed up and clicked I do remember the ring....and I saw preview Tom kinda upset cause Lilly too busy to write her VOWs....maybe they will have a vow renewal?, I still feel the producers have had to set up and magnify the problems the may have had...the pearls...the bus...the dirty feet. Haha...and so forth. At least when they have their tiffs they are respectful and seem to end with a kiss. Maybe 3 nice couples would be the end of the show? Hopefully these two make it...then lets see what crazies are in Chicago haha