I guess I didn’t express my thoughts clearly. Unlike the rest of her siblings, Jill married a guy she met online and spent two weeks hanging around with in Nepal along with JB. He was actively working as a missionary in Nepal, hadn’t showered or had a haircut in god knows how long (not criticizing, just saying). Their initial contact was a lot of texting bible verses to each other. Her siblings married people who lived/worked in the US, lived more common US fundie lifestyle (except Jer), courted in a more normal fashion, and had access to showers. There is a difference. That is all I’m saying.