I've decided not to watch the Flash anymore after tonight's epi. I have been debating it for a while, but Iris's behavior sealed the deal for me. The Flash writers really love to trash Oliver's character. Wow.
Did Iris forget that her husband also went into the speedforce for months without discussing it with her? He blindsided her. How is Barry any different from Oliver in that regard. There is no point in being upset with the writers nonsensical writing, I'm just done with the show and their judgemental characters.