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Why is it always the guys bringing flowers and gifts home? I don't know if this says something about the contestants, the show, or our society. Do people really think, 1) that women are wooed so easily, or, 2) that men don't like gifts? I mean, I probably wouldn't give my husband flowers and chocolates, but he's crazy about licorice and Star Wars

Just curious since I haven't watched all the episodes so far: Has Vanessa done anything nice/special for Tres besides the obvious Pinterest-esque, fairly meaningless gift basket?

SuzyLee, LOL! !!! Let's all meditate on Three Parting Gifts.

I've been married 25 years and although it's not always easy, it's the best part of my life. That, and watching our children grow up. I miss my husband every time he leaves the house, and even though I will attend social or family functions without him, I'd really rather not -- it's like going on a sleepover and forgetting your pillow -- you still have a nice time, but DANG, it could be GREAT! Don't really know why I wrote all that, this show just has me so pissed about how these spouses view and treat each other, and what they expect from each other. Just stop worrying about yourself and what you need and look into the other person's eyes and smile and ask them how their day was. Then, LISTEN. *drops mic*

LOL LOL LOL !!!!!!!!!!

LOL, let's pile on global warming, porous borders and the price of diapers.

I think if any of these three couples stay together the show is a failure.

If ctbabe's spoiler is true (and I'm sure it's probably not far off), I would think that Ashley be in breach of contract, punishable by law. Why does this make me feel giddy? Be in breach? I done embraced myself! :\

Thanks so much! I must admit that I haven't paid much attention to my profile or the rest of the site, but will look around. Really came to the site searching for answers about this crazy show!

Can someone tell me how this website figures out what time something is posted? I'm in Central and Eastern is an hour ahead;it seems the server or wherever this site originates is somewhere in the mid Atlantic according to the time it says my posts are made. Just curious :)

So Ashley can evidently Crack a smile and at one time dated a guy who challenged himself by cycling across the country...I don't even know what to make of that. She went all that way to see him and spend time with him and before she left said she wanted to date other people? ?? ?? ?? Does she just enjoy breaking hearts? I'm more confused than ever.

GREAT POST! I agree with you, wholeheartedly.

No one has said it's the god's honest truth -- only that it seems to make sense.And viewers are basing their conclusions on what they can see, which is Ashley acting aloof and cold at best, and David acting naively optimistic.

Makes the most sense. Her phone became her best friend during the honeymoon when David was trying his damnedest to get to know her. She could barely turn her head towards him when answering him. Red flag was when she said her longest relationship was NINE YEARS. ..seriously, WTF? I just wish the show paid nothing so we could watch genuinely interested people give marriage a go. Stupid contracts ruin everything.

Please, oh please, oh please, oh please! I do SO want the info!

I agree. And David is delusional if he actually still wants to kiss that cold slab of a cheek after her treatment of him. But then I kinda think he might be, anyway.

Being a sociopath isn't necessarily a bad thing, as long as the person recognizes it and had good guidance growing up, meaning they are able to discern right from wrong and find constructive outlets for their impulses. And some people are just plain shitty. David is by no means my favorite -- he's certainly odd -- but nobody could live with such stone faced hatred and end up happy for having gone through it.

Exactly. Can you imagine what that would be like? Person with heartbeat: Hey! How've you been? Ashley: Fine PWH: Good! Wanna grab a bite? Ashley: Umm PWH: What are you hungry for? Ashley: I don't know PWH: Sure you're okay? What's been going on? Ashley: I got married and he kept trying to talk to me. PWH: ...oh, ok,umm... Ashley: And he stole my wax

I'm sorry, but people on a reality show may act strange, odd, goofy, whatever, but nothing explains Ashley's bizarre lack of humanness toward David. Can't think of 3 nice things? Make something up! Don't like your new husband? Say so. Something is very, very wrong with that girl. The look on her face when she looks at David makes me feel like she's constipated and David is the giant turd she'd love to get rid of if only the universe weren't such a crappy place. Sheesh!

I missed the first few episodes (I know), so does Nurse Ratched -- I mean Ashley -- state she likes dark-haired guys?

I have to wonder if they show Sam gobbling and slurping when Neil is talking because that's the only time he can complete a sentence with her in the same room. Somehow production figured out she won't stop inhaling food, even to put her two cents in.

Having trouble figuring out how to quote, but, AMEN and LOL! (what Jack Sampson said)

She was afraid he'd steal it, or her mustache wax.

Ashley must've been afraid he'd steal her purse. Maybe he stole her mustache wax.