Frozendiva

It's not the 50s or 60s. You don't have to get married to coparent a child.

Why are you pushing for a marriage, Aryanna? Sherlon doesn't love you and doesn't want to marry you.

It has started to snow. A beach sounds nice now.

A new season, new meat. Where to start. Gino and Jasmine. I forgot her name already so I had to go back to page 1 of the thread. So Gino sits home alone eating his salisbury steak, mac and cheese TV dinner on a TV tray and downs it with chocolate milk. My poor stomach. The poor rest of me with the nails on a chalkboard/hyena giggle. I see into my own future of having to mute the sound when he is on. A girl in Panama who, if living in Michigan, would not even look at him unless there are dollars falling out of his clothing. Maybe there is a real attraction, maybe it's just a way for her to fund some beauty treatments. Both don't come across all that well. She seems beyond controlling to the point of making people uncomfortable (no, the girl at the takeout place probably has no interest in any customer unless he leaves a $100 tip or more), it is beyond rude to whip out the phone and take video of the person working there and probably illegal, because your long distance girlfriend has an issue with you interacting with just about anyone. Then he rips out his stash of little blue pills. No need for that, no need for the embarrassing visit with the pharmacist. The dude is 51 years old. You can buy whatever you like in an actual adult store or like some of us, take advantage of online shops. He is lucky that his sister in law and his uncle take care of him. Of course he doesn't listen to any of them. Just more of the same creepy giggle. The two wet animal comment from Jasmine got me pondering. Uh, no thank you. Two muddy hippos might be fun. Gino, take your Van Halen CDs and go to Panama. And please learn to remove your hat indoors and especially when eating indoors. Kim and Usman, the international superstar. More like a homegrown talent whose career stays local or maybe semi-national. She certainly saw his season with Baby Girl Lisa/Visa. Does she think he will be different with her? I can understand if she is well put together, well groomed, well dressed, etc. She also has a Michael Jackson collection. Maybe look up Tanzania to see what is actually there. And maybe look at yourself and your motives. Unless you want to get on TV and ride this out til the season is over, good luck. Your friends are against this and they are right. But you do need to learn your own lesson. Are there no 25-35 year old women that would be a better choice for Usman? Why does he want an older sucker? Again? Alina and Caleb. This has potential to be very good or very very bad. Caleb seems to be a dude who is searching for himself. There is the real spirituality that is very challenging and the pop spirituality, which can be very damaging. Pick and choose and wonder why nothing works. My soul connection experience has taught me a lot about spirituality. I also sought help for it, and my teacher explained things to me. How energy worked, etc. The Law of Attraction doesn't exactly work and some folks can face some serious karmic boomerang. The Universe is not an ATM for you to ask for whatever you want. The Tarot is not a fortune telling tool, either. It is an ancient discipline that deals with energies around you. He may or may not be mixing a whole bunch of end of the pier fortune telling and spirituality and tarot and meditation and is just wasting a lot of time. Meditation for me is a short daily ritual. Clear my energetic space. Sounds like he self hypnotizes himself or maybe helps himself to some special stuff to get to places. Alina is a karmic lesson/relationship for him. Part of his soul's journey and what it needs to experience. He may genuinely love her in his own way. She may be a love for him that teaches compassion, empathy, an unusual person who he probably would overlook/not give any time of day to. Walk right on by. But there is something there. Alina comes across as intelligent, educated, independent, has various interests, and lives her best life. Don't know what her job is, but she does have her own band, she does some modelling. But she is a little person in a very big world. She faces daily challenges and most likely, prejudice. Caleb has been around for half her life, so wonder what the deal is. She is smart to have her roommate go with her to meet Caleb. Caleb probably hasn't done much research on little people and their needs and how to not be a jerk. Even though they have been chatting for a while, they are still physical strangers. Don't know if this will be a life lesson for Caleb on loving someone unconditionally, or he or both are looking for some social media exposure, he may want to do some talks on 'spirituality' or what. Interesting to see what happens.

It is located on the main 90 Day Fiancé page.

I shut down with coworkers and didn’t talk about anyone I was dating. Married, single, whatever, I enforced the boundary. Petty, jealous, unbecoming and stupid behavior from them. People do love to judge and project their own stuff. I learned about sharing and wasn’t all that generous.

Tim - Gino sounds like a ventriloquist. Rolls eyes.

Kim is just a groupie. An old one. Angela actually makes sense - Kim should do a background check for Usman.

Jasmine likes to know where I go - red flag.

Why are these folks so sure they've met the loves of their lives?

She is thirsty. Thought Judaism wasn't supportive of things like Tarot. Unless she picks and chooses.

The chocolate milk, Salisbury Steak and Mac and Cheese look gross.

C'mon lurkers, speak up!

Loren - SojaBoy considers you an opportunity.

Jovi and Yara - overlook Alina's dwarfism, and compliment her English. Angela does have some sense in warning Kim not to pursue SojaBoy.

Why is Angela on Pillow Talk?

She may not find the laughing hyena amusing.

Probably couldn't get the rights to the song.

I would want a separate room so I have some boundary space. No idea who the dude is and I'd want to keep my own safety.

Kim, go to the salon. Get your hair done, brows done, get some decent makeup to look good.

Buy tanzanite in Tanzania. Skip SojaBoy.

The dust won't catch fire?

Jasmine is after you for your charm, sense of humor, intelligence, kindness?

I'd be emotionally in it for the money. Sucker.

Caleb, the universe destines interactions. It has no idea what a relationship is. Maybe you have karma to settle with Alina.