You are preaching to the choir, that's why I have such a visceral reaction to anything involving him because most of my people just don't give a damn. They will argue you down and then when all else fails it's "oh well you weren't there, and it wasn't him in the tapes so...." OR "Well, Aaliyah married him, he didn't make her! Age Aint Nothing But A Number" - it's disgusting.