Wanderwoman, I am so sorry to hear your news. You are in my prayers.
Thanks to everyone for the thoughts about the loss of my big boy cat Elliot. Yesterday I took a trip to the shelter and brought home a very small white and black kitty. I thought that she was just about a year old. Then I found out that she was actually brought to Animal Control with HER litter of kittens. She looks so young and small that I was surprised that she already had had kittens of her own. She is very friendly, and I hope she and my calico (whose name is Maisie!) will work things out. Today is the first day they have met each other, and there is some hissing and a little "talking" going on, but so far just what I expected. My Maisie is extremely friendly, so I hope they are a good match. Thanks to everyone again for your good thoughts.