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My car most days can be a hot mess between my dog hair and kiddo but OMG ! Just disgusting. I usually make a point to clean it out once it starts looking like a hoarding situation because if I ever had to unexpectedly give someone a ride I would die of embarrassment. This is where Jill loses me. A lot of us are guilty of having a mess from time to time, but we have the good sense to keep the mess to ourselves. Not showcase it to millions. And it wasn't even an extra cute picture of the boys. Pick a different one!! One where you aren't showing the world how disgusting your car is. One silver lining is that Sam is still rear facing- good !!! Maybe that is why she posted it? To show she follows car seat safet? at least crop the grossness out, FFS

I think Jana is just as attention starved as the rest. However, I don't think the internet will explode when she enters a courtship. Most people don't know one Duggar from the next aside from Josh. This forum would explode tho. Chances are she already is and we are going to get an announcement in fall. And I do hope Lauren, Jinger, Jessa and Jill try to one up her via SM because it is hilarious to watch. I think Joy is the one who genuinely doesn't give a shit about it, and I feel like Kendra has a private IG account and doesnt care about the public one.

Agree. I don't know who has success with box blondes, but they are few and far between. I am a dark blonde ( used to be super blonde as a kid, eyebrows are blonde ect) and I used to highlight my hair to platinum and would have to go into the salon literally every 6-8 weeks to keep up, and my natural hair is much much lighter than Jinger's Jinger is in for a very expensive ride. LA salons aren't cheap either- she's probably looking at 300+ easily each time. I stopped dying my hair so blonde because it was killing both my hair and wallet. I now do balayage once a year and it grows out really well and looks very natural. Much cheaper and easy to maintain. How will Jinger sneak away for 4 hours at the salon every other month once the second blessing arrives??? HOWEVER I love that she tried some thing so different. And I kind of love this social media war that is happening. Ivy who? LOL

40K pre tax won't sustain them forever, and I highly doubt they pull that much honestly. if they are smart ( big IF) since they'll be saving nearly all of it. I did a real quick google search and it said Jboob is worth 3.5 mil, which with 20 dependents and THEIR dependents, isn't enough for sustain everyone forever. Eventually these kids will need to get an actual job. I think the Duggar born women ( Jessa, Jill, Jinger Joy) will actually be ok because the men all have had at least some education/work experience outside of being on a reality tv show as a child. Jessa and Bin will likely have the second hardest time but I doubt Bin would let his kids struggle before sucking it up and getting a real JOB. It will be interesting to see Jill and Derrick as Derrick might be considered unemployable to many people due to his social media rants. Derick seems like he would rather be unemployed than take any job he didn't love, even to their own financial detriment . However, It is the Duggar men and their wives who will really struggle because they have grown up the Duggar way with piss poor education and no work experience, with wives who have limited/zero education as well. And most of the duggar female inlaws appear to have no problems with reproducing enthusiastically and are young, so it really is a recipe for disaster. JD and Abbie probably have the best chance, but Joe/Kendra Josh/Anna Sia/Lauren will probably be supported by Boob forever.

ding ding ding! And honestly, I doubt she is very happy. She just doesn't know it. Her article was like a 1920 marriage advice column. You know, before women got jobs and rights and autonomy and what not.

I kind of got one. My birthday was 2 weeks after I gave birth and I received a very nice and expensive bracelet. Much more expensive than we spend on birthday gifts. I fully support push presents. haha :-) I figure it was a nice gesture, having babies is hard work! It was nice ( extra) recognition!

I do not understand this shirt at all. Even properly fitting it wouldn't be dress length. its obviously not a dress, but even in the right size it would seem like a dress that someone grew out of but doesn't want to throw away. Is it supposed to be an empire waist shirt?? Much confusion. Jill's horrendous modeling doesn't help either. Cousin Amy needs to send her like basic t shirts because that is all Jill can handle and she probably would mess that up too.

She is pinging my radar for sure. her and jana are one terribly dressed couple. They both look like they wandered off a farm in the 1950s.

I think it was normal to thank Austin for holding down the fort so Joy could go on a solo trip. Any other mom in that cult would likely have had to tote the baby with her. I just went on a girls bachelorette weekend and it was SO NICE to get away for a few days from my baby. Love her to death but being able to be a free human again was great. I bet Joy had a great time baby free. I also thanked my husband ( tho not on social media) for solo parenting all weekend. And when he goes to my brothers bachelor party in a few weeks ( all weekend event in a different state ) I want a thank you too!!!!

Exactly. I cannot imagine having children so young and with someone I barely know/tolerate. I don't see the stress of marriage and children bringing these two together, lol. Random question- does anyone know of any third generation adult gothardites/ATI/IBLP people? I'd be curious to see if the grown Israel/Mackynzie/Spurgies/ ect equivalents have stayed with the cult. Is the cult still too young?

Playing devils advocate here- she does have a crap ton of followers, and I am SURE jessica seewald knows about this forum and also reddit group, free jinger ect. She probably asked her not to post anything about her wedding. I'd probably do the same if I had a infamous in law standing up with snark groups about her online lol. I wouldn't want the potentially negative attention. That pink dress on Jessa...just NO. the dress itself looks like cheap shit. The stripe dress I actually kind of like but does she really need to model them if its not maternity? Just lay it out nicely everyone will need to guess what it looks like anyway since she's 9 months pregnant. They has no sense FFS

Baby #2 FFS??? Is she serious?? I think it would have been a little less gross/attention seeking to say pregnancy #2 vs baby #2 if they have to mention the miscarriage. Or even just the rainbow after the storm was cute and got the point across. I have had 2 early losses but I don't refer to my ( so far only) kid as baby #3. There was not yet a formed child. IDK. Maybe just knowing people who have had still birth/child/infant loss it really just seems insensitive to me.

Yeah this is just too much. It would be in far better taste to post something like, " Thinking of anyone who have had a miscarriage ect" Not happy first mothers day, our baby is in heaven ect. They may be too dense to even realize what kind of comparison they are making. I wonder if/when she has a full term birth she will still consider her super early miscarriage as traumatizing as losing a baby? She needs perspective.

It's not even that he sucks at it, she is actually dangerous. Hopefully she stays far away this time

The last picture is just a little odd to me. I've seen that exact same pose done by a 30 year old married couple announcing their pregnancy.

I agree ChuchHoney. It is hard for many snarkers who had mostly normal upbringings to really understand what these kids, even the married adults, are up against. it is hard for to fathom the chaos, lack of education and abuse that they all suffered. We see little tiny glimpses here and there on the show ( having to eat in the bathroom, molestation documents, lack of common sense/safety) but I would bet things were much much worse. I think the marrieds are about as 'free' and developed as they ever will be.

Have any of the Duggar girls used a licensed midwife at home anyway? If they want to VBAC at home they'll just use JillymUffin or Jana. Or who is the Fedosky lady? I certainly hope they don't try to VBAC at home but if they decide to go for it I doubt the states prohibitors will stop them sadly.

You had some duggar sized babies!!! Jill was another level of stupid when she tried with Sam, and I hope that stupidity stops there. Perhaps Kendra will be a good influence on Joy.

I HATE it when people say ' Oh we weren't trying' but then you come to find out they weren't on contraception . Or I was ' on the pill' but I would forget to take the pill every day. Then you AREN"T ON THE PILL! My own sister, happily married with 2 prior pregnancies ( and had successfully used BC for years and years), was dismayed she got pregnant with her third baby ' so quickly' . She said she wasn't trying and they were going to ' wait' until after a certain wedding. I asked her if she was on any BC and She said NO!I laughed and said what did you think would happen FFS?? ANYWAY, It is my opinion if you aren't actively preventing, you are trying to get pregnant. Drives me absolutely insane. So Derick, you were trying. Idiot. lol

Usually with the first AND her being young you show much later, one would think. I was 29 with my first and I just looked a chunkier than I normally do from weeks 17-28. It was actually quite aggravating because I looked out of shape and I wanted to look pregnant! LOL. I didn't have a ' you look pregnant to strangers' bump until 28 weeks. I don't think she was eating very healthy at all and was probably eating her feelings a little ( lots of life changes!! I don't blame her but I am glad she seems to be healthier this time.

Agree. The general public definitely doesn't care. The only people even mildly interested are snarkers and the leghumpers. And even then, old news. 2nd and 3rd babies aren't as interesting. The only reason I give a shit about Joy's pregnancy is because I'm curious to see if she learned anything and will go to a hospital for this one. The only newsworthy Duggar story would be a scandalous out of wedlock baby or if one of the kids escapes and writes a tell all.

Ugh, dumb dumb kids. Hopefully she actually gets competent care and goes to the hospital right away for labor this time. Jill needs to stay FAR AWAY from Joy. Their luck may run out if they go for another traumatic birth ending in C section. They are playing with fire. I know I am asking too much that they actually learn from Jill's mistakes but maybe Austin did and will put his foot down. If Joy didn't have the first c section and was married to someone else I think she could be the 'next MEchelle'. I feel like Austin will have no problem being celibate to stop procreating if they start to get out of control/ are instructed to wait/Joy has serious complications Kendra on the other hand, gets my vote for next Mechelle. very young, fertile, uncomplicated vaginal birth, her and Joe are probably too stupid/brainwashed ( both?) to think beyond their cult beliefs.

It is really crazy how different he looks. He wasn't bad looking before. It has to be hard to wake up and see yourself looking so much worse every day. I hope he does use his law degree to go after whoever did that to his face.

She would need much more than that. Does she even have credit? I can't imagine anyone would rent to her . her only hope would be government assistance or someone would have to take her in. I do agree, she is horrendously stuck just like the cult wants her to be.

Nursing + a lot of women (even educated women) don't always understand that you need to have sex BEFORE ovulation, not after. The window is actually pretty small! So if you are the once a week or twice a month type, you will really need to be intentional about your timing. I can see it taking a while if they aren't like 100% trying and low key hate each other and don't have sex all that often. Add in two small needy kids and you have a recipe for no sex. Also, Jill had two traumatic births and c sections. Perhaps the condition of her uterus makes it harder to get pregnant after the trauma? I doubt she had a hysterectomy unless they had to take it out to save her/Sam's life? Again I have no idea if that is even a plausible thing that could happen.