Breedom

I am so sick of Amanda and her game playing. She didn't like the bathing suit because it's too soon after her husband died. Sure. Amanda, you had no right to involve yourself in Razvan's life when you have so many roadblocks, issues and hard no's in your life. I think she's just using her husband AS AN EXCUSE. When she started this path, apparently she was able to navigate this new relationship online with no problem so now, suddenly, she's unable to even give a genuine smile or talk in full sentences? Then in the shop, the saleslady asked her if she liked Romania. "Yes" she answered. That's it? How about, "I do, everything is so beautiful!" But no. For Amanda, a "yes" is all that is required, and that's all she offers. Run, Razvan. I don't know if Amanda will ever be ready to be in a relationship and it has nothing to do with her husband passing away. Nicola: He has no business being in a relationship. He should have been a Catholic priest, period. He's a horribly boring, controlling, judgemental stick in the mud. During the meet and greet with his friends, they both looked pained at how Nicola was conducting himself. What an absolute fool. He's horrible. I like Meisha.

Chad is only looking at external beauty. Here is one more person who doesn't seem to make an effort in meeting or getting to know someone. He seems to think just sitting there not offering much is going to win these women over. I mean, make an effort; you traveled all this way. And why is he being set up with women who seem so different than he is? I have no idea why the second woman said she thought he was cute and/or liked him. What was there to like, though? He didn't delve into anything or offer much. I also detest Chad's taste in shirts. Chad, you are not on a farm, please dress accordingly. And no hat.

Well said!

There is no way the relationship between Chloe and Chris is going to work out. Chris is 30 but hasn't progressed any since high school. Party-boy, grow up and act your age. He was an embarrassment, hitting up the table next to them in the bar like he did. He's a one-note dud who doesn't "come alive" until he is drinking and partying. When he's alone with Chloe, he just sits there with his cold dead heart. Chloe, you are WAYYY too good for this guy. I feel bad for you for getting your hopes up and then finding out who Chris really is, and that is a drunken party-boy. Nicola also reads dead inside. He's another one that doesn't seem to make any effort in the relationship, acting like they are a very old married couple that has zero spark between them. Meisha is realizing who Nicola REALLY is and before long it'll be bye-bye Nikki.

SO FAR I like Riley and not Violet. I think Riley is already attached to Violet and longs for some kind of reciprocal feelings from her, which he's not getting at all. So then he turns needy and demanding. Violet isn't a nurturing person; she's direct, doesn't beat around the bush and doesn't gravitate towards any sensitivity. Just two different personalities. Violet seems harsh to me, certainly she could try being a little kinder. Oh, and her comment in the clothes shop about Riley being ugly - what a stupid thing to say. Girl, it's not funny and it's mean. Violet IMHO isn't a beauty and her personality needs improvement. Not a big catch in my book. Yup. She's someone who feels the need to "shock" people with her "wacky" personality. Girl, you can do better.

I think it's a process. He believed Carmella was his true love because that's how she portrayed "herself" and now everything he thought to be true was not. Not only that, it was not true in the worst of possible ways. He was being played. Chalby, I too think he's someone with a pure and trusting heart and someone who couldn't imagine someone who could be this vindictive. I like his sister, but I sense something about her; maybe it's just that she's being filmed, but her emotions seem so guarded.

Absolutely. That would raise plenty of red flags for me. On day #2 (the first full day) - if my new love announced he's made other plans that didn't include me, yes, I'd be hurt. It's rude and insensitive.

I like Sheila, but feel sorry for her that she would try and hook up with David. David is boring, lack-luster, doesn't have a clue as to how to act in a relationship. Sorry, David, but you just have absolutely ZERO energy. That would drive me up the wall in about five minutes. And how absolutely gross that he didn't take a shower or even brush his teeth before getting into bed. I can't remember now, did he climb into bed fully clothed? Oh, help me. He is the biggest turn-off. True, AR Traveler. He's not a bad guy. Poor Sheila. David might be okay as a friend, but I haven't seen any passion, fun or much effort coming from this guy. Does he just assume that Sheila is deeply, madly in love with him and he can not even try?

It seems that Razvan has a lot to offer and has been very understanding and kind to Amanda. He must be a saint to put up with this girl. Amanda has a constant little smirk on her face which I find annoying, and why is she always shooting Razman down with her stupid reactions and comments? What up with her? She doesn't realize that very few guys would keep their interest in her with that attitude. I have a feeling that Raz's end goal is to get to the US. Oh, when Raz got very serious and said he wanted to ask Amanda something - and then the little smirk came out in full force on Amanda's face - with her saying, "stop!" ------- it was clear she thought she was going to get a proposal, not a key to his apartment. Very clear. Girl, go home and be with your kids. You shouldn't have involved Razvan in your recovery period. One more thing: Amanda, please style your hair differently. That strand hanging on the side of your face while the rest of your hair is being held back is bothersome to look at. Get rid of it. Thank you.

So far I like Riley and would also feel annoyed if the person I traveled across the world to see made other plans on day #2. I don't like Violet. I think she said to her girlfriends that she "liked to tease men" to get them mad. How charming and cute. Not. Agree that the pearl jewelry was very cheap, but still, could Violet have taken the high road and shown some appreciation? I guess she expected expensive gold jewelry and what she received was a step above garbage that meant nothing to her. I don't know Riley's budget but maybe this was the best he could do. Plus many men don't have a clue about jewelry and don't want to shell out much. It didn't take long for Jasmine to lose it over the prenup. To have a yelling fit and then telling Gino she flat out wasn't going to marry him if they had one --- pay attention, Gino, this is a big red flag. Then he tried to renegotiate, but Jasmine wouldn't have it. She has no idea what a simple life Gino has back at home in his modest home. She's not going to go for it; she wants to live very well and not on her dime. Gino, don't touch your 401K. And if she truly loves you, she needs to consider getting a job. Or does she have one?

I was appalled by Gino's rejection of Jasmine. Was that there first night together this trip? He was like a baby hiding his head in the pillow. There are excuses, and there is this. Jasmine was being kind and patient but that won't last forever. I don't buy that Gino feels like she orders him around and so that makes her sexually unappealing to him. With the kitchen peeler, she had to keep repeating to him that she didn't have anything else and he was refusing to use anything other than that ---- grow up. I'd be annoyed with him and wouldn't have shown that much patience. Gino looks at it like she's seriously disrespecting him, not realizing that he can test anyone's patience with his closed mind and attitude. I missed last week's show because I was on vacation, but saw it yesterda before tonight's 20 min preview show, so hopefully I'm commenting on the new show. I know Jasmine is dramatic but I can't help liking her. (Of course that can always change; I hated her during her last tell-all).

I feel a little bad for Harold. He hasn't a clue as what to do, how to act, what's acceptable and what's not. He wants a normal relationship like everyone else, but he's not able to get that. Why hasn't anyone told him, before the matchmaker did, to ditch the ruler suspenders? Or how to amp up his look? The matchmaker: "This may do in Hawaii, but not in Prague." No kidding.

Completely agree. I'm not liking her much. Driving around Romania, she's sitting there like a log. Just try looking out the side window instead of straight ahead, look at where you are. You're no longer home, my dear. Learn something. Ask Raz questions; he's proud of his country. SMILE. Stop acting entitled like you are doing Raz a big favor by being there. He seems to really care about you. Then the Kleenex thing -- why would anyone ask why there are tissues there? That's your one big question? The bathroom vanity; I thought she was quite harsh in her request for wanting a place for her own things. Try being nice. No manners and an absolute downer. Then the Zoom with her kids. Why is her little boy fixated on the bedroom, I wonder? Amanda's online photo's she sent to Raz were a bit much for someone who is so new to just losing her husband, IMHO. Oh, and the teddy bear gift at the airport . . . she acted offended.

I can't judge her (without knowing more, of course!) --- but IMHO it's way too soon. She still loves her husband, so looking for someone new in such a short time and finding feelings for them too will be difficult. Maybe she is afraid of being alone, raising the kids herself or realizes the only way she can make it financially would be to find someone else to help. But then, no one local? When her son asked if Mommy was going to sleep in this guy's bed, that was odd. Why would a little kid suddenly ask that? And then Amanda giggling over it was weird too. Having recently lost her husband, I wouldn't find it funny. It's still raw. I liked at first that she included her husband's "box" in the family's day-to-day. But taking him in the car and having him sit in the "middle seat" was a bit weird too. To me, that was going too far.

Yup. I doubt he ever loved her in the first place. I didn't see one moment in the season where I thought he showed true affection or love towards her. It's easy for him to leave. They don't give them the opportunity to say much, do they? But I'd rather have them come on then any other past couples. I saw a bit of Pillow Talk last night after the show but I was forced to turn off the TV after a few minutes - I have no idea why Kulani and her sister keep getting invited back to the show when they add NOTHING except bouncing theatrics and ridiculous hand signals. I thought the two guys (Kenny and Armando) on 90 day were boring, but I think they are fun to watch on PT.

I wish that someone on the panel would have educated the others. It should have been Rishi or Jen, who also had no idea. Even Rishi's mom or uncle could have said something to clarify the situation. Kris was a lethargic sack of potatoes, sitting there looking down, fumbling and looking bored out of her mind. Even when Mona came out there was no acknowledgment by Kris that her mom was even there. (I liked Mona, BTW). She wanted to support her daughter, but at the same time she wanted to be (mostly) truthful. Jeymi should have spoken up more in defense of herself. The "no, no, no, no" thing was a filler that led me to believe perhaps she wasn't being 100%. However, I totally support Jeymi. Kris is not a nice person. Shawn wasn't doing her job when she didn't bring up the shove that Kris gave Jeymi. That was a major incident in the show - yet no mention!

I thought there were a lot of silences in between Gabe's useless input. Shawn didn't ask pertinent questions AT ALL. I wanted her to address a lot of key elements within the story lines but she was useless. She just sat back and listened to Gabe's babbling. That whole thing was weird. Why would Jen suddenly have a breakdown in the back room telling Rishi she would never speak to him again if his mom brought up the age thing? The mom was very respectful about it, and 48 is not 108. She's older than Rishi, yes, but I don't see a reason to focus on that comment and cry over it. I know it was fabricated because who starts production when one of the cast members hasn't joined the onstage cast yet? It was such a nothing idea someone had that didn't ring true. Same story with Angela. I also don't think Jen should have given her number to Debbie's son. Despite Rishi not being totally honest with her about his circumstances (and she could have easily googled the info) he was still very much in love with her. I mean, if you're going to get a number, get it discretely or after the show and don't announce it. There was no need to humiliate him behind his back. She wasn't innocent either; she could and should have read up on Indian culture. I only wish that Rishi brought it up during the tell-all so the entire cast could eat crow.

Well said, my friend! Well said!

I would have no problem if everyone ganged up on Kris. She deserves it. What was all this about Kris being gone for 20 days? I thought it was five months or something. And if Jeymi "cheated" - just admit it; no jury would convict you. Kris deserted you, refused to communicate, you had no idea if she would ever be back. So go, live your life as you see fit while filing divorce papers. Don't wait for this broken and flawed woman to call the shots. She's not relationship material. Shawn as usual, let the show go, not asking important questions and letting Gabe take over in his boring way. I mean, she fully let him. Gabe, if you are hoping for a TV gig, I have to tell you you don't have the charisma. This TLC show was a one and done.

I think Gabe was a little bit embarrassed. But why is the show centering so much on Gabe??? I wanted to hear more about the other couples, but the camera kept zooming in on Gabe's stupid facial theatrics and looking for a reaction from this busy-body. I was disgusted when Shawn asked if Jen and Rishi had been intimate and the camera zoomed on to Gabe with his bulging eyes and open mouth. Geez. I don't know what Isabel sees in this guy. He'd annoy me to high heaven. I seriously question that according to Gabe's friend, all the ladies are attracted to him. C'mon. That can't be. Rishi is attractive, but certainly not our Gabby.

You don't mock someone else's accent, period. Why do people feel okay doing this in the first place? I always cringe when I hear people doing this. I always liked Debbie but my opinion was lowered because of some of her comments. Plus, you have no right to call Rishi a coward. Oh, and Jeymi is a predator? WHAT? Look at your own actions. She sees things very differently than I do.

Love this comment. It seems like Debbie doesn't try too hard, her style is just organically her. In the case of Kris she seems to try way too hard to be unique and it just comes off silly and ridiculous. Debbie, in her '60's knows who she is and Kris in her 40's is all over the map. In addition, Kris is shoving, swearing, yelling, falling apart, lying and a mess, while Debbie holds her head up and deals with her broken relationship with Ossama with class. Debbie and her son should be on PT next - NOT Mr. Big Mouth Gabe, with his nose in everyone's business.

Totally. Kris has huge anger issues along with other issues she can't handle and then lashes out at Jeymi, who did absolutely nothing to provoke Kris except to try and talk to her. Kris pushing her like she did hopefully will be the last straw for Jeymi. Jeymi, go find your equal, someone without boatloads of unresolved anger and someone who can love you for being you. Kris needs to go on a long journey with a therapist to try and work out her multitude of problems. And then Kris complaining how sick she was on the tell-all. We know she's making it up for what - attention? sympathy? Her choice of clothing makes me think she desperately wants people to notice her. What's her deal? Oh, and she knew she was coming on TV - the roots showing in her hair was not a good look. If I had a spouse that told me to "shut the fuck up but you kept talking, so now I'm done" and DONE! I'M DONE! DONE! while slithering away I would divorce him immediately. Agree with you on the drug abuse issue. Personally I'm not convinced of that either. This lady is a total abuser though. I haven't seen any redeeming qualities whatsoever in this "fairy" - what she portrayed in her introduction piece. I bet that she'll be the first to leave the stage in next week's show. In fact, it should happen immediately, as she'll take offense with something or someone within mere minutes.

I was ready to shut down the TV and miss the whole show because of Gabe's stupid face contractions. The huge eyes, the whole open mouth bit showing shock, the excitement when he found out Debbie's son was there. OMG. I didn't watch his boring segments, but then I find out that he's a big stupid childish clown. GABE, YOU ARE NOT THE STAR OF THE SHOW. Your opinions aren't wanted and they offer no insight or anything of value. SHUT UP. You are making a fool of yourself and acting like a 12 year old. Grow up. I highly doubt Pillow Talk would ever hire this immature and boring kid to join their show, but having him along with Kulani on the same show would make me never, never tune in again.

Kris, you are a moron, pure and simple. What beautiful Jami sees in you I haven't a clue. You are also a runner. You can't cope with much, can you? How do you expect to be in a relationship if you can't discuss things? You must have some pretty intense feelings of low self esteem. I come to that conclusion because if someone is praising you you are there for it. If they have any critical input your ego can't take it, because you know the truth but it's too painful for you to accept it. So just go run away and work on yourself. Oh, and staying away for five months? That is a hideous thing to do. WHAT A LIAR. Yeah, you promised you'd be back - what was it, a few weeks? So what did big mama bear to help out this son who was in some kind of trouble? Was he under 18? He could have taken care of himself, if that, in fact was true. Of course it wasn't. Liar. All your health issues we see aren't really there (your neck, etc.). Liar. And was it you who decided to marry Jami nine days in? Add in horrible decision maker. What a mess. Let me add one more thing. You think you dress edgy, unique, have a style "all your own". I guess you do have a style all your own - that is the bag lady look. Nothing goes together and it's just piled on. Visually offensive.