I know it's been said a million times, but what exactly do these couples talk about before they meet? Big Ed was absolutely floored when his co-worker friend explained there wouldn't be hot water, and that there would be flying cockroaches and other nasty bugs. Do they literally just gaze into their "love of their life's", "king's/queen's" eyes every time and tell them how much they love them, and not discuss anything? Really?? Kill me now!!! Ugh....