That was my reason. And you know what? That's exactly why I am A-OK with my decision not have children. And if that's also Meghan's reason, unless her feelings (shallow or not) change, she shouldn't either.
It always strikes me that women who decide not to have children are expected to have some sort of deep, meaningful, unselfish reason for it. Yet women who do have children for reasons that are shallow, meaningless and selfish (babies are so cute!, I always wanted to take care of something, we always had 3 children apiece in our family, I'm tired of the pressure from my mother-in-l