All jewellery from UJ is just brass or nickel with silver plating, not genuine silver. It's not the fact that they exist, but WHY are people buying this shit??!!! You can get REAL solid silver jewellery for less than half that price, which will not cause allergic reactions or turn your skin green.
Also, STOP SCREAMING ABOUT ANAL SEX at a freaking restaurant!!! You're not at your own house, you're with other people!!! Laugh and eat together, maybe talk a little loudly, but WHY are you screaming about your sex life like that at a public place??? I love sex talk and the dirtier, the better (only with girlfriends), but we're at each other's homes, not at a place where people are eating.
PS. I feel so badly for any girl whose first time was through anal sex. That is beyond horrifying. The whole virgin-not-virgin thing is such bullshit. Find someone who feels the same way as you do and make sure you're 100% sure about your first time and have regular sex.