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  1. 15 minutes ago, byrd said:

    I understand that , but many aren't and don't give a dam. some people never mature , they are street oriented and will die that way .  Since she does not know the difference , she should keep her mouth shut and protect her teeth . 

    And those people will be the same ones who want to beat someone's ass when they don't get an extra ranch dressing with their order or will shoot up a grocery store when they are asked to wear a mask.

    I don't think anyone should live their life in fear of what I hope is a relatively small minority.  

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  2. 1 minute ago, byrd said:

    Yes, they are , people don't play that stuff about their mommy's, depends on who you talking to . I got some cousins who are about' that life,"  who will beat your ass just because ,and don't give a dam about going to jail. Candiance needs to watch her mouth because you don't know people .. everybody wasn't raised the same. 

    A 'yo momma joke is a joke about a woman you've almost certainly never met.  Its a common insult joke genre and the thought that anyone would beat someone up over a 'yo momma joke reminds me of that scene in Boondocks about some people going to war over absolutely nothing.  

    If someone takes their mother's honor so seriously that they can't handle a 'yo momma joke, there is a good chance that they cannot handle anything in life, because losing your mind and resorting to violence over a joke is not a normal response.  Particularly one as benign as a 'yo momma joke.  This would be like someone losing their shit at a Gallegher show.  

    Candace doesn't need to watch her mouth because there are insane people who would beat someone up over a 'yo momma joke anymore than I need to watch my mouth because someone may be offended that I order a diet coke. 

    I guess some people are raised for their sad fate, because if you go around with a skin so thin that you would beat someone up over a well recognized joke genre, its not long before you'll end up meeting your match or behind bars.  I would hope that most people are raised not to risk their freedom over something as trivial as a 'yo momma joke. But if thats how someone is raised, they have probably been raised to physically attack someone over a LOT of things and are just as likely to find as offense as my diet coke order.

     

     

     

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  3. On 10/9/2021 at 6:23 AM, anoninrva said:

    Our favorite (Lebanese, Halal) pizza place is also a hookah bar.  It's the only way you can smoke indoors in our city.

    Shawn and Daonte are both a little special.  I honestly can't tell if she's just blatantly sucking him dry of money or if she's a little special too.

    Prison cake looked foul.  I don't quite get how Lisa's mad about the arrangements *she* made, but it does seem like he's still treating her like a prostitute.  That pastor was right about a rotten foundation for their relationship.

    Lisa doesn't want to be "paid for sex" she wants to be in a "relationship" and as best as I can divine, her definition of a relationship is that she gets all the financial benefits of being an escort and none of the bothersome responsibilities of sleeping with an old man.  

    Its just the laziness of the grift.  All the benefits, none of the work.  

    She can get a job anytime and pay her own car note and insurance. 

    Either way, she has to work for that monthly car note.  

    Prison cake looks absolutely disgusting, as do those awful extensions.  I hate to say it, but if Stan loosened his pocketbook a little or was willing to go overseas, he could do better.  

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  4. 2 hours ago, Rambunctiouscurls said:

    Well said. I wish I could like this post more because you hit the nail on the head on how it escalated to begin with. Chris attempting to remove Candiace from the table as you would an unruly toddler makes HIM look good at Candiace’s expense especially when we could all see how Ashley was loud and instigating the mess. Maybe he was just drunk but he engaged Ashley twice and twice Ashley took the opportunity to slam Candiace. 
     

    I never liked or agreed when people dubbed him the Candiace whisperer. The only reason I could stand him was how he was the only one to stand up to creepy Darby but now he wishes he could get along with him and not get involved with the women’s issues with each other. How magnanimous of him. Candiace should start at home when watching her back. 

    I agree that I didn't like the optics of Chris trying to bodily remove Candace from the table.  I DO think he had her best interests at heart because he could see her walking into Ashley's trap, and knows that Candace has done a fairly decent job of staying above the fray for the first part of the season, which is likely part growth and part attempt to rehab her image.  

    She is getting her movies, her songs, her TV roles, and I'm sure that, at some point, she would like to eventually transition into doing more of that and less of HW.  But she needs to walk a fine line.  She can't be so boring that she doesn't get camera time, but she can't say too much, because she is always disproportionately blamed for whatever drama she gets into because she is much better at using her words as weapons.  Ashley is not on the same trajectory as Candace, and so she doesn't need to care about what may come back to cancel her later.  

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  5. 47 minutes ago, drivethroo said:

    I feel like there was another occasion where Robyn & Gizelle didn't like the accommodations so they went to a hotel, or am I imagining that?

     

    LOL, IIRC, Gizelle pulled the same stunt at Ashley's beach house when creepy Michael Darby showed up.  For all her dramatics, she ended up sleeping in the same room she was assigned at the beach house.  

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  6. 7 hours ago, Iguessnot said:

    What got me was she kept sharing this info with the men too.

    This was confusing, did anyone ask her?  It sounds like a possible Gordon question.

    Robyn had me cracking up.  Girl, put that phone down, you aren't spending the night anywhere else.  Such dramatics for the camera.  

    So on the fence with G, he is giving me dirty old man, but I feel some kind of kinship with someone who can fall asleep anywhere, and it looks like he gets into it with Ashley next week and I can't stand Ashley.  But it looks like it could be over something gross and he is still gross with that tongue, so I don't know.  Ray isn't going to like that he made his blushing fiancee feel so uncomfortable.  

     

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  7. 1 hour ago, Yours Truly said:

    What Candace does is NOT and repeat NOT confusing. It's a stretch to pretend that Candace's behavior, intentions and body language is "subjective". Her behavior is overtly obvious. 

    Anyway, regardless of all those nuanced details that is somehow supposed to paint Candace is some different light Candace is a very hurtful person and the explanation that people "push" her to be mean and heartless with her words still isn't gonna win her any fans. Ugly is ugly whether you use your words or use your hands. The idea that Candace can be excused while other people cannot doesn't fly with me. Candace still does her dirt. She ain't some babe in the woods that gets the short end of the stick. She chooses to wade in dangerous waters with how low she decides to go. The idea that the repercussions are going to be appropriately measured for the offense is a stupid gamble to make and Candace really likes swinging for the fences.

    Hey, if that's where she wants to take it that's on her but all in all my position is I ain't gonna feel bad if she does get dragged cause in her case its the cost of doing business. It's stupid to put yourself at risk in the first place and Candace does just that REGULARLY. 

    I'd say its very subjective because you and I disagree about it and I'm a reasonable person and I suspect you are too.  Where reasonable people disagree about the same thing its subjective. 

    "overtly obviously" what?  Verbally abusive?  I disagree.  I don't think yo momma jokes are verbally abusive and/or verbally intimidating and/or aggressive.  I think 'yo momma jokes are just that.  Jokes.  And since two reasonable people disagree then its subjective.  

    If you came up to me and called said my momma was low budget, even in the middle of an argument I wouldn't think it was verbally abusive.  I'd probably be confused, especially if you never met and didn't know my mother.  Since you've said that it, for you it would be verbally abusive, then there is room for reasonable minds to disagree and therefore it is subjective.  

    "Mean, heartless and ugly" are adjectives that can be applied to every single woman on this show.  

    Gizelle wearing that Uncle Ben shirt?  Mean, heartless and ugly.  Every ageist comment that Gizelle makes towards Karen?  Mean, heartless and ugly.  Gizelle spending an entire weekend getting her harpies and nags to pick on, talk over and gaslight wendy?  mean, heartless and ugly.

    Ashley deciding to pick on mentally unstable Katie?  Mean, heartless and ugly.

    Robyn bringing Gizelle to OZ, isolating Ashley from everyone else, getting in her face and telling her to stop running her mouth?  Mean, heartless and ugly.  Robyn calling Wendy an asshole?  Mean, heartless and ugly. 

    Karen saying that Gizelle went to an institution and had an STD on national TV?  Mean, heartless and ugly.  

    Saying that those adjectives ONLY apply to Candace's words and actions doesn't pass the smell test, because they are all done things that can rightfully be called "mean, heartless and ugly" and thats what makes terms like "verbal abuse" "verbal aggression" and "verbal aggression" subjective because they are hard to quantify into universally or commonly accepted rules.  But there is far less room for interpretation with physical violence.  

    You said - "The idea that the repercussions are going to be appropriately measured for the offense is a stupid gamble to make and Candace really likes swinging for the fences."

    To me, saying something like this is suggesting that no one should really say anything because if its unfairly interpreted then its their fault.  And I don't think that is particularly reasonable.  But it seems like in that sentence you recognize that Candace's offenses are not equal to the response she gets, but you're okay with this inequitable response.  

    You said - "Hey, if that's where she wants to take it that's on her but all in all my position is I ain't gonna feel bad if she does get dragged cause in her case its the cost of doing business. It's stupid to put yourself at risk in the first place and Candace does just that REGULARLY. "

    If getting physically attacked is the cost of upsetting someone with words, because your words put you at risk for a beating then everyone is putting themselves at risk for a beating and the show should be renamed Bad Girls Club of Potomac

     

     

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  8. 3 hours ago, Pop Tart said:

    My biggest issue with Candiace is not that she wants the last word or keeps an argument going (that's kind of a HW staple). It's that she invariably reverts to the very personal with her antagonists. Much has been said about her throwing the first lettuce/vegetables and then throwing other things around the counter, but she also told someone to get Mia's "pimp" (G). I found that extremely low.

    Additionally, her constant references to Mia's large feet and big hands? Just comes through to me as transphobic. What other inference is there to be had about commenting on a woman's large hands especially - but that Mia is a man in drag? And she's saying it as a dig? I'm not usually one to read too much into a comment, but Candiace has referenced Mia's big feet/hands a bunch of times and always in a sneering way.

     

     

    Mia asked Candace's mother about her husband's paycheck when Candace was no more than ten feet away.  To me that seems much more personal. 

    And Mia, who said, from the moment she came on camera, that she is "very open" has invited any and all speculation into the origin story of her marriage because she has at least 3 different versions of it.  Paid companion is not a stretch and I think its fair game, particularly as Mia won't shut up about being a "boss business bitch" who is just so classy and upscale and it seems pretty clear that Mia slept her way out of the strip club.  For me, this would have been more of an honest and inspiring story instead of Mia pretending like she has much of anything to do with the business Gordon built.  Mia was in a bad situation, saw a way out and successfully got it.  To me, that's a success story, but I can't buy her "I'm so honest" shtick, when I think she is lying about how she even met her husband.  

    I would agree that there is an element of cracking on Mia's big hands and feet as being trans, but I don't think thats any more pervasive than calling Candace or Wendy aggressive, the second they decide they no longer want to be shat all over.  

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  9. 1 hour ago, Yours Truly said:

     

    The thing I always think of is, sure you're technically not in the wrong and you have the law on your side but in reality what would you rather? Having the law on your side while in the hospital with you jaw wired shut? or maybe you should just throw your shade, have a little back and forth then leave well enough alone without going the extra step of testing fate by doing the whole "wish a motherfucker would" gamble then LOSING BIG TIME? Like she did last year with Monique. Sure Monique is gone but not before Candace got dragged and who is  apparently still dealing with personal trauma from that altercation. Candace will definitely have plenty of people in her corner and the culprit will more than likely reap some sort of punishment but at what price? Bitch in the hospital with her jaw broke. Like really? That makes no sense. All that just so she can be an asshole that hits below the belt and cuts deep? Also counting on the person you're antagonizing and egging on to NOT hurt you while you go for the jugular each and every time is not only the stupidest and most ridiculous strategy I could think of but the fact that people really believe this makes absolute sense makes it bizarre to me as well.  

    Add the fact that Candace does like to try and buck but really ain't about that life. Sometimes people really do need to check themselves before they wreck themselves and Candace is a PRIME example. 

    But by this logic, no one should say anything because it could cause someone to haul off and break your jaw, because "little shade" and a "little back and forth" are going to mean different things for different people and you'd have to tailor your response for the strongest person in the room.....who will be the only one talking.  And I don't want an hour of Robyn pontificating.  So, at that point, I may as well go check out this Squid Game I've been hearing so much about.  

    I think going for the jugular is a reasonable strategy for the same reason Mike Tyson wanted to TKO someone within the first twenty seconds.  He fought with fists, she fights with words, both are going to lay their opponent out if they can.  

    HOWEVER, they ALL know that they are only supposed to fight with words.  So no one should expect or foresee being physically hit in response to their words.  I also think that no one who stepped into the ring with Mike Tyson expected a "yo momma" joke or to be razzed for having big feet.  

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  10. 57 minutes ago, Yours Truly said:

    My thing is this. I really do believe in controlling yourself in an argument and I also DO NOT condone putting hands on anyone. With that said, I do believe that that EXACT same energy should be applied to not condoning verbal abuse, aggression and attempts at being intimidating.

    To me, a big problem with a statement like this is that it is so subjective, whereas the line between violence and words are not.  

    What is verbal abuse?  That is almost always going to be different for different people and there isn't a bright, hard line.  Some people will say that a 'yo momma joke is verbal abuse, but I would strongly disagree.  I think its a joke.  Some people would say that anytime a voice is raised or someone speaks in an upset tone that this is verbal abuse.  

    And this is only made more complicated by the fact that people most of the time have to use words to communicate, but really only what, 10% of communication is verbal.  So, you can misinterpret tone, or decide that you think the tone a person has adopted makes their words abusive.  

    People have to use words to communicate, but you don't need to use violence or even physical actions to communicate in most situation (sign language being the most obvious).  

    There can be a bright line between words and physical violence, but its much harder to have an agreed upon set of circumstances that can be termed "verbal abuse" and "verbal aggression"

    I was watching this old episode of American Justice about vigilante justice.  One of the cases that was highlighted was that of a guy on the subway in the 90s who was approached by five teens, one of whom asked him for $5.  Fearing that he was going to be beaten up and robbed, he shot all five men before they could even make a move against him.  

    Now, verbally, all they ever did was ask for $5.  And so the words themselves weren't abusive, aggressive or intimidating.  But when you looked at the situation, it was all sorts of shades of grey, and it could be interpreted either as five guys just asking for five bucks or five guys who were toying with their prey before they beat and robbed him.  

    There is a level of subjectivity with words that you don't have, as often, with physical violence.  So, I think they are very different and should be treated differently or given different energy.  

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  11. 1 hour ago, bichonblitz said:

    I wonder if Andy Cohen is sorry he gave Candyass another season. I doubt she'll be back for another. Mia is a shit stirrer and a snob but she keeps her cool. She makes trouble but never raises her voice and starts yelling and screaming like Candyass. Not only did Candyass throw the first bits of lettuce, she also started slamming and breaking things on the counter. She can't fight without 100% losing her shit. That's the difference between the two. 

    I don't think all shit stirrers are created equal (and I don't even think candace is one of them, as @drivethroo pointed out, she is often responding to someone, which is likely why Mia came for her).  

    For me, Mia brings nothing to the table.  No snappy reads, not even re-tread reads, Mia is just delusional.  From the revisionist history between she and G (he now paid her for "conversation" and he saw her dance, but first she served him drinks, and it wasn't stripping, and blah blah blah), to the fact that she went from not knowing her age to not knowing her husbands age, to the fact that she insists that she is some high powered businesswoman when she just isn't.  She looks like a melted crayon in the face and G and his rolling tongue are just gross*.  

    I think that Candace is more like a Kenya, and I've always loved a Cruella villain.  

    I don't particularly fault Candace for going low, if these women can't stand the heat, they shouldn't come into Candace's kitchen.  

    Ashley especially loves to play the "but what I said wasn't that bad!" game.  But its not because she isn't trying, its because Ashley isn't as fast on her feet.  

    I think Candiace will have a place on the show as long as she wants it.  Even Andy knows the value of a good villain, and even last year I didn't hear any chatter about Andy getting rid of her or demoting her.  

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  12. On 10/7/2021 at 10:26 PM, Talented Tenth said:

     

    So if one of the women doesn't speak on any of her mother's challenges the women should avoid insulting the mother, but if one of the women talks about her mother's challenges, the women have carte blanche to bash her?

    I'd say thats a fair enough rule.  If you make your mother a subject of the show you should expect that she is discussed on the show.  

    No one has to like it, but if you've chosen to make a person and their struggles public and part of your storyline then you should expect all the positives and negatives that come with it. 

    The only exception I would make would be for children. 

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  13. 10 hours ago, Marley said:

     

    Mia needs to stop with her whole boss shit. Your husband let you take over his businesses. Shut up.

     

    Chris almost seems to try too hard when he’s around the other guys. I think the way he starts talking is ridiculous. It’s like he’s trying to be cool and accepted or something. I don’t know I just notice it when around a big group of the husbands. It’s kind of embarrassing. He’s still a million times better then trash Michael Darby tho but that’s a lie bar lol

     

     

     

    If Andy Cohen takes suggestions, I'd like him to give Mia a few live, on air questions about various business terms that a "boss bitch" such as herself should know.  And I don't just want a dryly recited definition, I want her to explain how she uses it in her daily live as a "boss business bitch"  Because I doubt that Gordon even let her "take over" his businesses.  I think there is probably a manager who does most of the work and Gordon let her play "business barbie" for a day or two for the cameras.  

    LOL @ the bolded....happy accidents.  

    Not sure whats going on with Chris, he should just be himself.  I think Dre and Eddie are kinda efforlessly cool and Chris may feel loud and awkward around them.  

     

    3 hours ago, eXiled said:

    Exactly what I was thinking of when I wrote it. IMO, keeping it real goes wrong more often than not.

    I'll say this for Ashley: She certainly knows an entry point when she sees one. She knows Candiace is incapable of walking away from an argument; she counts on that to keep shit going. She's just as bad with her grudge-holding as Candiace is, yet never receives nearly as much blow-back when she starts shit.

    This.  Exactly.  I'm not even entirely sure Candace holds grudges, she just wants to have the last word.  And I think this is far more common than people want to admit.  

    Ashley held a grudge, even after she and Candace "cleared the air" and admitted that the grudge was the basis for her writing the statement for Monique.  

    2 hours ago, StillHere said:

    Yes, THAT, and since we are intellectually honest about the black community, "ya momma jokes" are the quickest way to get your ass beat ... if you're REALLY about that life.

    Are they?  Its sad that anyone would risk their freedom over a common insult joke genre that often doesn't even require the joke teller to have ever met the mother in question. 

    This is as ridiculous as someone trying to beat up Triumph, the insult comedy dog.  Or trying to beat up a comedian for razzing you if you sit in the front row of a comedy show.  Beating someone up for a 'yo momma joke doesn't say anything great about that person, other than that they can't take a joke so maybe its best they not be out and about in the community.    

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  14. 14 hours ago, Sharper2002 said:

    Candiace is just too immature – plain and simple. She fights with her words, but as Chris said, she won’t let things go and ends up going below the belt. 

     

    Karen and Gizelle have been having the same fight for like three seasons and both are in their 50s.  Ashley admitted that she only wrote the statement for Monique to get back at Candace, after the two had made up.  Karen was talking about Gizelle wishing death on Ray for something she said like in season 3.  So, I don't think that anyone should suggest that not letting things go is reserved to Candace.  

    And I'd maintain that the two lowest points in the show was Ashley viciously going after a very clearly mentally unstable Katie and only apologizing after Gizelle pretty much forced her and Gizelle wearing that Uncle Ben t-shirt for Karen's "press conference".  

     

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  15. 58 minutes ago, blixie said:

    This, Candiace weak ass throwing arm and the fact it's butter knife somehow absolves of her being violent and judged,  why be surprised the lessons she learned was if you are gonna get physical/aggressive be BAD at it (the butter knife, the finger pointing, the lettuce leaves) and you are off the hook. And this woman weaponizes tears like a professional Karen. Even in this conflict with Mia no one is mentioning her flinging bronze tchotchke across the island, again pure luck it injured no one and broke nothing. Mia shouldn't tossed salad and The Mouth shouldn't have flung bronze.

    I think I'd consider what is being thrown and the "sincerity" of the throw in determining intent.  If someone weakly throws a nerf ball in my general direction, I'm not going to see the same violent intent in that as if someone throws a ninja throwing star directly at my with skill and might.  I'd be more inclined to assume the second person had a violent intent.  A butter knife, at least in California, is seen more along the lines of the Nerf ball and not the ninja star.  

     

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  16. 15 hours ago, truthaboutluv said:

     

    And sorry but I don't buy for a second that Candiace had no clue about Mia's mother. She knew EXACTLY what she was doing when she went there. And that fake, "oh if I knew, I'd have just talked about her big hands and feet" was more bullshit. Because the fact is, as someone noted in last week's thread, Candiace kept getting angrier and digging lower and lower the more Mia was NOT reacting to her. So when the "pimp, hoe, etc." didn't phase Mia, she went for the mother shade.

    Why - if she supposedly had no clue about her mother. And what was that bullshit about the group keep coming for Dorothy...when and who? Like I said, Candiace at this point just seems like an angry, unhinged brat which might be slightly less embarrassing if she was in her early 20s and not a 35 year old woman. Grow the fuck up, already. 

    I can buy that Candace didn't know about Mia's mother because the only thing that we know she said about Mia's mother wasn't specific and was, IMO, a clear take on a 'yo momma joke using Mia's initial barb and in fact her exact words.  Which doesn't seem to indicate any specific knowledge about Mia's mom.  

    If Mia had said Candace was a dork, I highly suspect the comeback would have been "yo' momma is a dork"

    I also think that Mia wasn't a super famous, high profile entity prior to this show and a lot of records are sealed for family court and if Mia's mom was in jail for 20 years, she would have been sentenced in the early 2000's.  Some stuff would have been online and would have been transferred online, but I'm not sure how much, and if it was a drug charge it could have been state or federal (I'd imagine), though 20 years, to me, seems like it would be more of a federal charge.  

    All this to say that I don't think it was a matter of Googling Mia and easily finding out about her mother.  I don't think Gizelle and Robyn are so close with Candace that they told her and Wendy only found out pretty recently and while she and Candace are friends Wendy also has a family, a one wick candle business and a zoom class we've seen her teach.  Kiki'ing with Candace may not have been top of mind, and for me, that's Mia's business to tell, so if I were in Wendy's position I wouldn't put it out there to anyone.  

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  17. Mia uses her mother's recovery the same way Ashley uses motherhood.  

    Mia drags her mother on national TV and browbeats her for not watching her kids enough.  Mia drags her mother on TV and has her relive her darkest and most shameful moments on national TV.  

    She really doesn't think that is going to invite cruel commentary from the general public?

    Life itself is going to invite cruel commentary and if her mother is really that fragile, then I don't know why Mia thinks a change in environment and situation so that she can now watch Mia's kids would be any good for her.  

    If a person she doesn't know, who doesn't know her, calling her low budget is going to send her to relapse then why is Mia bringing her onto this show in the first place?  

    All of these women should be treated equally.  Mia used Candace's mother to hurt her.  Candace used Mia's mother to hurt her.  

    And the only difference is that it is highly likely that Mia knew about Candace's strained relationship with her mother before she did it, and Candace did not know about Mia's mother and made an offhand 'yo momma style joke.  

     

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  18. 21 hours ago, Talented Tenth said:

    I'm just curious.  Is it okay for people to be classist if they were born rich?

    I'm trying to understand the link.  Please explain how Mia asking Candiace's mother about Chris getting paid (a conversation Dorothy opened the door for) for managing means Candiace has the license to insult Mia's mother.

     

    What Dorothy said is irrelevant.  Mia is the one who made the decision to entertain and engage in gossip about someone she doesn't know standing 10 feet away. 

    Mia wasn't asking Dorothy because she cared.  If she cared she could have asked candace.  Who was there and whose number she has through the floss posse group text.  

    But I refuse to believe that Mia joined this show and didn't watch past seasons. 

    If that's the case she knew about the issues between Dorothy and candace and decided to try to hurt candace by using her mom. 

    And even if she didn't know about their strained relationship Mia used Dorothy to hurt candace because she was never under duress to entertain or start that conversation.   What Dorothy did doesn't change mias intent.  

    Candace made a yo momma joke about mias mom without knowing her at all.  Since mias mom wasn't there to hear the comment it was clearly meant to hurt Mia. The same way Mia used Dorothy to hurt candace.  

     

     

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  19. 20 hours ago, Talented Tenth said:

    All of their mothers have been on the show, so does that mean it's okay to insult them every time the Housewives get into an argument?

    I dont think that they all have made their mothers struggles a storyline.  

    And I don't think everyone has made it a point to approach someone else's mother without knowing them to get tea when the subject was 10 feet away.  

    So, I think the comparison doesn't stand because the situations are different and distinct. 

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  20. 1 hour ago, Baltimore Betty said:

    I went to the Getty Art Museum many years ago, it was amazing, the amount of art is awe inspiring and the building and grounds are interesting, all it takes a whole lot of money!

    It is a massive collection.   

    Way way way back in the day they only had the Getty villa in Malibu and the collection was so massive they would rotate it like every 6 months IIRC.  

    The villa is now dedicated to Greek, Roman and esreuscian (sp) art and history.  Which is....glorious since I love  Greek and Roman history and art.  

    The center on the hill is wonderful but it's so much to see!!!!

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  21. 10 hours ago, HotHW said:

    Candiace's mother is literally on the show causing most of the trouble surrounding her daughter. She's fair game as far as I'm concerned. If Candiace doesnt want people talking about her mom, then tell her to go away and shut her mouth. 

    Candiace wasnt making a lame 90's yo momma joke. Candiace is trash. And continues to prove it week after week. 

    Candace was absolutely making a yo momma joke.  "'Yo momma is low budget" is pretty clearly along the lines of a yo momma joke particularly as candace doesn't know Mias mother.  

    Mia didn't have to ask Dorothy about chris"s pay even if dot was willing to talk about it.  

    So mia put mothers into the mix between she and candace by entertaining and encouraging the conversation. 

    Therefore she should not expect that her mother will be off limits when candace comes for her.   

    Particularly as Mia has put her mother and her problems on display on national TV for a storyline. 

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  22. 1 hour ago, spunky said:

    I hope they know that the 90 days they'll spend in jail for harassment will be public record as well.

    That's true as well. I have to go research J. Paul Getty now because I've never heard of him.

    LOL.  I live in California and the Getty museum and villa are a huge deal.  

    So I always assumed he was just a nice rich guy.  Not so!

    If you have HULU, there is an FX show called TRUST that is a drama about the kidnapping of his grandson.  Very interesting.  

    Long story short, everyone assumed that with the last name Getty you could ransom the grandson... but Getty was one of those guys who really wanted to haggle the ransom.  

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