The time to tell Anfisa about not being a millionaire and your $30K+ debt is before you bring her to the States, before you marry her, and certainly before you take her to see a $7800/month rental. I don't care how many sisters Jorge has telling him how great he is, he's a piece of shit for making stupid promises he couldn't keep. Even if you're one of the original investors in Amazon, you don't chase a woman who wants nothing to do with you until you promise to buy her everything she wants then get to act surprised when they're digging for gold. Anfisa isn't my cup of tea, but she's never lied about why she is with Jorge.. and she's still not lying. I felt genuinely bad for her while she was sharing her feelings with her friend. His blindsided act is so old, and he's almost predatory.
Side note: Get a new realtor. When you say my budget is $5K/month and she takes you somewhere that's almost $8K/month, she's crap. Then she has the audacity to say how uncomfortable it is for her when a wife wants a home and the husband can't afford it. They shouldn't even be there, dimbulb!
How did this never come up during her initial time in Miami?