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Section 8 Yacht Club. Wow .. He should be in Advertising on Madison Avenue. Asshole. He thinks he's so cool and soooo smart. He was probably told how cute and smart he was growing up. Yeah, he'll get a significant other .. In his dreams.

Marriage is hard enough and lots of work when you love someone. I can't imagine marriage at first sight. Those "experts" show me nothing. All the bloggers on this site could give better advice from what I read. Tonight was a disaster.

And I'm beginning to think that this show is now all fixed, and they are throwing in all kinds of different things like the Heather & Derek breakup and the "Tantra" weird episode. I don't believe a person would go on this type of show and make an ass out of themselves. Example: Heather serving a drink on a plane and someone saying "aren't you that girl that dumped that guy on t.v."? Pfttt !

Yes .. In the movies, the actors & actresses are soooo good. Then they go on a late night t.v. Talk show and act and talk so unbelievably stupid .. You get disappointed. Some actresses especially, talk so silly and stupid when they don't have a script.

Nice choice. I agree with what you say. Personality does come into play after the first attraction. That's where it's "a go" or its "a stop". In Nick and Sonia's situation, even tho she is a nice person, it doesn't appear that they would mesh well together. And, there's nothing wrong with that. So, as of now, it might be a "stop". Only they know at this point. Too bad about your "nightmare".

O.k. ... Then, just curious ... Who would you say is attractive to you? Someone that we all know. And, IMO, on the wedding day, I thought Sonia was a "knockout" with the makeup, hair, dress, etc.. But then after that, she looked "plain" and her personality slightly annoying. I still believe in attraction at first sight. I've dated guys that had "everything a girl could want" and tried to care for them, but I just couldn't connect no matter what. But, the minute I laid eyes on my husband for the first time .. BAM ! Thunderbolts ! And we're still married after many, many years.

Don't worry. I had emergency gallbladder surgery and it was the least trouble out of 4 surgeries I had. Instead of incision, they did arthoscopic (4 small holes) surgery, so no cutting. General surgery .. You are out in 2 seconds, wake up and maybe eat lunch. Was in hospital 2 days and had no side affects afterwards. Joan Rivers had completely different surgery. During endoscopy (tube down throat) Dr. Did something with vocal cords. You will be fine.

Ha ha ha ha ha ha .. Don't make me pee my pants.

After watching this episode again, I think you ar right. Sonia is "tiring". I think he needs someone who can spar with him and understand his humor. He needs someone who is stronger and can challenge him. Someone more stimulating. I know Sonia is a sweetheart, but just doesn't mesh well with Nick.

Regarding Nick, before I was married, I was dating a good looking guy for about 3 months. He took me to meet his family .. His friends .. I went to weddings with him, etc.. All this while, it was a peck on the cheek. He never wanted to "make out". One night while "parking & sparking" in a park, it was a few kisses, and then he said he had to go to the bathroom and wanted to go home. BINGO ! Then I got it. He was gay and probably trying to find himself. How stupid was I ? Nick reminds me of that.

We will see Toms colors when he puts the Nurse's cap on.

Wow! What a surprise .. NOT ! Those experts really did a good job matching Heather & Derek. She was done on Day 2. I think it was something more than the smoking. She couldn't stand him; it was so obvious. I'd like to see the questions on the applications. Sonia - Men "HATE" confrontation. They cringe when they have to talk about "feelings." Most of the time when they apologize, they don't even know for what. If Nick isn't at least a little affectionate now, will he ever be? Three weeks in and nothing. Weird for a guy .. No? But the again, he did say he didn't pick her the usual way with attraction, so I guess he has to learn to like or even love her. I love Sonia, but I wish she would not end her sentences with that question voice. After 3 weeks, Lily should not be focusing on children yet. Don't scare the guy off .. He's still getting to know you. Calm down. These exercises are a joke. These experts are a joke.

Yes. Everything you said in this post makes a lot of sense.

And, Sonia says the one thing she likes about Nick is his "humor"? WHAT HUMOR? That dry as toast humor?

What a crappy episode. All commercials and flashbacks. And the cliffhanger! What bullshit. Sonia has to tell Nick "no dogs in the bed. Nick has to talk to Sonia and not keep looking away from her. He also has to tell her she's beautiful and have sex already. She is starving for affection .. what's wrong with him? Something bad transpired on Heather & Derek's wedding night. She is done with him. I don't believe it's just the smoking. Two weeks in and already Lily is talking children. And, enough of the bed scenes. I don't think Dr. Pepper is of any help to anyone. They all could get better advice from their relatives. What a crock.

OMG .. Have been thinking the same thing, especially since Sonia has been throwing hints left & right for him to DO SOMETHING .. ANYTHING .. To make her feel wanted. By Nick saying he "wants to take it slow", I think he is full of shit. He's just not not her I think.

So Lily said "Oh my Gosh, I'm cooking for a stranger". Really darling? ... You've only been having sex with him for the last week .. Ditz!

Did I miss something here? What's the 411 on Dr. Pepper? Something about her leaving her husband and doing what?

Hey Jack Sampson .. Now I get it! Like someone posted before but I can't remember who as my brains and eyeballs are falling out from reading, Tom might have noticed that Lily might have the tendency to gain some weight down the road. And I'm not yelling .. I respect all opinions.

If he was smoking pot on day two, I don't think she would want to get to know him anymore. Seems like that's a very big issue with her.

OKerry .. Thanks for the info. I will watch "Love at First Kiss" tonight.

Continuing my previous post. They would have to meet up first, then decide on the spot if they want to continue.

I STRONGLY believe in "attraction" at first sight. I don't think Heather was attracted to Derek at all, but she gave it a shot for one day. Sonia was attracted to Nick and Lily was with what's his name. They should have a show "Attracted at First Sight" and see what happens.