Jason to Carly: "Nothing is more important to me than you and Joss."
Hear that, Sam? Sure, you could suppose he only meant it, re Oscar's upcoming death, but, let's be real: Carly is always first above Sam, his kids, and any other family. It's gross and pathological, but the show seems to love this canon.
Speaking of Sam, I love that her grand scheme was to search the DoD house. Such an ace P.I.