JAndy

I wish for decision day they would write it on a board and then turn the board at the same time

So I didn’t think he was being unreasonable in that scene. I feel like that background sounds made it seem worse. He was really even toned and wasn’t being nasty about it. The only thing I didn’t like is when he compared Rockie to Tex. He shouldn’t have said that at all. Like “Tex doesn’t do that.” The line about him getting training for Tex when he was a puppy, whatever - but don’t compare the two dogs - that’s going to put her on the defensive. I think they are both bad communicators. She’s very reactive and emotional and then it makes him reactive and stubborn. They need to both work on it

I wasn’t sure what kind of compromise she wanted? He said he’d sell his place and they’d buy a new one they both picked out. I do think he has horrible delivery. He needs to work on that. On unfiltered he said it was a character flaw, so maybe looking back at himself on TV he doesn’t like what he sees

I would think it would depend on what her believes and his beliefs actually are. Maybe he doesn’t care if LGBTQ people get married but still votes red for other reasons because he’s not as passionate about that issue.

Aw she was trying. I think their conversation at the end was really good. They at least were listening to each other. Hopefully he can bend on some of his issues because I do feel like they are really trying.

I think it closed in March 2020 My husband and I are different politically. We just don’t talk about it. He has definitely grown more and changed some of his views on the social issues after being exposed to more in life. So maybe that can happen for them?

The were to live should be compromised on - but I don’t think children can be. If you want them or you don’t. That’s a huge issue. I do think he’s quick to make all of these statements though. But he seems to go back on them and actually compromise. If they stay together they should go and buy some thorn together. Does he own his place and she rents?

Did anyone watch Unfiltered? Seems like Haley is so not into Jacob at all. Like I could feel the disdain through my television. Pastor Cal, Erik & Haley. I felt like it was obvious which couple is still together and which isn’t from it

I don’t know why I thought you were talking about the end scene with them having dinner at his place 😂 I am not going to fault her for wearing leggings at the driving range though (is that what you meant?) I’ve been living in my leggings since last March 😂

Maybe she “freshened up” Before going to erik’s place. He did say he left her a note back at their shared apartment

In the decision day previews I don’t understand why he doesn’t just leave his jacket unbuttoned. It was really struggling

Into your arms

Nah I’m not sure. I think that he and Virginia work well together oddly enough. He seems to really be into her. Says that she brings that “color” to life - which I don’t think Haley really does. We may see a different Erik with Haley. I think Virginia is bringing a more fun side to Erik out (but also a more paranoid side sometimes too lol). I think those 2 will actually work out in the end Erik started it by inviting himself along lol. He and Virginia were probably drunk already in their room 😂. At that point they both seemed to be drinking a lot

Oh really? What day/time is this?

Oh I’m not saying it’s not silly - just that the situation makes sense with how it went down. She stopped off at Virginia and Erik’s room - those two were getting along so he wanted to come too. Haley just isn’t into him and didn’t want to be alone with him. She probably should just be honest but maybe she is actually trying and isn’t having feelings. they are pretty painful to watch though. I don’t think they get along well. All of their interactions seem stiff

MAFSFAN exclusive Reddit spoiler was that all of the couples who said yes on decision day are still together now.

Haley explained it on Unfiltered. It was going to be a girls night, Erik wanted to go too so he went with Virginia. Ryan came down with Clara and was going to gamble but when he saw Erik, he decided to stay. Haley wanted some space from Jacob so didn’t say anything. They said they didn’t “run away” but kind of glossed over that part. Her explanation to the girls night did seem legitimate though. I could see that happening. here’s the link to it on YouTube. It’s towards the end

He said she brings color into his life. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Maybe he just likes her? There has to be more that they aren’t showing us

I agree. I think he notices but he likes (loves?) her and he’s letting it slide right now. I think if he wasn’t into her, it would be a bigger deal

I feel like if a man bought a women clothing on the show though, it wouldn’t be perceived as well. She basically was saying she’s buying the clothing because she doesn’t like what he wears.

Admittedly, I’m a Virginia and Erik fan. I thought the scene at the end of the show was really cute. I hope that they both are able to make the compromises to make their relationship work. I think they genuinely care about each other. Briana and Vincent were cute too. Too bad one of the last scenes with them was him overreacting about the dancing lessons. I like Clara, but sometimes I don’t know if he likes her. I do think she kind of blew him off after he made the long speech. haley and Jacob are done. She’s not into him. I think they are just going through the motions now. I can’t even with Paige. Omg

I thought Erik looked better on Unfiltered before the show. Like he dressed really well and his hair seemed different. I do think he’s more attractive than Jake, but I think attraction is a person preference. I wish I could just buy the whole season and then binge watch it and be done lol

I agree with you 100%. You definitely said it better than I could have. I think it’s more of a misunderstanding between them. But we will see.

I’m confused about this episode. Are they using old footage? I remember that Anthony’s birthday is in August from their original season of MAFS and confirmed it when I googled.

I feel like the guys are still With their wives. Their vibes give off that they are happy