What makes BM's departure seem worse is that we are stuck with SBu. Jason has no standing to broach anything to do with morality except maybe blinking. Putting him in action scenes or defiling a soldier's uniform isn't going to change the fact that he intimidates, threatens, and metes out his own brand of justice during his chosen profession of being Sonny's enforcer. (see. Sonny threaten Alexis' new shrink). The only location on this planet that these mob scum deserve to be breathing (if at all) is on a bug-infested island populated only with other violent scum. Thankfully, someone with some semblance of opposable thumbs behind the scenes has attached Curtis to some of Jason and Sam's scenes.
While there is less than nothing to excuse her attempting to rape BM, I don't think that the character/actress is long for the show. That character has the misfortune of being a doctor (a GYN/OBYN that isn't even treating Carly) and dating Julian = toast.