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Nah. They can leave at ANY TIME. Hello Heather!! Season 4!! Props to that girl!! That's how they film after it's over, SEPARATELY, NOT a fake marriage. If they're done & won't try to grow the marriage, QUIT!! PLEASE!! EXACTLY!! That's the point, but many do quit & we have to watch BS!! Like the extreme, Matt, & the low-key, Keith. Then there's the abuser, Jamie. I don't want to see that!! Haha. Did he EXPLICITLY say that?? NO!! Even at the Decision, he still hid & said "relationship experience." 😂 We shouldn't have to break down & interpret what he's using a lot of words, but not saying. Neither should his WIFE!! He refuses to be COMPLETELY UPFRONT & HONEST. Just BS! 😒 I don't think he would've had sex with her, he likes sexual maturity. He wants someone who's out running the streets! 😝 Jk.
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I mean, it is what it is. Can't bother being upset with someone's truth, doesn't change it. Yes. She reacted poorly, but she didn't hold it against him!! She got over it & kept it moving, he didn't!! WAS he sexing up until wedding day?? Good for him, since he didn't get any for 8 weeks. That was stupid, leaving an EMPTY boxxx! Destroy the evidence! 😂😂 He should've told her that was a red flag/strike & he'd be backing out of the marriage cuz that's how he is & being married doesn't change that, since that's prolly what he did. But that could've & should've been worked thru since they were MARRIED, NOT counting trivial red flags/strikes. 😒😒 Ugh. Them quitter types... punks marriage ain't for!!
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UNRECOGNIZABLE. I thought that was his new girlfriend. 😂😂
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No. There was no real mystery. We knew he was faking, just a matter of how long. & those questions are never answered. We don't want to see faking & playing nice until the end. We want the normal, "they have their issues, will they keep going?" 😂😂 WHAT percentage of viewers WON'T watch the finale?? We want to see, it's a given. If anything, they should tone down the fakers & abusers cuz we don't want to see them.
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Seriously??!! 😂😂 He stayed with her util Decision Day when he was done LONG BEFORE IT = FAKING & MISLEADING!!!! WHATEVER caused him to quit. "Your OCD about sinks, drawer liners, outside clothes on the bed... Your freak out over my condoms...." But really, "You're a virgin & I could teach you.... but I have to charrrrge." 😉😂 BAHAHA. Had to make it funny. The TRUTH sets BOTH free.
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You know what? I'd actually be okay with BOTH of them faking til the end, instead of what he did. If he would've sat her down & said, "I'm done. What do you want to do?" That would've been "nice." 😂😂 If he would've actually tried addressing his issues/concerns. But, eh, he didn't care. So. We have to listen to more VAGUE bs, unless someone gets him to FINALLY say the WHOLE TRUTH!!
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BAHAHA. It is NOT nice to double-talk, bs, say half-truths, or withhold relevant thoughts & feelings from the person involved & fake the funk til Decision Day!! That. SIMPLE. He was nice in the beginning when he was trying. NOT after that, making her think they're still growing the relationship. WHY not quit after those 1st couple of weeks then???? That'd be honorable & respectable. What? He's "nice" because he graced her with his presence & faked it til the end? COME. ON. 😂😂
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BAHAHA. Sure. You can say negative things in a nicer way. Just DON'T BS or hold back!! It's less about words & more about TRUTH. Actually explaining & referencing events would help with understanding. It's helpful & useful. This is the problem with lying & bsing in a "relationship." You should give more than bs, given all the time spent. No one's a hero trying to "spare feelings" by bsing. HONESTY is the hero! 😂
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Uhhhhhhhh. How about, "I've been faking & misleading you since ______. Sorry. Not sorry. I'm TRASH." To start. NOT vague, bs statements. I CAN'T STAND THAT SH*T! It's unacceptable, EXPLAIN what you're saying. Cite events, support what you're saying so we're CRYSTAL CLEAR. 😂
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He IS misleading!! But, it's dumb to be in denial. He said DIVORCE. Maybe they discussed being friends... I wouldn't. He HURT you, you FOOL!! LET HIM GO!! Maybe she's watching the show & seeing how he double-talked her, screwing the marriage. So, eh, at least he got to screw something. 😂😂 #TEAMPETTY
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Oh she was definitely hurt & some emotion escaped when she cried, but she shut it off & put on a brave face from the shock of it. Everything crumbled right before her eyes. He misled her, confused her, & blindsided her. It was effed up & she's allowed to act however she wants, it's done. I woulda cursed him out, but eh, maybe the lemonade is more worthy of her emotions. Definitely more valuable. 😉😂 #TEAMPETTY I'd rather all dumped & screwed over spouses just keep it moving & never look back!! Their spouses aren't worth one more second. It'd be too badass to show no emotion.
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Their divorce rate is about 75%! 😂 I was gunna say the "success" rate, but I don't consider dysfunction a success. It's not just staying married. The spouses that STOLE from the show by faking & lying should pay for their own divorce!! 😂 Nah. Their spouse, AT LEAST, deserves that after being hurt by them, should they ask. They deserve the truth, FINALLY.
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Because there IS A REASON & EVERYONE should be adults & just SAY THEM!!!! NOT VAGUE, CONFUSING BS so both can, PROMPTLY, move on. You see how bs lies drag it out?? Totally counter to the type that just checks out. 😂
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Yeah.....he's a 1.5 out of a TRILLION!! 😂😂
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You know Matt pulled a Luke/d*ck move by lying, disrespecting, treating her like crap to FORCE her to divorce him. So LOW. So UNNECESSARY. The WORST! Isn't it more effort bsing & being a shitty sack of trash?? I hope. 😅 Can't wait to NEVER see that DISGUSTING hairy lip EVER AGAIN!! Makes me wanna puke just thinking about it!!
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Most of them tend to say about others what applies to them.... TELL ME THEY KNOW THAT!! Furthermore, they can't confront or call out their own spouse, but confronts another's. Funny. Amber mustered all her strength, but she's still needy, as evidenced with the Polaroids. She's still confused & broken by what happened & Mr. Closed Chapter won't tell her ANYTHING but BS. She is very damaged by him. I think most participants stay in bad marriages to complete the experiment, no matter the personal cost. It's quite tragic. The point of being MAFS is that you don't walk away when it gets difficult/they encounter something they dislike, like in normal, dating situations. The tragedy is some do quit, but fake it or try & suffer to the end, feeling stuck. It has the opposite desired outcome.
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It's like we agree & disagree. I think he shouldn't have given her space & time & left it all up to her. They should've been more normal, where physical is mutual & natural. Showing & expressing their attraction, CONSTANTLY. I understand, he's concerned he'd make her uncomfortable, but like NO touching, affection, compliments, NOTHING to warm her up?!! That was something for THEM to figure out! It seems unnatural to pick a day. I'd think it'd just happen after connecting physically & deciding to go all the way. 😂 If it is a "day" case, it's prolly the wedding night.... to someone she KNOWS. It's prolly something she hopes is a meaningful experience, an expression of love, NOT a "curious, let's see how this goes" thing. 😂 They both failed. But she was trying & he wasn't.
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Elizabeth said she'd be really, really crazy if she didn't stay with him. 😯😂 No, boo. Quite the OPPOSITE!!
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REALLY JAMIE?? You regret NOTHING?? NONE of the VILE things you said to your WIFE?? Figures. Same for Elizabeth & her violent outburst. They are so messed up!!
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HOW?? Was she just supposed to wake up one day & decide it was time? All on her own? No help from him.. yeah, right. That's ridiculous! I mean, on Unfiltered, she said he never said he was attracted to her or complimented her. Physical intimacy takes TWO to build, but he left it all on her... WHAT'D he expect her to do?😒😒 He wanted her to fail, he's glad she didn't initiate sex. He couldn't handle the pressure of being her 1st.
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WHY can't men be adults & just SAY IT & walk away?? They got married to avoid bs games & got the opposite. 😂 It's crazy having to navigate being mind-fvcked by your own SPOUSE! Lying & misleading & doing the opposite with their actions.. SMDH
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UGH! & Keith continued misleading Iris!! GROSS!! Be HONEST & stop torturing her!! Do these mofos NOT understand treating someone the way they'd want to be treated??!! 😒 Jamie: Any hope for the future or do you think it's just done? Keith: I don't know what the future holds, I w/couldn't count it out. STOP BSING!! Again. CAN'T be direct to save his life! Got Iris all confused & in a daze from shock. TERRIBLE!
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YESSSSSSS!! UNNECESSARY!! Overdid it, like the weddings. Plus the crazy music. Editing on acid. Just. No. 😂
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She was tryna act all strong & also see if he cared AT ALL about their marriage. Then just got more hurt & more confirmation that he's TRASH!
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He prolly can't either. He.must think he's actually believable. 😂