HellsBells

The tic could be a side-effect of medication, specifically ADHD medicine.

I think a lot of unmarried women who have children are not and do not consider themselves single because they are cohabiting and sharing everything and for all practical purposes, are married. Some people aren't religious , so the church thing is out. Some don't care to spend money on a reception and maybe don't care to be the center of attention. Because the taboo for the most part of being unmarried has waned, people are committing without the marriage certificate.

At least it's a short, easy name to pronounce. I agree that it's no big deal and that she knows who he is and where her name came from as he is in her life. I know it's difficult to change a child's name . I wonder if Aubree was given her mother's last name at birth and Adam was listed on the birth certificate as the father, how tricky it would be to later change the name to the father's? I think it sucks for kids who are given their father's last name at birth to have those father's abandoned them when they are infants and then they're stuck with some random name that has no connection to them. A relative of mine has three kids with three different sperm donors, the kids all have different last names and now she has her husband's last name. I would almost advise a pregnant woman ( teenager) to give the baby her last name if she doubts he'll stick around, and if the father is still in the picture when the kid starts kindergarten, then change the name. Idk? I'm not judging, its confusing. I was not married when my child was born but we got married when he was a toddler. I changed my name years after we married when he started school because I decided I wanted us all to have the same name. Personal choice, my choice.

I've been married a long time. Someone please explain what the tinder dating app is

It makes you wonder what kind of parents Adam has? I'm having a hard time believing two decent people raised Adam.

What? That's how she meet him! MTV hired him? She's pathetic. In a bad way. That's sad. She has no core, no idea who she is or what she's about to just Velcro herself to the nearest dick possible. It has to come from her upbringing, right? This have no self worth and just jump on the closest man.... Hey, I'm a huge believer in the latest studies that suggest genetics have way more influence over personality traits than previously assumed. Common thought decades ago was that we all come into the world as a " clean slate" and our environment wrote on that slate. I always balked at that seemingly archaic notion, and tended to agree that so much of our personality and certainly our temperament is determined by our DNA. However, self esteem and confidence seem to be acquired through a healthy childhood. I have to wonder about Leah's childhood with Mamma Dawn. Did Mamma Dawn take Leah to the library? And tell her she can do anything? I see the writing on the walls with these girls. It's no wonder at all that Leah is constantly chasing; that Janelle is constantly screaming, it's no wonder given how involved Randiliousious is that Chealse is valuing a family man. Kail is just trying to survive because that's what she does. None of these people are flawless, but the one's who have family and their kids' on the front burner are the ones who either came from that or got a glimpse of that and made it their mission.

Wow, exactly. I know someone exactly like this. She sort of surrounds herself with who she considers important and big fishes in their small pound. Funny thing is this person I know was raised in the same kind of neglect as Kail was. Very dysfunctional. And yeah, the person I know, the moment I said something about a subject that she wasn't completely on board with, she cut me loose. Cut me like a bitch. And we had known each other for years. Very sensitive. It must come as a result of the upbringing.

Yeah, that is obnoxious. Ugh, how do I say this diplomatically? So many women are inculcated to be self absorbed assholes regarding their wedding. They lose their good sense. My sister in law thought nothing of asking me to pay more than a weeks pay for her ugly brides maid's dress. It was more than I paid for my own wedding dress. I was in a different financial spot than her ( in college, husband in grad school, parent to a toddler) at the time. However, Kail didn't have a mother to say , hey this is the etiquette here, so I give her a pass.

I think she was a young, pregnant teenager thinking about having her own child to raise . And with that she may have been thinking about her own family of origin and perhaps that reaching out to her father might bring some love and peace. If I put myself in her shoes, that's what I imagine. She was abandoned by the two people who were supposed to provide and nurture her. Being pregnant is an emotional upheaval. It was a tear jerker watching her interact with her father. She was shortchanged by those who were supposed to meet her physical and emotional needs as a child. And while still very much a child, pregnant with the impending birth of a child that she will be responsible for, she, as if grasping for something that isn't there, flew down to Texas and was disappointed, rightfully so. It kills me to see kids abandoned. It is never justified, and I think those who don't take care of their own are the lowest of the low. It had to he crushing. But, I think she is a survivor and survivors push that yucky stuff down and get on with what needs to be done. In many ways she is very pragmatic and I think her pragmatism comes off as cold but all in all in all she has risen above; i. e. college, caring for her sons, making a home, trying to get ahead. But if her interpersonal stuff is whacked it's no wonder considering where she has come from. Just my, opinion. Okay, I thought I was quoting the person who said she was looking for a pay out with oil money from Daddy Warbucks. I guess not. I'm an idiot, I screwed up. I've been reading here forever and before that over at TWOP for years. Also, whoever said Cole is like Marty from Back to the Future, omg I had that exact thought! Also, Janelle ALWAYS RAM need me of, both in looks, bone structure, slits for lips, and sociopathy of Diane Downs ( the mother who shot her kids because her new man didn't want any).