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Emily in the bar looks like she’s still wearing her wedding ring. No one else is. The back of her hair is jacked up. Tattoo, nattoo. Emily and the fam have issues. Emily embraces the hate and wants to blow up his relationship with his new boo. Sounds like someone I want to hang out with.

In the US there IS misogyny. And racism. I saw it in corporate America. I dont see any of it on this forum though. Telling someone you just met/married that you like one-night stands, and then down shots like it is going out of style, that might affect how your groom looks at you. I am a big fan of the Women's Liberation Movement, but not using it as a crutch to excuse horrible behavior. My mother and grandmother fought for the liberation of women. Women could not even own credit cards until the 70s. But Emily is no feminist. She is a party girl who cant let go of the past and move on. Look at her attitude towards both Kevin at Keisha. Totally nasty. Look at how every time the guys were trying to make a pertinent point, they either fake cried or talked over the guys so they could not get their points out. That was a deliberate strategy, BTW. If the other side cant get their point out, you automatically win. But it backfired. Emily says hate is good. I disagree. I think hate is bad. Even if you are in the right, hate can destroy you.

Our angel, Emily, says that having hate is a good thing. 😇Chloe seemed a bit angry at Lauren for possibly snagging her man. The men looked defeated.

I cant understand why it is controversial to say that it is a bad idea to tell your spouse that you just met that you like one night stands and guys ghost you afterwards, and expect the relationship to go smoothly. Why was it so important that Brennen knows that? Do you know how many guys my girlfriends slept with? I dont know. I never asked. I never volunteered how many women I slept with and they never asked. Thats what Emily should have done. But I think the alcohol would have killed the relationship either way.

Its her fucking bad attitude that makes her nasty. Even her best friends thinks she is fucked up. They judge her. Why should I think any differently? Everybody has self worth, even fucked up people.

She is nasty because....did you watch the reunion? We havent seen the men. We dont know who they are. They dont show us the old boyfriends. So we cant judge them.

If you party out in college, people wont care. But if you at 30 say you like one night stands and have never got a second date, that is a big red flag. Who wants a spouse that is proud she slept with most of Denver? Also STDs, especially when she gets drunk and doesn't remember things. Guys have been called hos too when they act like this, so not sexist. Emily is just a nasty woman who needs to take the humble position and get some therapy and stop blaming others for her problems. This is how she acts when someone is not into her? She needs to grow up. Yes, 2 one night stands>50 one night stands, especially if its within one year.

I've asked a million times, but nobody says how you get out of MAFS without paying the penalty fine or being a big asshole? It hasnt happened on the history of the show. Maybe Clint and Gina, but even then Gina went all racist against Redheads, and Clint said he usually dated thinner woman. Chis was honest about Paige (da face) but we all cringed and hated it. It is possible that Austin had attraction at the alter, but when Becca started getting all whiny and begging for sex, that was a turn off. Puke said he was building attraction but that was a lie. Normally when someone says they are not attracted to someone Pastor Cal ask them if they want to end the marriage (pay a big fine). Then the person backs down. Nobody wants to pay that fine.

I knew I recognized her from somewhere. She has a different stage name. Austin lies about things that are inconsequential. Lie #1: Vaping - no big deal Lie #2: Hanging out with a group including the producer, but not sleeping with or even kissing her- no big deal Lie #3- He said the guys didnt hang out together, but when pressed, he said he hangs out with Michael alot, and then says he hangs out with Cam too. So he lied because he didnt want Brennan to know they dont like him. I have to change what I said about hanging out with all the guys. Brennan must be messed up if even the guys voted him off the island. So I would not hang out with him. From the hospital bed? I agree with you. He was trying to peace out as fast as he could.

They all were lying and exaggerating with the exception of Chloe and Lauren. I cant believe Becca and Emily let that gaslighter, Claire manipulate them. They seemed much nicer before they joined the Mean Girls club. I have a much more positive view of the men after these past 4 episodes. I always like Michael, despite his weirdness. I liked Austin because he seemed like a chill guy. I thought both Brendan and Cam were rude people, but after hearing the back story, I understand why. I now think the guys are all Ok, but only two of the women ok. I think the other three should get therapy. I agree that the women got their stories straight and were lying about some things. Their goal was to make the men look bad, not just move on with their lives. I'll watch the rest and comment more later. But I will say this, if Emily doesnt want people to think she is an alcoholic and a One Night Stand Kween, she should not sleep with everybody and brag about it. And not openly get wasted. And not do the split where her coochie was hanging out for everybody to see. Austin wasnt throwing his business out there; he just vaped in private and kept it to himself. Emily wanted to be the Woo Hoo girl, and that is the way people perceive her now. She doesnt seem like marriage material at all. Becca needs a lot of therapy before she is ready for anything. It might be too late for claire. What kind of therapist becomes a gaslighter and goes about destroying fragile relationships? An envious therapist that needs therapy herself. I would hang with any of the guys, but only Lauren and Chloe out of that group. Those three women need to work of themselves and not blame their husband for their issues, when it is really them that is the problem.

That was tall Keith. Grandma did laundry and cooked for him too.

I have not seen this episode yet, but I agree with you. I think it is a good thing when people feel confident about their bodies. If they want to take lingerie pics, I'm all for it. I mean, if you are 400 lbs, gstrings are probably not your look, but everybody should get to look good in lingerie, no matter what the body type. I do think they should realize what looks good or bad on their bodies- both the men and the woman. Becca didnt look good this season, just because she didnt put anything into it, like she did on Keisha's show. Mindy wasnt overweight, but she wore non-flattering attire. Gina dressed like weird towards the beginning of the season, but that might have been because she lost her real clothes. Michael, the liar from the other season, dressed like total shit- like wife-beaters. Cameron dressed dorky instead of sharp. This season's Michael is in his own category. But at least he put some thought into it, even if everything clashes. Id hire a stylist and have every outfit picked out before I went on this show. If posing in lingerie makes them happy, I am all for it.

I agree with you about the smelling part, although I thought Amelia and especially Bennet were smelling because their feet was dirty and their hair was ratty. But I remember when our boy Chris ("Its da face!") was wilding it out and people calling him a manwhore. Chris said that he didnt like Paige because of her face, but then kept on having sex with her, while having sex with his baby mamma. He got called out pretty harshly on primetimer. Some thought he was getting all the shit because he was a Black man, but it turned out that he was getting shit because he was a douchebag manwhore. So he deserved it in my opinion. I dont know if anybody ever called him a skank, but he was a skank, who wasnt ready for marriage. People called him all sorts of other bad names. Puke was trashed too. Not for being a manwhore, though. Emily needs to respect herself. All I saw the whole season is her desperation and then anger after her rejection. She should sit down with a shrink and figure out why guys never call her after the first date.

Bitch has evolved over the decades, like, when i was growing up it meant female dog and a derogatory term for women. Then it started evolving away from gender. I would credit rap and hip hop for starting the evolution. Bitches evolved to mean, "current girlfriend". Then rappers starting using it as a derogatory term against men. I would say mid 90s. Then others started using it as derogatory against men. Then it further evolved with women using it in a non-derogatory way. Like, "You are my bitches!". The Nword evolved like that too. To be called the Nword now, could be considered a complement, depending on who is saying it and in what context. I saw this show. I loved Samantha Jones. If I had to hang out with any of them, I would have chosen her character, and it would not even be close. The others were boring. Samantha was a very powerful woman, with powerful connections in NYC and LA. I would say she was more Boss Queen than a ho. And this is the most important part: She was NOT trying to get married or have any relationship and she was very upfront about it. And she generally got with manwhores so it was all good. They liked the fact that she was not into commitment. She was not desperate. Desperate for sex, yes. But not for men. And sometimes she had two or three night stands. And the guys always called her back for more. A few she had to get rid of because they were getting too needy and attached. Emily is no Samantha. Emily cant even get pass the one night stand. The other ladies wanted a knight in shining armor to save them. Samantha was not into depending on men. She knew that if you gave a man the ability to feed you, he could starve you if he feels that you are not acting the right way.

You got it! I never asked; I never told. That's on Emily. Had she not said anything, we would have never known. Its not like I have never had a one night stand. But that was never my primary dating strategy- like Emily. And if it was, I would never admit it to my new wife that I just met days ago. And then her doing all those shots at one time with Brennan, that would have put me under the table. She could have taken all of those shots on the down low and acted subdued like Austin, and nobody would have noticed. But Emily was mostly, woo-hoo!! I dont really judge Emily by her sex life. I dont think she is a bad person just because she sleeps with alot of men. But most men would have a hard time marrying her when she brags about it. If the genders were reversed, I dont things women would be flocking to men who admit they like one-night stands and heavy drinking as marriage partners. Some things are best left unsaid.