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Just like David. You know how bad it would make them look for them to have screwed up so badly. Why dont you think they are lying?

I do think he was wasted. I think Henny was the right call. Except that he is couch surfing, or living off Em. Can he afford that? Someone on this thread said he had a few screws loose. I think that number is much higher. I dont like Ike and think he has screws loose too, but I am going to go with him on this one. Why should he stick around to listen to this homeless guy's crazy bullshit? I'm with you on the beard. My barber would never allow that. He felt crushed after visiting Em's nice apartment, and after hanging with Em at a professional party where everybody ignored him and talked to Em instead. Em may have a screw loose herself. Alot of nutters on this series; its almost like this how attracts them. I dont think she is going to make it with the rebound guy. The experts owe them and the audience an apology. They first picked Madison and David as a couple, but then switched it up at the last moment.

She thinks Michelle is full of shit because she didnt like David at all, but pretends that she is wounded to look good. The experts are giving Michelle a pass on her shitty behavior towards David. Michelle deserved it. Allen didnt deserve it. When did they cheat? When was it proven. Flirting and texting have been proven.

Chicago real estate is cheap. I feel asleep several times, it was so boring. I didnt have it in me to watch it till the end. Why would they tell the truth? So everybody can call them a scumbag for the millionth time? No.

I think they should let sleeping dogs lie. I do agree with you about Karla. I think she was resentful that Juan kept on calling her, "bro". When she was going after David and Madison, she seemed bitter. Juan would not hold her hand or look at her at all in a romantic way.

What would be the point of admitting it, if they started having sex at the gym? Everybody would just trash them and call them dirt. Nobody will give them credit for finally telling everybody the truth. Lying makes more sense. Telling the truth would just cause pain and they would get nothing out of it except more attacks by Michelle, Karla, Cal, and Pia. Why would they subject themselves to that?

I cant believe Karla is envious of Emem's rebound guy? So far only Michelle and Karla dont have guys at this point? When is she NOT judgmental?

I'd have a round of drinks with them. Most people this season were boring. They were not. I'd buy Allen a drink too if I saw him out. He was boring, but at least I saw some passion from him at the end of the season, and he did get screwed over. I'd buy him the 8% beers, not the 4%, The rest, I would walk on by- they were too boring or disturbed. Swag guy puts me to sleep with his monotone voice. His wife seems sort of annoying. Ichechi was got issues; so does Emem. You can stick the knife deep into somebody without looking rabid. She failed. She fell into the gaslighter's trap.

See. That is exactly my point. I'm not Catholic so I dont know shit about it, except I know who the Pope is and the order of succession. Karla said several things about the practice that were not accurate. But if you didnt know that, she sounded great! I've been to gurus where it was clear they didnt know anything, but talked the flowy talk. Anyways, I'm going to stop beating up on Karla and watch the new episode. I hear Emem finally found her true soulmate. Is there anybody ok on this season?

I'm not talking strict. I'm talking basic knowledge. If I said I was a Catholic and that Catholics eat meat during Lent, then sure, I can SAY I believe in Catholicism, but what do actually know? Like if a vegetarian Hindu (Hindus can be nonveg too), starts eating meat, at least she knows that violates the tenants, but she doesnt care. Thats different than not knowing anything but pretending you do. She paints herself as the expert.

She is superficial and has done no serious study of what she claims to believe. I know and academic who has actually studied these people and these practices- Amanda Lucia. She wrote a book- White Eutopias that discusses this on a much deeper level. My first time chanting and doing yoga was when I was five. I also lived in India for 3 years in an ashram as a teenager, and was fluent in Sanskrit. She kinda just does the flowery, "safe space" lingo, like most. It seems fake to me. Maybe she thinks she believes it, thought she doesnt understand it. https://www.ucpress.edu/books/white-utopias/paper If you want to see what a true believer looks like, here you go. I think some of these people go too far the other way. But they are dedicated to the cause. https://www.bhaktifest.com/

I know true believers. That's why I think she is fake. My family and friends are into this stuff their entire life. As in living in India but being White. And memorizing the Bhagavad Gita or opening yoga studios doing teacher training. Or memorizing the mantras or becoming Reikimasters or doing cacao ceremonies in some jungle. Maybe Karla thinks she is believing, but this is not what it looks like. Post- Vedic literature would be strongly against the flashing, as would Bhakti-Yoga traditions. Even the Tantra Yoga scene was off. The incense that they had in that Pilates studio was embarrassing and toxic. I would say Karla is more a believer in the Cargo Cult. But she would never make it if she had to follow any of this stuff. Yes, I do agree with this. Some of the stuff I may believe in.

I'm not changing what I said. That episode is still around. I have it on my DVR. I was not talking about the Afterparty. I was talking about the actual episode where she was swimming around folks.

Correct. And that is not what I am even judgeing her over. I am judging her over being fake and judgmental. Karla is Michelle's Ride or Die. They both are fake. Karla was upset that her man friendzoned her and that Madison messed up the new friendship ring. They were supposed to be friends for life, but David and Madison blew that up. So Karla is on the warpath.

I told you that I dont care about nudity or judge for that reason. But you want to make it sound normal. Like its normal to take your close off in front of new people on your honeymoon. Like a person can do whatever they want without talking it over with their spouse. Any man who objects is automatically a misogynist and slut-shaming because he disagrees with his new wife. That is not what a marriage is about. That is single life.