No you're right; he wanted to dance with her and she just wanted to drape herself on him. If her pants weren't so tight she might have peed on his leg to mark out the territory.
Tom was obviously very talented and salsa dancing (like any sport) is only fun when you're playing with someone of similar talents. Andre Agassi doesn't have to play tennis with other women because he married Steffi Graf.
Akinyi was very specific about what to buy for the ceremony, I think he sabotaged Ben.
aka "Thanks for the stuff but it doesn't count toward the Bride Price, sucka."