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I have zero faith in any of these couples. Jose turned out to be even worse than I imagined. Wasting a woman’s time for four years, and you really didn’t want to be with her because she had children? I hope that lady isn’t watching this because that would hurt to know he was faking interactions with her and her children. Rachel needs to listen to that little voice telling her something is off. It’ll save her in the end. I’m not sure what she’s in love with. I’m confused. Johnny and Bao exhaust me. He needs psychotherapy immediately. Maybe even past life regression/hypnotherapy to unmask some of what’s weighing him down. Outside of having needs, I don’t understand why Bao was intimate with him. He dislikes your personality. He dislikes your childlike disposition. He dislikes this and that and reminds you even over a casual dinner that he’s not ready or whatever. She deserves better. Brett. What is happening with Ryan behind the scenes that has her falling so hard? I don’t see it. I don’t think he’s feeling her at all. Myrla and Gil. Y’all have said everything. Michaela and Zach. Hang it up for the love of God. Her eyes shifting when he spoke up and didn’t accept her silly excuse of the relationship being new as a justification for her piss poor treatment of him was a sight to see. You could see during that whole conversation that there was an internal battle going on, and she was fighting like hell to not explode. He’s not perfect, but she said the classic abuser’s line when she told him he or his actions were the reason she behaved like x. First of all, no man, woman, or child should ever be able to have that much power or control over you. Second, we control how we react. No matter how mad someone makes me, there isn’t anyone outside of myself that dictates how I’m going to respond. She has no accountability. When he listed his qualities, they were basic things many of us seek when looking for friends, romantic partners, or even business partners. She said she fell short or couldn’t do those things. Which ones were stringent or unreasonable? Honesty or being trustworthy is too hard? Being loyal is a something you can’t meet? Do you lack ambition? Are you not intelligent? Being adaptable is too hard? You can’t be mature in any circumstance?Like these are basic foundation fundamentals for a healthy relationship of any type. Lies, distrust, immaturity, and insecurity or constant doubts are not a healthy foundation. She said his requirements were stringent. How did this woman get through the cracks? Zach’s lack of perfection aside, she was not ready for a marriage or any type of romantic partnership.

Agreed. The way to have happy couples but still have some drama is pair people that stand a fighting chance. If I say I don’t want dogs or to be a pet owner, don’t put me with one. (This actually was one of my non-negotiables when I met my husband. I had an ex who shared custody with their ex because she didn’t want to split the dogs up. Outside of that, walking on fur, dog drool, the smell, etc. all repulsed me. I’m not a dog hater. I just never ever want to live with one again.) In all honesty, people are going to have disagreements because we’re human. We all have different temperaments or even been through things that might trigger us. We don’t all think the same. It happens at work all the time. While we’re all good working on the same team, we all have different ideas and opinions that leads to butting heads. The producers think it’s endearing to pair a person who doesn’t want children/indifferent with a person who absolutely does. (Olivia and Brett). Religious differences. Taking out the weirdness that was Fer Sure aka Ryan, he wanted to raise children in a religious household whereas Clara wasn’t particularly interested in that. These people have philosophical issues that aren’t like compromising on the side of the bed or deciding to live in the suburbs vs. the metro area. Those are things where you can find a happy-medium. I want to see more success and less 0/5 seasons. This season it would’ve been nice to have anybody to root for. Instead we see almost a whole cast who could’ve utilised therapy before they decided dragging a stranger down with their baggage was the right move. (Looking at Johnny and Michaela right now.)

I really want people to go back and listen to what her sister said and how she described Michaela during these fits of rage. While they were getting ready for the wedding, Michael’s sister said Hurricane K comes in “fast, hot, mean, brutal, destructive, and then, she settles all down like huh?” Michaela followed up by saying, “When Hurricane K comes in, I’ve been pushed, and it is all business. I don’t care who the f-ck you are, what the f-ck you do, and how much money you make. When I come out of it, it’s like, “I’m sorry, such and such. If my husband is who he needs to be, I’m not concerned. He’ll be able to manage it.” What part of that sounds appealing to deal with two weeks or at any point in? That man has every reason to be worried, and he doesn’t even know Hurricane K exists and that’s what her family calls her.

As someone who was once with a narcissist, I see more of the traits like manipulation, gaslighting, the change in cadence, body language, subtle micro aggressions, etc. in Michaela. Johnny is no doubt in need of therapy. He absolutely has daddy issues and needs to be healed. Michaela, though? The fact that she hurt Zack with her words and actions and only apologised because it sounded good but didn’t really feel empathy jumped off the screen. Her ability to lie with such ease is another pause for concern. Her straight faced lying to Zack and his parents about her conflict resolution styles were classic mirroring. Like it sounds absolutely wonderful like when you’re taking the piss and BSing through an interview. The change in her voice and body language during this week’s episode was scary. That head tilt was the stuff horror movies are made of. “We’re married, Zack.” You were also married when you irrationally packed your bags and moved out because he stepped outside of the home without messaging you—after you declared that doing just that was abusive in your eyes. It was two hours. He didn’t pack his belongings and leave permanently. I noticed that she was escalating, and he backed up a bit so she changed her tone and inflection to be calmer. Then, the “sweet” side came out like, “Our marriage is young.” She admitted to being vindictive. She admitted to knowing she hurt him, but there’s no sense of urgency to even promise to do or be better because she doesn’t care. She even said even if she had known that he would be upset about the cancellation, she probably would’ve still done the same thing. Oh so you know you’re hurting him and you still want to do it? The lack of self-awareness and empathy are glaring. When he asked her, “How do you think your behaviour made me feel,” and all she could say was textbook sentences like, “I think you’re hurt.” No real understanding of how he felt or why and then to ask…well, when are you going to be over it was also a problem. Like his feelings and being hurt or concerned weren’t falling in line with her timeline of needing to get to her level of normalcy.

The thing is, she doesn’t get that his apology style is not to just roll over. She seems to be of the mind that I can act a fool, say sorry, and because she’s over it, the other person needs to be as well. Not quite how that works. He wants to see change. Unfortunately, the preview for next week’s episode show more of the same escalation and profanity laden he has told her makes him anxious. She was demanding that he accept the f’ing apology and basically quit talking about it. The longer trailer from earlier in the season showed her screaming like a feral she-wolf, slamming doors, and even acting a fool in front of other couples. I don’t think it will get better until she addresses the root of her anger and stops using him like an emotional punching bag. Her family calling her a hurricane and her saying the overreaction was a category three tells me she acknowledges her shit behaviour, but it can and does get worse. ETA: if she can’t control it when a whole film crew is there, how is she acting privately or when they retire for the night? Something about her has that man scared to even sleep in a separate bedroom.

These people are hot messes. The fiddy-four year old Mee-Maw takes the cake by allowing her moronic husband to demand that her daughter get impregnated by him through artificial means and carry “tote” a pregnancy or give them one of her eggs. IVF is a drain emotionally and physically, and her life would be upended even if they did just give her hormones and fertilised some embryos to implant in Angela. This scenario is wildly unethical, and if Skyla has sense, she’ll continue to say no. Aside from the emotional implications like her carrying a child and having to pretend she/he is her sibling and giving said child up for adoption to be raised by her mother and step-father, it screams train wreck. What would happen if she bonded with that baby and decided she wanted to raise them? Like Angela would have a cow if her daughter and husband were co-parents. As common as gestational carriers and surrogates are, it is still a legal land mine and has lead to people who ending up in court. I’m sure her paedo daughter would give her some “aigs.” I really don’t want to see anybody from this season on again. I know Larissa and Eric are gone. I hope Colt, Jess, Debbie, and Vanessa are gone. Angela and Mykull should’ve been gone because they didn’t even do the K1, and I’m tired of seeing her abuse. I hope she isn’t getting a spin-off like this article was hinting at per a post on Reddit. Scrap the cast and start fresh with the original 90 Day. Surely there will be some new and fresh couples when it’s safe to travel again.

I don’t get it either. She’s not working, going to university, or even being a productive member of society. Outside of three arrests for DV and plastic surgery, what does she really have to show for her time in the States? Luis didn’t immediately get deported, so it seems like it’s a slow process. She’s probably not out of the woods.

Angela and Mykull were talking about 18 months. Umm. As it stands right now, the current visa ban doesn’t allow permanent visas. Student and tourist visas are allowed, so I hope they realise a spousal visa is out until that ban is lifted. Nigeria’s President said it would be extremely expensive and quite costly to even try to get it overturned, so they might as well buckle up for a long distance marriage or hope it’s lifted one day. TLC, go ahead and pull the plug on this couple because in this era of Covid and the border in Nigeria being closed temporarily to US citizens means they can’t even travel. No one is trying to see them talking over FaceTime, Zoom, or Skype. Also, it was bizarre how she has relegated him to grandparent status when he won’t be able to be a father until he leaves her. Kalani did one smart thing in returning her third son to his mother. He was being reckless and playing Russian Roulette with Covid by continuing to go out around people. Syngin and Tania...please end this travesty of a marriage. Larissa and Eric. No one cares, TLC. We didn’t want to see her surgery or see her recovery or see Eric trying to over explain everything and get 15 minutes of relevancy. Unless she’s going to be his beard and marry him to stay stateside, their time is up. Good riddance. I don’t want to see Colt on my screen again. He can take Debbie, too. No mention of Pole and Karine? I wonder when they returned back to the States. Libby/Andrei. Her father is dumbass for paying their rent, paying for a such an extravagant vow renewal two years later, and bending over backwards for master manipulator Andrei and Libby who is a puppet. He sent Libby over there with the tears and knew Chuckles would cave and pay for anything she asked. We don’t want a Family Libby/Andrei. They’re clearly shooting for a spinoff. We don’t want it! I’m glad the Moldovan wedding is done. Pleaseeee let them go their own way.

Larissa’s surgery recovery could’ve been skipped. I don’t see an ounce of chemistry between her and Ericee. I guess I should have empathy for her pain, but she chose all of these elective procedures, so it’s hard for me to pull the heart strings. I wish Angela would’ve stayed with her mother, but I know she gave her blessing and told her to go. According to her obituary, she passed on 8 February, and they tied the knot on 27 January. I hope Angela was able to say good-bye. Unfortunately Michael was right when he said he didn’t know when he’d see Angela again because Covid came crashing in and closed borders a couple of months later. I'm desperately trying to see what Kalani sees in Asuelo. Good riddance to Tammy. I don’t know why she has such disdain for Kalani like she trapped her frozen yoghurt serving brother into marriage and beat him over the head with a club to force him to stay with her.

Things picked up from my little humans! Everything is "whole" with them. My oldest daughter literally asked. "Isn't she married with a wholeeee baby? Doing too much, Libby. Doing way too much." 😂

I want a fresh crop of new and real couples. I’m tired of the clout chasers, scammers, and attention whores. I’m also tired of people like Deavan saying to hell with the NDA and spilling her guts in long rambling soliloquies. Mykull and Grangela should’ve been booted like Azan and Nickel when their K1 visa application was denied. They’re no longer doing the K1 so byeeee. Another couple could be filmed. I miss couples like Evelyn/Justin who just had their first child. I miss people like Amy and Danny. Their stories were real and had their own drama due to cultural differences and bigoted family members. Scrap everybody from Happily Ever After!

Libby looks half dead without make-up. I’m tired of her acting like she’s not already married with a whole child. “I’m not going to marry you...again.” Award winning actress she is not. Go ahead and take your IMDB page down, beloved. I’m tired of their storyline, the bad acting, and her ignorant family. They’ve shown them way too much this season. Andrreiiii will continue to be a kept house husband and cared for by Chuckles. I don’t care about Larissa. Send her to a plastic surgery reality show because breast implants, nose jobs, BBLS, tummy tucks, and all the multiple procedures she’s had have nothing to do with 90 Day. Plus, we don’t care. All those procedures and she’ll never be happy with herself. She just had more work done less than a month ago. I don’t believe Eric is remotely straight or romantically interested in her. Becoming a blow up doll is not the American dream. Pole...such a disappointment. Moving back and forth internationally is stressful and far from cost effective. i wish they’d get rid of Colt and Debbie. Colt working out was one of the most awkward things. Can we keep his friend/TLC plant who can see Colt is a problem and Debbie is meddlesome?

He has his annual or biannual reprieve because of Covid and closed borders. I’m sure he’s somewhere rejoicing that she can’t terrorise the citizens of Nigeria or him. At least temporarily.

Because she’s a woman and TLC seems to think it’s “funny.” I promise if a man was sitting there waiting to verbally attack a woman and telling her he would whoop her ass, it wouldn’t have ever seen the light of day. Some people act like he deserves it because he’s just with her for a green card and hasn’t left. Stockholm Syndrome is a real thing and some people who have been kidnapped or harmed swear they love their abusers. Nobody deserves to be treated like that, and I don’t think it’s just for telly or ratings. When I did a search for 90 day and her name on Twitter, every other tweet references how abusive she is. I have no doubt she’s worse when the cameras are gone. He has aged tremendously and looks defeated constantly. Even when he’s dealing with her, he looks down like a scolded child who can’t make eye contact. That relationship is disturbing. She has been a nightmare this trip and even worse than usual. Nobody told her to leave her ailing mother to run to Nigeria. It made me uncomfortable to watch because I just know if it was a man saying what she said and acting how she did, all hell would break loose.

Angela reminds me of Rasputia from Eddie Murphy’s movie, Norbit. Michael will be the long suffering, abused house husband. Imagine how Angie is going to act if she comes home and sees the dishes haven’t been washed or the grandkids homework isn’t done. She chastised him like a child. If that was a grizzly bear of a man waiting to verbally pounce on a woman and threatening to “whoop her ass today,” people would be ready to blow something up. I have no doubt that she’s laid hands on him before. She strikes me as an angry drunk, too. I thought she was disgusting when she was yelling at him in front of his aunt and telling him not to talk to her like that, and he was like a small child who had gotten punished. At this point, he must be a glutton for punishment and likes being demeaned and belittled. The shit part of all of this is there’s an active visa ban, so he can’t even work towards a spousal visa or green card until it’s lifted. So he’s really going through all of this abuse for nothing. What kind of nanny is Jess? She has seen cottage cheese thigh Colt-ee three or four times and planning another trip to Vegas? Her employer must be lax as all get out. Tania and Syngin....just divorce already. Fighting in front of the family and airing out all your dirty laundry? Yikes. Larissa...go home. Breast augmentation, rhinoplasty, etc. She also just had a tummy tuck, BBL, and some other procedure this past week. All she can tell anyone about the States is the plastic surgery scene. She’s useless. Why is she even still in the States?