Lilly and the bus really hit home for me. Like Lilly, I met this really good-looking guy with whom I was immediately smitten beyond words. When he suggested we move in together, I was living in a decent and safe garden apartment, and he was living in a 4th floor walkup where the roof leaked, and he and his roommate hadn't cleaned ANYTHING for years. The finish was off the inside of the toilet and it was all rusty. It was an old building with one of those kitchens with NO workspace at all, and there were plastic trash bags full of beer bottles that his roommate had left when he moved out. It was $100/month, which was dirt cheap even in 1984. And for a few brief weeks, I thought that I could fix the place up...until I started having panic attacks in the middle of the night because I did not want to live there. We ended up finding a new apartment where we could both commute to our jobs.
It didn't seem fake to me that she was going to try to be OK with the bus. Inside of Lilly is a zaftig girl screaming to get out. The minute she hits 30, keeping that juicy little body is going to be next to impossible. It's not her fault, she's just not built to be a bikini girl for more than a few years. She does not seem particularly confident to me, despite being a real estate agent and in sales. I'm guessing she battles her weight constantly. She is so agog at being matched with this good-looking guy that if he asked her to stand on her head and spit wooden nickels, she'd be on her head spitting. The problem is that there is only so long that the things you find charming, or at least tolerable, in a new relationship, start to become not-so-charming once you really start getting into building a life together. In the beginning you can make your peace with messiness, or having no help around the house, or pot smoking, or living in a bus, or whatever Mr. Handsome's particular quirks are. But that doesn't last, and I don't see ANY kind of shared value system between Lilly and Tom to keep them together.
As for Nick and Sonia,, Nick keeps talking about how he's quirky, and she talks about how she's quirky, and they probably used these words in the interviews and got matched because of that. But just like Neal and Sam last season, quirky people are not quirky in the same way. One person's quirk might be something like OCD, while another's might be writing fan fiction and going to science fiction conventions. The word "quirky" by itself means nothing, and so we have what at BEST is a painfully introverted guy matched with an extroverted but painfully insecure woman.
I could match people better than these so-called "experts" did.