OK, so HEather just isn't stupid enough to text Tamra to 'pick a side' because she knows it would be brought back against her. She's not dumb enough to leave a trail. She may have said it in person, off camera, but I doubt in a text.
Tamra is so obnoxious and immature with the made up drama. She can really be miserable.
Heather is just plain frightening. When she stares everyone down I feel like I'm being chastised by my mother!
I miss TWOP.