Clare is a therapist and needs one herself. (most go into the field because they need the therapy themselves, imo)
Cameron has a dry sense of humor and I think there was more to the story than what was shown on camera. She has to choose between being fully independent and wanting chivilry(?) from her husband. sorry ladies, you can't have both. Cameron told her family straight on that he and Clare will be doing a dance because their styles are different and he wasn't wrong. They may need a visit from the experts before they get too lost down the road. I understand where Cameron is coming from.