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Crashcourse

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  1. Hope isn't wrong for not wanting to rush into marriage, but Thomas isn't wrong for being frustrated and tired of waiting to see when she's ready.  Both of them need to breathe and move on. 

    I didn't hear the part about Thomas taking Douglas with him, but he and Hope should be able to work out an arrangement.  I don't think he'll "steal" Douglas to Paris or wherever he goes. 

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  2. I guess it depends on the person driving and how their foot feels on the clutch, because my first car was a stick shift, and I kept a pair of flats in the car to put on before driving.  Then I would put on the heels when I got out of the car.  

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  3. I wonder, do they have barbers/hair stylists at these sites.  Jadis had a style that I don't think she did herself, Father Pee Pants had a shaved head (I guess he found a razor), Michonne keeps the hair on one side of her head always cut.  I guess Rick had a stylist at CRM?  Morgan head/facial hair was always neat.  These are just some of the actors, but I've noticed over the years that a lot of these people have hair styles that would need regular maintenance.  

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  4. No team wants to get screwed out of a game because of a bad call, thus not going to the second round.  Doesn't matter if they probably weren't going to win the championship. 

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  5. Patel and Templeton riding together cracked me up and it was nice to see them bonding at the end.

    It was also nice to see Thomas Lennon.  Hadn't seen him since Reno 911.

    I could be wrong, but I have a feeling it's Frank who sent the gift basket to Victoria.

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  6. 7 minutes ago, Salacious Kitty said:

    I had Wagner and Colorado State. I'm ballin'! 😂

    Well, we'll see how that goes after the first round! 🤣 

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  7. I'm actually hoping that Thomas gets some clarity and finally realizes that Hope just loves the fact that he's hopelessly in love with her--and also, that she just loves playing ride the stallion.  Hope needs to realize that, too.  I'd love for them to break up without Thomas going crazy, he gets over his obsession with her and he meets someone else later.

    Liam needs to STFU and if there's anyone about to go off the rails, I'd say it would be him. 

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  8. I had Virginia and Howard winning their play in games and they both lost.  So, does that mean that, technically, my bracket is busted already? 😅

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  9. 41 minutes ago, Yeah No said:

    There is no double standard.  I just don't base my opinion on these people on what comes out of their mouths but what I see about them in general that I think adds up to something.  Perhaps it comes from my personality type and background in Counseling Psychology but I am sensitive to seeing self awareness and growth in people and in this case I see more self awareness and personal growth in Becca than most or even all of the others this season despite outward appearances that I personally don't consider as important to what's really going on inside a person.  I'm trained and it's my way to cut through the BS to see that.  It's my wheelhouse, what can I say?  Other people are good at other things.  This is where I live. 

    And I personally feel that Becca is not now a gaslighter if she ever was one.  She wouldn't have mentioned it on TV if that were the case.  The one thing a gaslighter doesn't want to admit is that they were ever a gaslighter!  She mentioned it because she wanted to show that she knows what gaslighting is.  It's to the point that she even feels like she has to defend what she says about Austin because he is always denying everything.  The only thing he admitted was not telling her about the vaping and then trying to deny it in front of people that knew better, but he was caught dead to rights on that and had no other choice.

    So based on all of that I feel that she is taking ownership of her past and admitting to it while I see signs that she's overcome some of it.  In this case, though, Austin is pressing all her buttons and she's going into a sort-of PTSD based on his confusing behavior.  She is onto him as being more concerned with his image on TV than with her, and she is pissed off about it understandably because he keeps trying to act like she's wrong about that and paint her as some sort of insecure wacko (which incidentally is gaslighting right there).  I don't think she is.  Based on what I see of him I think she's right and I don't blame her for coming back at him to expose him for what he is.  I wouldn't want some guy to make me look like a wacko in front of the entire audience and my friends and family.  In other words, she's not gaslighting him in doing that.  She's defending herself and that's obvious to me.  He's been gaslighting her even without being accused of anything.  It's ridiculous.

    And based on the bong someone saw in her apartment it's obvious she doesn't care about vaping and might even be positive about it.  She just wants to show that Austin has a pattern of hiding things about himself from the world and in some cases also her, and that this is why she doesn't trust him and feels insecure in the relationship.  You're not insecure if you really have reasons to feel insecure.  The issue is HIS, not hers.  But he is all too willing to make her look to the world like it's her issue and not his.  That's the only reason she's outing him on it, because otherwise the world and the audience would likely believe him and not her.  Some people will still believe him but not someone like me.  

    And I have not said that Emily is not an alcoholic.  I am fully aware that she might be and probably is but that still doesn't make her deserve the nasty attitude and disrespect she has gotten from Brennan.  I am more concerned with a person's true intentions than with their failings here.  The men here are showing signs of having nasty intentions while the women have failings but are being put on the defensive because the men they're with are not treating them with the respect they deserve.

    I have not seen Becca call Austin a pothead.  That's news to me.  I think I would have remembered that.

    Now I feel like I'm being gaslighted! 😱

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