When Kate described the primary as her "soulmate" before he said she came off as bitchy, I think she meant ideal guest. Young. Rich. And that the group would be fun. Which is why she was gonna do the pirate scavenger hunt. Did not get the impression she meant soulmate for a life partner.although she is looking for one. I just think she had the mistaken first impression that this group and primary would be better than the last. Mileage may vary.