I think production obviously helped with Jamie's anniversary date but I also think he came up with most of it including buying her a crazy expensive necklace. And in return Elizabeth gave him a generic couples coupon book from the drug store, interrupted him as he revised his vows and finally didn't acknowledge that he was also at their wedding. So very obnoxious but also par for the course. I think he blew up because he felt like he earned so many points doing nice things and didn't get anything in return. So much for not keeping score.
I'm not a romantic and I'm very straightforward so I really appreciate Deonna. I think she actually came into the show for a marriage and she's not really interested in performing for the cameras. So yes, act cold, go to bed in footie pajamas, whatever. The parts of her marriage that really matter are the ones she wants to share only with her husband. Power to her. Better than having to cringe like every time what's her name climbs on Matt.