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Mollysmom

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  1. I used to watch this show, but I can't stand Debbie either. She cries at the drop of a hat - get a grip! She's just obnoxious. I like Mark, and watched for a while after she took over hosting from Cristina, but he's not enough to make up for Debbie. 

  2. On 1/26/2018 at 10:31 PM, aliya said:

    My sister was quite big. Like really big, but not 600 lbs. Her weight was finally getting to her and I told her I had stopped eating meat, told her about fat, reading labels, etc. She has several years of college. She was an assistant manager and then manager of local branches of a national retail chain. She isn't stupid. She didn't read labels because she didn't want to. She wanted to eat what she wanted to eat and nutrition, calories, etc. didn't matter to her. She never tried to diet and never had a problem getting guys attracted to her, before, during, and after her marriage. I think there are more people out there like that then we think. 

    I think this is very common. People just really have no clue about the number of calories in what they eat. Labeling doesn't really help either, it's easy to look at my can of Monster Java Loca Moca and see calories are 120, so ok, it's 120 calories. Except it isn't. If you keep reading, you see that it is 2 servings, so it is actually 240 calories. There are a lot of things labeled this way - they are packaged in what you consider 1 serving, but they are actually 2, or 2 1/2 servings. Also, people are really bad at eyeballing servings. I am on the MyFitnessPal boards and had never even thought of using a food scale to actually weigh my foods. HUGE eyeopener! Yeah, that 2 tbsp of peanut butter that is supposed to weigh 33 grams? Yeah, more like almost double. So my little peanut butter sandwiches end up being a lot more calories than I ever imagined once I started weighing the bread (also more than it states on the package) along with the peanut butter and jelly. 

    I kept thinking when she was putting her meals together that she needed a food scale - she put about 3 times the amount of hamburger she should have in those 2 patties. I can't believe they aren't taught this by the dieticians, especially when they are given such a restrictive diet. If I had to eyeball a 1200 calorie diet, I'd easily be over by 3-400 calories if I didn't weigh everything. 

    The other thing about portion sizes that I struggle with - when I was a kid, we would have say spaghetti. That is all we would have - an entire dinner plate covered in spaghetti. That is legitimately what I always thought a serving of spaghetti was. Again, I was floored when I measured out 1 serving. (also really surprised that you are supposed to have something like a side salad with it, or veggies, because we never did.) About 1/5th of the dinner plate serving. Casseroles were the same way. We never really had sides with them, just large servings of the main dish. So that gets ingrained in you that that is the amount you should eat. 

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  3. On 12/31/2017 at 5:27 PM, xls said:

    IKR? poor cat! 

    omg the legs! how would you begin to de-bulk them?

    not trying to be funny but, how do you find your d*** to go to the bathroom?

    LOL! I have often wondered how guys go to the bathroom when they are that huge. Plus, I would think the weight of the fat would be really painful to that "area". 

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  4. These shows that glorify people who have IVF then have a bunch of kids drive me nuts. I think most do the shows because they find they can't afford to support their now huge family. "Hey, we have 4, 5, 6 babies at once, lets just get a tv show and get people to donate stuff to us!". I find myself yelling at the tv when the parents complain about how hard it is, or how expensive it is, "THEN WHY DID YOU CHOOSE TO HAVE SO MANY KIDS!?"

    There is a local family that had quadruplets - they are now about 8 years old I think. The parents went through IVF because they "just had to have children", mom "longed for a baby". They had 4. Mom committed suicide about 2 years ago. So now they are having a fundraiser to help fund their education. Private school education, and future college. I have a problem with that. They can't afford to send the kids to private school? Send them to public. College? Maybe some of them won't want to go, or aren't cut out for college. Or a college may give them a free ride scholarship just for the notoriety of having a set of quadruplets. Dad could be putting away some of the Social Security they get. 

    Don't have so many kids if you can't support them on your own. Don't expect society to fund your kids' lives. 

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  5. 18 hours ago, CousinAmy said:

    I think Will is just about the age when the impulsive running will stop. I volunteer in an after-school program and the kids, from kindergarten to 6th grade, run around (inside, we don't have outdoor facilities) and scream for hours. I guess I'm used to the sound by now. Jen just needs to use that strict voice that Mommy and teachers have. She does need to repeat her commands several times, but that's part of her technique. Believe it or not, I use that voice, repeat instructions, and if necessary cross the room and get down to eye-level. And I do say "thank you" when they comply, because I'm showing that when they do the right thing, I acknowledge it. Having worked with toddlers and preschoolers, and now with kids from K-12, I can say that these techniques do work.

    I think Supernanny is great, but I think Jen is a good parent and I'm loathe to criticize a woman who has so much in her plate. I think, for the most part, she's doing a good job. As for Bill, he loves his kids so much - and they love him.Neither Jen nor Bill is a bad parent. (And, like many of you, I know from bad parents. They are saints compared to the tense, neurotic, angry household I grew up in.)

    I agree with you about kids running and screaming. Kids don't seem to be able to control themselves until they are in upper elementary/jr. high. I am a library director and there are a lot of kids that come in, and we have to tell them over and over not to run or scream inside, otherwise they need to leave. I just think until they are 10-11 years old, they don't seem to be able to walk quietly. So Will isn't that different in his behavior. Sometimes it takes telling a kids 100 times not to do something for it to stick. 

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  6. I have a 6 lb Morkie and she was pee-pad trained by her previous owner. I have gotten her to finally go outside more, but when I'm at work, and she can't hold it as long as my bigger dog, she uses the pee pad. It isn't laziness. It is actually more work I think because you have to pick up the pad and throw them away, and clean up any misses. 

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  7. One thing that I just remembered after reading Jumper Sage's post - I thought it was really dismissive and disrespectful when the women were talking about the craft room and one of the men (I wasn't actually looking at the tv, just listening) referred to it as the "crap" room. Way to diminish their wants, Jackass. If it weren't for the women, those guys would not survive. 

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  8. I would hate to have to be the one to clean up that church. What a total mess - it was a mess with all that grass and crap on the floor, but then the confetti cannon! I am not a clean or neat freak, but seeing all that stuff all over the floor gave me anxiety and it looked awful. 

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  9. 14 minutes ago, Annb67 said:

    Wow! This is so unhealthy. Are they going to watch themselves and become angry at how manipulative crazy dad is? "I don't want to hold you back. It wouldn't be fair. It's ok. It really is. I'll be distraught, my heart will be crushed, but it's fine"

    Yeah,  how passive-aggressive can he be? 

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  10. My mom will react the same way he did when we bring up her health issues. I think they think if they scream and yell loud enough, people will back off and leave them alone. But he's still way over the top angry in a lot of other situations. He's going to have a heart attack,, I predict, in the not so distant future. 

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  11. 10 hours ago, gonecrackers said:

    I noticed they all seem very 'on' for the cameras; no one can be that animated all the time. There isn't one introvert in the bunch? I am & I'd lose my mind in all that chaos.

    The dad thinking he's the only one who can tell Blair when she's healthy enough to leave was disturbing, & probably opened a small window into what is probably going on there.

    I was thinking the same thing - that there doesn't seem to be ANY introverts in that family. How is that? My mother is extremely extroverted, but the rest of us are introverted. I wouldn't last more than about 15 minutes in that house before I would shut down and start pulling my hair out from the chaos. 

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  12. What struck me is how weird the father is. How completely controlling he is telling his daughter that HE will decide when she is healthy enough to move back with her husband after the baby. WTF? Her husband is a doctor, I think he can help her decide. This is the most dysfunctional family I've ever seen - worse than the Duggars even. 

    ETA: And the 34,000 sq ft house? That's not a house, that's a mini-mall. There are shopping centers smaller than that. 

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