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I think he means(and said) “warmth and emotion” when he mentions her lack of nurturing, and I can see that. She seemed lighter on this last show to me but there is still something wooden about her to me.

Shaq is so over it. I've noticed his demeanor change for for the last 2,3 or 18 shows now(the way they are dragging the show out is ridiculous). He's whiny cause he's over it and doesn't care, but he could still feel for her situation even if he doesn't want the marriage. It says something about him that he doesn't.

Her mother said, “Don’t have expectations “but I wish she would’ve added “Do your part”. I was hoping that her mother would tell Kirsten to get off the couch when your husband comes home and greet him with a hug and a Welcome home! Kirsten noted that he is tired and often stressed from work, school and mentoring, but she doesn’t give very much and seems only interested in getting( homes, cars etc). I think Shaq is over it.

Perhaps it was the editing,but not only did he talk about his attraction to Colleen to her more than once( remember the 10/10 convo was separate from the original convo after she found out about the flirting),he was insensitive enough to tell her that she,Zanab was not his usual type but that Colleen is. My point is, why blame Zanab for feeling insecure when she has someone who is pushing those buttons?Sure, she needs to pick her chin up , but the villain here is Cole.

I thought Raven’s friends were rude and overly aggressive. There is a cordial way to ask questions and that wasn’t it. I was secondhand embarrassed for them. SK took it with the elegance that bespeaks that man. Raven comes across gold diggerish. Why does he need to pay half her rent while studying in California? If paying her rent would stop her from doing Bottle service(which is demeaning)then I get it. Otherwise, she is just looking for a payout.

Sure,Zanab has some insecurities, but what kind of fiancée keeps driving home to his woman how attracted he is to another woman? She is a 9/10 but wow Colleen is a 10/10! I’m shocked that she’s still with him. Whatever he thought, it was terribly insensitive,unloving and uncaring. He is as bad as Bartisse. He cut her where she hurts,no woman is above that kind of slur from a man who is supposed to love her and take care of not only her but her feelings as well.

I only read the results tonight, I stopped watching about 4 weeks ago. This season was a snooze, and I too believe the couples were paid extra to say yes on Decision Day. The whole series has gone downhill and It needs to be refreshed. I was bored.

Hi Rachel!

Bai burning the fake Barbies may have more to do with her dolls being fake than any real emotional disorder on her part. She grew up poor, was ridiculed because of her father's drunken behaviors and was ashamed of their living situation. I can see her piling the "less than" Barbies in a pile and letting them burn as she got older and recognized the situation she was in.