For those blaming Meredith, this should explain. From Grey's Medical Twitter @GreysMedical, the following tweets the night of airing this episode. Grey's Medical@GreysMedical Mar 3 For those asking, Mer was not wrong to wait and hold pressure. Grey's Medical@GreysMedical Mar 3 Daphne's port was infected for awhile, and she waited to come in. Grey's Medical@GreysMedical Mar 3 She was so sick that she would not have survived the surgery no matter what. IT'S TOO SAD. WHY DO WE DO THIS?? I really love following Grey's Medical Twitter as they will answer any medical related questions.