BonnieLW

85 percent and I really get mad at this show. I've been really ill this evening and I've been in ICU twice this year. My chances of getting a life are wearing down. I really need to rethink where I place my priorities.

Did any of you use to play house as a kid? That's what's think of when I watch the Duggar kids. The only problem is the "kids" are adults now trying to play house. They think they know what they're doing but without real world experiences they still end up looking childishly Pollyanna. You don't want to burst their bubble but you're afraid of watching the train wreck. I grow up a military brat and lived in different countries and states. My father was also career military during the Vietnam years, during the years that the Army was the bad guys. I was able to experience through the eyes of other cultures and people the reasons I shouldn't grow up like my parents. I had years to contemplate the duality of the life my parents believed in and how other people experienced life . These kids see the world through a very narrow prism and they have a difficult time relating to people who have a different experience and most people have a different experience.

There are often times when I like an outfit that the judges hate. I chalk it up to the fact that I'm a real woman that wears clothes that come off a rack at a store instead of a studio. I also often remind myself that I have never seen an outfit on QVC by Isaac that I like. But usually when I think an outfit is the worse one of the night I'm pretty close to right. When I saw Fabio's I thought "who would want to wear that on a first date?" I could not believe he won. None of the outfits were great last night but seriously, Fabio won?

The thing about the extremes the Duggars go to to keep their children pure and untouched by non Christians is they dont give them Free Will. The bible touches on the whole reason God created man. There were all these souls living in a state of Grace, but by living in that state you don't understand the true beauty of what you are living. There was a war in Heaven when God decided he wanted to do something to allow the souls to truly understand. The plan was man would fall and experience these various emotions and experiences. Christ offered to be the key to man to return to heaven. Some angels though wanted man to be cuddled and then return, but God wanted man to return via free will. He wanted the soul to be able to say I truly understand, but I am ready to return. If a child or even an adult lives only in that state of Grace here on earth then the whole trip is pretty much useless. Being a true Christian means that you have faced temptation and on your own you make the decision to resist. There is no moral fortitude when your accountability partner goes running to mommy and daddy at the first sign of sin or temptation.

Do you know what the cure for preeclampsia is? Termination of the pregnancy. You can wrap it up in flowery language like the baby was premature, but she was taken from the womb early. Abortion is termination of a pregnancy. The Frc is very much against all abortions even if the mothers life is in danger. The politics the Duggars push would result in the deaths of many mothers and Michelle would have been one. She had labor induced because the pregnancy was killing her and she her husband and her doctor discussed her options and made a choice between them. No politician was consulted. But please let's take that option away from others.