Juliana totally got triggered for the wrong thing. She's mad that she hasn't worked and has no money and she is insignificant in the eyes of that moderator. She's embarrassed. So now she's going off on stuff that she totally chose....she chose to be a yacht chick hanging out with rich guys and making no income.
She doesn't have any right to his existing assets as it's normally written. She should just be jockeying for a settlement and part of anything new they do etc. etc. This really doesn't have anything to do with her being an independent woman and working. If she was really independent and bet on herself she'd model and make her money and wouldn't need to be dependent on him at all!