I thought maybe the flashback was the 80's because of the song used but when they said 20 years that didn't seem long enough ago. And didn't Jamal's wife say something to him about Jamal being so young when it originally happened? I'm assuming Jamal is supposed to be maybe mid 40's? Also Sam is worried only about not being treated the same if people found out he is gay? Can't you be stoned for it?