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  1. These women were very obnoxious ugly Americans with the cocaine comments. Like seriously you stupid bitches thats offensive. Read a book.

    Carole is a very unfortunate looking try hard. UGH. Have grown to despise her.

    Dorinda shoes were horrible. The only ones who dressed well on this trip were Bethany, Luanne and suprisingly Sonia. Tinsley had a few cute pieces. Everyone else looked like shit. Both Carole and Ramona looked terrible in their dresses at the dinner.

    Bethany. I feel for her because I been there with mean bitches attacking you that were your friends. But I was 15. When. It. Happened. 

    And I didn't join in on an anorexic coworker in her moment of relapse. But I was on her side at dinner. Carole is a hypocrite. She talked so much about Luanne and Tom and Look at her defending this guy. Why didn't Bethany take out the receipts? 

    Same reason she gets shit for Adam"Thats like Sonia young." Her words towards Luanne in pre Adam obsession seasons. Over her.

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  2. I really despise Vicki. She is unattractive, needy, desperate, a bigot and a big hypocrite. She is not entertaining in the slightest and I wish Andy would fire this ass. Now if he followed her real cam style while she reacts to being fired I would watch. 

    I like eddie and I hope he’s ok. My mom had heart issues early and well she’s not here anymore :-( 

    i hope he pulls through. Tams is a pretty woman and the bod is fab but she looks so stretched out in the face. It’s a little frightening. 

    I kinda enjoy the two storylines about divorce. 

    One kelly is so happy to be free and then the juxtaposition of Shannon so hurt over the divorce. Girl that marriage was toxoc and  it had been toxic. One day you will realize that. 

    It reminds me of my cousin who is getting divorced. She is David in that scenario. Happy to be free and moving on on social media. 

    I feel sometimes peolle use the kids excuse to stay together but it’s often they don’t want to be alone. Kids are smart they know when a marriage isn’t working. 

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  3. Carole's fashion is not as cute as it used to be. And she's tiny. I wouldn't into any of it. Staying off that Poshmark closet. 

    Ramona is so desperate and an asshole to staff. She is really rude ALL THE TIME to them. It isn't smart Ms. Brain. 

    Bethany gives me the vibe that all isn't well in her vida. She just looks off to me. Guess being wealthy AF isn't all its cracked up to be.

    Luanne looks amazing. I may reconsider my own wine addiction for her skin alone.

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  4. 16 hours ago, ZaldamoWilder said:

    Lol!  Now this, I don't fault her for.  Wherever bologna/e is described in print as meat, meat must appear in quotations.  

     

    Hey tv sister! hey boo, heeeyyyyyy.   It's trash but I still can't take my eyes off em.

     

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    This.   She came through practically singing the Golden Girls theme song.   So look here, if your heart is true, you really are a pal and a confidante?  Whatchu gone do is open exactly the way Sonja did.   There's no need to call whenever you see my ex, what the hell for?   And there probably isn't a need to call me out the blue saying he invited you somewhere.  But the next time we cross paths and you see I'm doing well, without me asking, sit next to me on the couch woman to woman, hello-Barbara?-this-is-Shirley-style and real smooth voice tell me what's up.    I don't waste too many words of praise on Sonja, but that?  Respect.   The difference is this other bitch wasn't invited, she was trying to invite herself.   No matter what Lu's mistakes were, she doesn't deserve a woman claiming to be her friend still trying to hang out with a man, whom she herself, describes as no fucking good.      

    To wit:  

    That goes for Carole's ole two-faced ass too.   Although, forgive me ya'll it's been 13 days since my last confession.   When she said let's just be honest that dress was the real crime.  I cackled louder than necessary.   I actually didn't think she was being serious in her fashion criticism, because Carole, really girl? rather than using an irresistible opportunity to make a joke.   I hope we find out at the reunion, but I'd bet money that when Lu heard it, she laughed.  

    Girl?

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    I promise I love you for this.   49% of me wants to laugh at the bittersweetness of it.     The other 51.  You'll see more of this if you watch World News Tonight, tonight with David Muir.  On Tuesday in Pittsburgh, PA, my daughter's boyfriend's best friend was shot by a police officer who'd been on the job merely hours.   I was about to say it was because he ran from the cops during a traffic stop.  More accurately, the because is: a black "man" ran from the cops during a traffic stop.   His name was Antwon Rose.  He graduated from a ceremony I was supposed to attend on June 7th.  He was 17 years old.     My daughter asked if she and her bf could take my car and go on an ice cream run.   I said no.    Lemme get back to some regularly scheduled foolishness before I bust out bawling.   The point is, the option to cut a whole entire fool talking to the police is an honor.  Lu should feel special. 

    I am the mother of a brown girl in America.She is nearly 16 years oldI am not at peace until she is safe in her bed every night. That could change at any moment for a brown or black family in an instant. 

    Lu is very luky but that is by design. 

    Prayer, love and light to you. Its why I keep writing and I keep fighting for  a fair world for our children if for no one else. 

     

     

    Back to these hiefers. I wanted to smack Ramoaner when she compared adam and carole, scott and tinsley and got in a dig about Tom and Luane. Yet your little dates with him mattered? Bitch please. I love that Tom  said no thanks ramoanerr. 

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  5. 2 hours ago, Chickabiddy said:

    I think the correct term for what Lu dined on while en prison would be un sandwich bologna a la moutartde. ;-)  

    I find Sonja's slavish obsession with her lost glory days to be irritating at times, but it certainly no less delusional than all these other heifers who only have access to "fame", cash, "prestige" to all be off the backs of someone else's labor. Shit, even Old Man Morgan didn't really do anything to make his money or collect his accolades. That was all generations ago. And yes, I get the concept of old money and the "prestige" of not having to dirty your hands to make it yourself. However, if we are going to pick on Sonja for clinging to a past. We should pick on all of them.

    Bethenney herself is the daughter of wealthy and somewhat famous horse trainer. She like to pretend that she is the little match girl who found a way to market and sell her matches barefoot in the snow so successfully that she turned it into a global branding powerhouse. However, Bethenney went to boarding school and always ran in a wealthy crowd. She had enough connections to get on Martha Stewart's Apprentice - where she had to admit she knew the son of one of the judges. Her name recognition and social connections help get on this show. And this show gave her a platform to launch a product and become successful. You have to be as dumb as Sonja to have a platform like that and NOT make money. Sure, Beth had a good idea, but lots of people every day have good ideas. Beth had enough cash, education and connections to launch her idea Compare her to Heather and what Heather managed to do on her own. Bethenny is no Heather or even a scrappy street fighter entrepreneur like Ramona. She was born on third base and wants to cling to the idea that she hit a home run. 

    All these other heifers struck it rich at the alter.

    Countess Luann - obvious

    Carole - almost as obvious - clings to her own prestigious last name like velcro. Only successful book based on her experience with semi famous husband and prestigious connections. She even mentioned once in a conversation that she would never give up her last name as part of a marriage deal.

    Dorinda - Yes, may have loved Richard, but still seems to traffic in the industry of Widowhood and a monopoly on personal loss and suffering seven years later.  She has as not changed name either because the name holds some prestige and notoriety  in NY. Beth even commented that Dorinda was trying to hold on to that when she made a fool of herself while drunk with Beth's Puerto Rico contacts. Dorinda won't marry John because deep down she finds him repugnant and can't believe he is the best she can do now. 

    Jill - for old time sake-  What the hell would she be without Bobby and his money? Didn't she clerk at a men's store before meeting him? 

    Tinsley - Not sure who Topper Mortimer was or it, Can't be bothered to find out, but she sure as hell is holding on to that Palm Beach name -even now that there is a second Mrs. Mortimer in the mix/

    So, after all that, my only point is why give Sonja shit when all of them are essentially clinging on to past names/connections/grandeur/glory that only a lottery of birth or marriage helped them fall into? None of those ladies is really where they are due solely to their own scrappy hard work and grit. 

    I see Sonja as essentially harmless. Why not let spin in her own whirlwind of delusion. If Dorinda is convinced that she has the high ground on personal grief and loss, why not ignore her?

    Count me as one who sees Bethenney's friendship with Sonja as a calculated move. Not only has she burned through everyone else for the moment, but Beth needs to work on her PR. Being the protector of poor harmless Sonja is a means to an image rehab. Although, notice how biting and cruel she is about Sonja in the talking heads? By being pathetic, B is the alpha bitch and feels secure hanging with Sonja. Shades of Jill liking Beth because she was the underdog...until she wasn't. It's why Beth hated Heather from the beginning. Heather was the real deal - business savvy, success. loving husband, cute kids. Beth could not outdo her on any score. So, she hated her and and had to go after her. Sad! 

    This one of my main issues with Bethany. Agree 100% and u referenced the little match girl fable. swoon :) 

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  6. On 6/16/2018 at 4:09 AM, Bossa Nova said:

    Beautifully said about Bobby and Jill,  Lamu. 

    So very sorry for your personal loss.

    Please be well. Live and give love, receive love,  and always find gratitude in the smallest of things. 

     Keep moving, and do good in the world. 

    Parents want that for us.

    Peace.

    Love and light to you. 

    Thank u love. Death is a cruel thing but it can also be a portal to salvation as it was to me. I believe like me Bethany was probably unmothered. I am not excusing any of her mother's behavior but clearly her mother wasn't well and if Bethany ever wants to find peace she must see her parents as human not just monsters like she touts them.  This isn't easy work but it is life changing. 

    I am also a writer and I am writing my memior so this Epiphany came from my writing. I think a lot of Bethany is rotted inside from resentment. Its like she is forever that child in that house, a victim. Even as she turns into her "mother" (the one she describes) she can't see it.  I would stop buying 1,000 shoes Bethany and start REAL therapy. 

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  7. 7 hours ago, Keywestclubkid said:

    But Bethany throwing out I Chartered a private plane makes her humble and like a comman man? How many people procrastinate when doing their jobs. She’s a writer that writes from home and admits to procrastinating (hell I am even guilty of it sometimes at work) she’s not rubbing it in anyone’s face or flaunting her “wealth” by doing this. Tons of people procrastinate every day. 

    Actually Bethany in most cases has been  pretty terrible on this show.  I will give her the benefit of the doubt that some don’t do funerals well and she was nervous so she blurted out the plane comments. But it’s bethany and she’s a narcissist so who knows. 

     

    But shes who she is. Deep down I suspect she knows she is pretty messed up. 

    Carole thinks her whole slacker thing is cute. It’s not.  And in light of watching her shame women when she felt her career was attaced it’s rich watching her act like an entitled inexperienced writer the last few seasons.  She thinks we are going to find this adorable. It’s not. 

    I am a writer. I procrastinate. I still get my deadlines. Then again I am just a mom in the suburbs these days with just two more kids than Carole. Three if u can’t my fur child. 

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  8. I am not in the Bethany Fan Club. Truthfully she has always annoyed me even in her previous incarnation on this show. The past two seasons she has made me stabby with her behavior. Perhaps it was her work In Puerto Rico mellowed me out but I am softening to her. I am Boricua. The response by the US was DISGUSTING. It was and continues to be  deplorable. My essay to my upcoming writing workshop was on Puerto Rico and our history of trauma as a byproduct of the US treatment of us. 

    Rant over. 

    I have always disliked Carole. Always. And I know why now. She is always on. If anything good can be said about these NYC broads including Miss Bethany and Lunatic Maoner- These bitches are  themselves. Asshole, warts, horror stories, they try to conceal it but their true selves come through. Carole not so much.  I always say carole as a wannabe carrie B. who truthfully watching Sex and the City as a grownup (not the 23 year old I was when it debuted) Carrie Season 4 on was the worst. Her thing with Adam always made her insufferable and now its magnified. Girl stop. Please. Stop. 

    Luanne? The hancuffs trick? That's why I cant quit the Countess. 

    7 minutes ago, stacyasp said:

    Did you see the fit on those jeans?? The crotch was ill fitting on most of them. 

    Those jeans were DREADFUL. She should have gone "no fashions" at  fashion party by She by Sheree. 

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  9. On 6/1/2018 at 10:07 PM, ButterQueen said:

    I love collecting gift bags.  

    All the talk of the white elephant game has made me misty.  My mom always bought the BEST gifts and we fought hard over them.  LOL. She passed away in October, and Christmas will never be the same.

    I'm so sorry. I lost my mom on her bday March of last year. Love and Light ButterQueen

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  10. On 5/4/2018 at 6:01 PM, Rap541 said:

    Agreed, and it's a rare case where I think the kid in question got the best features of both parents. Avery is a lovely looking woman who seems to have all the family smarts without the stupid idiot cheating gene (Mario) or the batshittery crazy eyes insanity (Ramona)

    Avery and Noelle (Atlanta) are my fave housewives kids. A lot of people like briana but I can’t stabd that sour puss and her psychotic husband. 

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  11. 5 hours ago, ryebread said:

    Bingo. Carole is a smart woman who likes to play dumb. She lived with a chef who specialized in Sexy Salads, but lavender in food? Whadat? This is why I knew the friendship between her and Bethenny would eventually crash and burn. Beth doesn't suffer fools gladly.

    The friendship between Carole and Tinsley has a much longer shelf life. Both, smart women who like to act like dingbats when it suits them or the people they are with. Why?

    I don't know if Tins is smart but shes not the moron the Oc bitches are or even some of the beverly hills hos. Carole is really irritating with that shit and her humble bragging. That said I know alot of people think Icky Vicky's daughter is great but I have always shipped for Avery. Most of the kids on NYC are decent folks. Avery and Noelle ( Russell and Cynthia Bailey's kid) are the ho wofes kids I think who are decent folk. 

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  12. This. What bothers me about carole is she comes off as trying to be a dingbat because she is trying to be, " beautful dumb girl" " Smart nerdy intellectual" and " Cool Girl". Its too much girl, just be you and live your best life. Smoke your weed and date young guys.  But then this is her job and its what she does for coin so yeah still hear, wine in hand watching lol. 

    Bethany for all her issues is very smart. And for the most part even tho she hides her life on the show to be more favorable? Yeah but she then can't helps herself and outs it online. Bethany is always Bethany. Ramona entitled, ass always Ramona. Dorinda always Dorinda drunk and ready to rumble. Carole? Who knows who she is. 

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  13. 11 hours ago, JD5166 said:

    Why is Carole wearing that at lunch? She looks horrible, her hair is just not good shorter or that color. She and Tinsley’s little girl sista act is crazy-crazy. 

     

    Also, f-u direct tv which goes bad every time it rains...gonna be a long summer. I can’t comment on the sit down because it’s just not playing. The only time I miss NJ is when the tv isn’t going to work because....rain! ?

    I am now a resident of NJ after a life as a born and bred New Yorker. Its nice. Of Course now we are considering a move for work. 

    Back to these broads. Tins is leo and we be passionate but shes ridiculous. I also have a theory why some of these ladies dislike her. Her life mirrors what their kid's lives could look like. Rich, vapid, eternally childish. Kinda like sonia's entitled ass minus the rich part. 

    Ramona has the worst taste in everything. Her delusion in thinking she has the "best taste" is admirable tho.  That bitch commits.  

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  14. 6 minutes ago, Keywestclubkid said:

    Does Sonja have proof that Tinsley was using her ex for money? That he was bankrolling her life? That he paid for that gift? No but she sure has hell insenuauted it don’t hold Sonja to some different standards she talks mad shit and whatever she may or may not have done to get dumped by her husband over 20 years ago isn’t on these girls and shouldn’t be used has a crutch to excuse her behavior 

    None of her business how tins gets her coins. Is she serious with that? Especially her that is so stupid with her own money? Smh 

    One thing I don’t like is the slut shaming these hiefers do. And no one looks at their own Skeletons. 

    All of them do that nonsense. 

    One that I am shears prepared to hate eventually is Ramaona. Strangely i never hate her until probably the vacation episodes. But then I see her with the “help”. Those men weren’t even handymen and her ass had them doing stuff like she called them from Angie’s list. Who does that? Moaner of course. And she’s the worst dressed but I think her bodysuit was Zara at bethany’s Dinner. I have a similar one. 

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  15. 59 minutes ago, WhoaWhoKnew said:

    IMO, yelling to the point of changing color, getting 5 cm from someone's face, pointing, and slobbering is aggressive. Bethenny is an asshole, but she's never had a Hulk-like transformation like we see from Dorinda.

    I think Bethany is a better drunk than Dorinda (I mean who isn’t ) but I think Bethany is way nastier than Dorinda is. Part of why I don’t think she is as mean as Bethany is how she just loses her shit. It’s real and it’s her. For better or worse. She would have done great on the real world that Dorinda 30 years ago.

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  16. 1 minute ago, lampwick said:

    Hmmm, maybe it’s a regional thing, but I have zero problems with Dorinda’s rants.  Yeah, maybe they seem “mean”, but calling people out is considered “mean” these days.  I’m a midwesterner, but could be mistaken for an eastcoaster - I’ve been questioned many a time why I’m so angry about something only to be confused because I wasn’t angry...I was having a spirited conversation/debate with someone, and it comes across as aggressive.  When others see unhinged, I see extreme emphasis.  I can’t remember a single Dorinda rant that was bs; she snaps the truth when she has had her fill of bs.  That is damn good reality tv because that’s how people respond in real life - the problem is that reality tv isn’t reality tv anymore because the participants are too aware of the cameras and the consequences so they temper their behavior.  Dorinda is a reminder of how good reality tv used to be.   To many, she may be extra, but I’m living for it.  Also, and it can’t be said enough, Sonya needs help 100x more than Dorinda.  Dorinda has admitted she has temper issues; Sonya has never admitted as much as an exaggeration if I remember correctly.  That, plus, even without alcohol, Sonya’s delusions still persist - that is scary stuff (unless this is all an act for tv).  

    This. I am Also viewed as “aggressive “ when it’s just passion. The only one I view as truly too damn aggressive is Miss Bethany. She wouldn’t be screaming at me but once before she would learn that no. Not. The. Way. Honey. 

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  17. I have never really like Carole. She is a leo like me so I wanted to but she just comes across as smug, fake, self deprecating ahole. I remember all her “Sonia young” comments towards Luanne and then got all bent out of shape when she got shite for Adam. She does have cute clothes. So there’s that. I also find her unfortunate looking and older looking than her years with all the fillers she has done. She was prettier without all that IMO.

    I have never been crazy about Bethany and her antics but her wardrobe is stella. Always has been. 

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  18. 6 minutes ago, ghoulina said:

    Welcome! 

    Thank you for sharing your story, and I'm sorry about your loss. I totally see where you're coming from. We ALL have "something" in our past, so it's useless to try and compare. But I feel Dorinda just doesn't want to hear the EXCUSES anymore. Neither do I. 

    I agree that she often becomes pretty unhinged. She should probably be seeking help herself. But damned if I just can't quit her and crazy ways. 

    I think I have found my people. Thank you. :-) Yes Dorinda needs help herself, grief is a hard, long journey and it looks different for everyone. 

    Dorinda def shouldn’t be on a reality show but she is my favorite housewife. “Back that shit up and back it up now.” I yell that at my Apple TV when it starts acting a fool. My fiancé can’t stsnd Carole (he mocks me for watching these shows but damn if his ass ain’t sneaking a peek or two or 100) 

    Sonia used to be fun now she’s just sad and depressing AF. 

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  19. 58 minutes ago, ghoulina said:

    I can totally understand why Carole will never be cool with Lu. What I don't get is why she feels that Bethenny needs to have her back about that 100%, but she isn't willing to do the same vs. Ramona. It just seems rather hypocritical to me. 

     

    I didn't think that was Dorinda's intent - to compare. I think it was more about Sonja USING her traumas as excuses for everything. I felt like Dorinda was basically saying, "I buried a husband, but you don't see me using that as a reason for all my behavior." And she really doesn't. 

    I don't think I could sit there, either, and listen to people coddle Sonja - "oh, well, you've been through so much lately, honey."

    First time poster. You guys are hilarious and the best part of these ordeal of the housewives. NYC is my fave tho and its not only cuz I am a New Yorker. This. Sonia has been using her divorce as an excuse for EVERYTHING since she started. Its not cute and it can be triggering for many. My fiance has a friend whose sister was murdered several years ago. They weren't on speaking terms. He is obviously hurt and feels tremendous guilt about it YET he refuses to get help and instead is bitter, sarcastic and frankly toxic to be around. I lost both my parents a year ago in the SAME year. I am sometimes full of guilt and rage but I stay away from people on those days. I seek help. He just uses as a crutch and my fiance and others enable him. His directed that toxic behavior around me and my kid and I reacted similar to Dorinada. its a sore point in our relationship because of it. He won't check him. My motto is seek therapy or stay your ass at home. Don't bring that shit to others. 

    That said besides that Dorinda is cray cray but I love watching her. She's unhinged in the best way. 

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