Bini is probably thinking he's going to make it big because he's seen it in the American movies plus he's on a reality tv show seen by millions...I can understand him dreaming big right now...he excited, this is a new life for him! .at least he has ambition...I think Ari took him to her hometown to not only share where she grew up which is normal. but her bragging went too far...saying they could never afford to live there, if she was bought up well enough I guess she may have somewhat of a good education to fall back on, and could start from the bottom with a career, she just needs the confidence to do it...or at least support Bini's dreams...the problem is it will take a while for Bini to even get any kind of work given his visa status and they aren't married yet. What they should be doing is going down to the court house and getting married asap, they could had gotten married in Africa even.(but thaat wouldn't give them another 90 day fiance show)..given Ari doesn't work or maybe not planning too I guess her parents will be the sponsors....if not then Ari needs a job asap...unless she has another person willing to take that 10 year risk.