Well stated - Nice to see you back. Before Callie goes totally off in one direction (adopted by the Fosters or nothing) I’d like to see her realize that she has two moms (three if Jill’s expression when she sees Sophia and Callie sleeping in the same bed means anything), two dads – Robert and Donald (as I believe Donald loves her as his own daughter), two brothers, two sisters, Rita, and even Wyatt, who all love her dearly. She is a lucky girl in that respect.
In the show, she's what 16 years old. So I wouldn't expect too much from her character - although she's got more than a typical 16 year olds life experience behind her. It would be nice to see the show spend some time on a few things an episode/season rather than the blitzkrieg of 20-30 second interactions between the characters: Like Callie realizing that she has all sorts of family that cares about her, coming to the understanding that none of them will ever abandon her, and how she comes to balance all that out. There's a whole season worth of plot right there without Brallie/Wyatt/whatever that imo would still keep the 12-17 year old girls interest. This has been mentioned before but the amount of data/drama that comes at you every episode leaves little room for other than superficial character development.
And to that point, I think all the characters in the show have a place. Ex. the interaction between Stef/Lena seems to be a good portrayal of an alternate relationship/parenting that I haven't seen on TV before. Made me think of how a same sex couple would deal with family issues - image that - just like everyone else - poorly at times and great at others.
However, the show started with Callie with an emphasis on Brandon (goes with her to find Jude, etc.) so that's where I've always seen the focus. All of the characters could amount to something if given a chance. Ten seconds of Jesus texting Haley and a one or two word reply from Stef isn't really giving that character much of a chance. Just look at the reaction to Marianna's conversation with Lena about a "real" daughter or Rita/Callie having a whole paragraph of "why wouldn't you want something from Robert" vs. a couple of sentences. Even a minute or two where they get some time to really connect and that moment just shines compared to the rest.
I thought the show started out well and I accepted the blitz of drama as needed to get it off the ground but it's time to slow down. Let's see how sweeping Brandon/Callie's feelings aside by Lena/Stef pressing full speed ahead with the adoption really affected both, how Jesus deals with being in a controlling relationship - with the guy being on the controlled end - nice twist, what's really up with Sophia - why is she so depressed/obsessed, etc. Just too much going on too fast. Although I watch the show, they've lost my attention because so little gets developed each episode.
YMMV of course.