Ed take a good long look at yourself. Of course you’re her meal ticket. Accept it and move on or break up. All you have to offer is that ticket to America, you think she’s enamored of your rugged good looks and charisma?
I can’t figure out if Yolanda has a regional accent I’m not familiar with or she just has an different speaking pattern. I find myself annoyed when she talks and it’s not just the blatant stupidity.