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It should just be accepted now that Darcey desperately wants to be on TV. Her acting isn't even believable at this point. Always talking about marriage and the crying is off putting. I dont want to see her on any of the next seasons or spin-offs.

What do you think would happen to him? Unfortunately I couldn't catch it on TV, and saw some clips on Youtube and of course uncultured trash in the comments think that Akyni and her family want the geeks money or expected him to bring gifts....typical racial stereotypes. When you go across the world to meet your girlfriends family and stay in their home, your ass should be bringing a gift, even if it's flowers, some food etc....as a thank you for your hospitality, nice to meet you gift. You can tell some people have never been anywhere or know anyone from outside of their country. Its basic manners. The racist just jumps out of people when they see a Black woman on TV. I'm personally mad that Akyni is stuck with a man that eats twinkies. She's a whole fool. Also acting like shes never seen a white person before...lmao...

If it were up to Angela, throwing an "African" themed wedding would end up being a stereotypical racist mess. So no......its not up to her at all. Michael and Michael alone. A Nigerian wedding is a traditional ceremony that this woman wouldnt have any idea about nor know where to start.... Angela and a stoned guy from the backwoods would end up with the same results. I dont want to see them having a traditional wedding. I'll throw up.

I cant help but cringe at a lot of your statements that you're making and conclusions you're jumping to about different religions and cultures. Almost coming across as arrogance with ignorance. The clothes Michael wears are typical clothing men wear in Nigeria. It has nothing to do with being a Muslim...how on earth did you jump to that conclusion?

The only reason why they may "have to" change their career is because in order to practice (medically) in certain countries you need to have passed their specific educational requirements. I also wouldn't say that American's and other westerners are "overqualified" to teach English. Do these doctors have the ability to practice in sometimes very difficult situations without the tools they are taught to use back home? No, so they are under qualified to be doctors in other countries just based on that. This is one reason why (especially in the UK) medical students like to do their electives abroad to get further experience. Quite a ridiculous statement to claim he "won't make it" as if you know him. The fact that he is young and can enroll back in school with no real adult/children responsibilities is an even better reason why he wold make it. US citizens should have a priority in getting jobs...sounds about MAGA to me. Him going back to school and getting a job n his field shouldn't be affecting your precious American system. Theres no shortage for people in his field.

Amber is hopelessly pathetic. Watching her cry over a man that doesnt want to be at home, and hear her say she just wants him to be with her and hold her? So disturbing. This girl needs to get some self esteem. Shes a lost cause.....yes her mother abandoned her (her parents are trash too) but at what point do you look at your life and realise you need to change it to better yourself? I hate seeing her on screen begging a man that doesnt like her to like her. Jamie and Beth.....someones going to jail and another person might end up in hospital.

Same. And it's never gone past me that these people are also lying or not telling the whole truth about their previous relationship history. If you're not ready to put your all into an experiment that has you doing something so extreme, what the hell were you thinking coming on this show? Considering you had the confidence to apply for the show and go through the whole process, there must be some part of your personality that is impulsive. Why is she suddenly now cautious and going slow when youre already married. May as well go all in..but I guess they wont because there is the option of divorce. Should have joined a dating website instead. Its also how I feel about Iris....you're married now. Why are you still holding on to your virginity as if you'll lose your very being without it. Im scared when she comes on the screen because I'm fearful its going to become something about her virginity. I cant even talk about the white couples because they're a hot mess. They've put their all in, as they seem impulsive, confused and messy AF. Both couples are just disasters. Beth and Jamie...pretty sure one of the will end up calling the police at some point in the relationship. Its just my opinion. I'm not trying to sour the mood sis.

Yeah she seems quite confident in the fact that he likes her. I also agree, Greg needs to calm down and take another approach. If she does like him and is really taking it slow, perhaps a cool/cold approach will make her change her behaviour towards him? Honestly...I dont know what it's going to take, but no-one should be jumping through hoops. I feel like everyone on this show should have been dismissed and given the details of an actual therapist instead. None of these people seem like they should be on this show right now.

Why was my last comment deleted? Let me repeat myself: I only listed two shows as examples because I'm not going to write an epistle in this forum. Ma'am I'm in my 20's and not 2 years old, so I'm very well aware that colourism happens in many places outside of Love and Hip Hop (lol). I just think colourism is absolutely not the reason for how Deonna is acting when she, he and WE know Greg would drink her bathwater. She just doesn't like him! I also said, that the topic of colourism can absolutely be used in other forums on here for other TV shows because black women aren't represented well or properly in the media. We are done a huge disservice and I would be backing you up because your comment about lack of representation is true. It's also something non black people need to know exists too. However its not happening on this show.

I didnt say that colourism isn't real. It is real. Nowhere did I say that you said brown skinned women won't get married. NOWHERE. You said: I mean look at all types of media these days. If a black girl is a love interest, she's either light skinned with straight or curly hair, or if she's dark skinned she's wearing a weave. Maybe Deonna in some way believes that shit and is just waiting for Greg to tell her she's not good enough. In many different ways, MULTIPLE times. I think that it's a ridiculous statement. You said that because a certain type of woman isn't shown on TV, that means Deonna is scared Greg will tell her she's not good enough. I'm telling you, that grown women are not watching the Real Housewives of New York, Love and Hip Hop and being scared that their man or any man is not going to like them because we didnt see ourselves on TV. Lack of representation is an absolute issue. But Im telling you that is clearly not the case here. Deonna isn't scared that a man, who is all up under her, has been told to STOP complimenting her, who said he's attracted to her numerous times, and wants to be more intimate with her - doesnt like her because he doesn't regularly see dark skin black women on TV. LMAO. This is NOT the case here. She knows Greg like what he sees. We need to stop throwing such serious issues at situations where its clearly not needed. You're going to have non black people thinking, non black representation on TV affects the way we eat apples. She doesnt like him. Its as clear as day.

Thank you. I'm not getting all this "she's moving slowly, to be cautious"....erm, shes married....she's just made the quickest move in the history of moves. She's going slowly because she doesn't know if she likes him. The comment she made about seeing him with his friends, was even more telling. How do you tell someone that you were intimate with them, because you saw how they were with his friends? Thats creepy and I bet Greg's going to have to do random things and jump through hoops just to get approval here and there. smh. I was thinking that Amber needs an intervention, but seeing her on Unfiltered makes me think she's bounced back from this traumatic experiment quite well. I do hope they divorced because Amber or Matt need therapy more than anything.

Newbie here! The commentary is hilarious. Neurochick......I'm a black woman and kind of disturbed at the number of times you felt the need to post your comment about black girls not being love interests on TV. While your statement about love interests being non dark skin with natural hair might be true, I can say that I completely disagree with your statement about it impacting a WHOLE grown woman. Most non black models look like corpses, and my idea of beauty, along with men of my culture, does not represent the masses, so why would that affect her self esteem? I'm a black woman in my late 20's and NEVER in my life has TV ever made me feel like I'm undeserving of a partner in real life. TV beauty ideals are not real life ideals. You really think black women are sulking and scared that they won't be liked because the latest TV show female lead isn't dark skin with curly hair? Lol. WTH? God forbid men have their own minds and tastes, otherwise the only women who would be married are women who look like people on TV. *rolls eyes* My boyfriend, like most black men, loves the typical black girl shape, he doesnt care about my hair. What black woman is watching a show and thinking they can't get a man because of it? Nah boo. Please lets not make you the spokesperson for all the black people here, because your statement is wild. The only vibe I've got and continue to get from her is that she doesnt like Greg. She's not attracted to him. We've all seen her behaviour in girls who are being pursued by a guy who they have put in the friend zone and just about tolerating. Maybe she thinks he's her last chance so shes putting up with him. Somehow people are putting her behaviour down to other things, when it's clear she just that aint into him. Greg really likes her and is using this opportunity to test out what he learned in therapy lol. He's literally begging like Keith Sweat for more affection and it's sad to see. I hope Deonna isn't pregnant, because she clearly has issues that needs to work out and isnt really into Greg.